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ok this is probably the most asked question EVER. lol, but what do i do about guys. i mean, whenever is see a nice guy at my church...the mall...idk around, i ALWAYS want to talk to them, but i never do. I wanted to know how to talk to guys without feeling stupid or embarassed...or without having them think im a freak or like a terrorist. lol. but sometimes they are surrounded by girls. Like this one kid i saw today at my church, he was hott and really funny, but he was SURROUNDED by girls that were his friends. i wanted to talk to him soo much, but i couldnt do it. i need to be more comfortable around guys, but how do i do it??
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ok it sounds like you need to relax and just be yourself and even if they are surrounded by Girls u should just talk to them to like just walk up and say hi how are you and that should start a converstation... hope i helped u love ya danielle
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I think you should just tell yourself that he isn't going to consider you to be a freak or terrorist. Most guys love it when a girl approaches them. If you don't know how to start a conversation, maybe ask them where they got their pants/watch/shirt/shoes/etc. Ask something like "Wow, those are really nice looking pants. Where did you get them?". When he answers, just go from there. Besta Luck
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dont be shy, just be yourself try to sit by him if you can or when hes alone say hi to him and ask him what his name is.... dont act nervous just act like he is your best friend. Dont go too fast just try to get to kno him. Always look good at church to catch his eye.. who knows maybe he will make HIS move! good luck:)
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Woohoo! Shy girls rock!! (I'm a shy girl, thus, I rock!! lol just kidding..) No, really. I'm shy too. Try and find something in common with this dude, get a girl-friend to go up to him with you so ya'll can talk, get his AIM screen name and e-mail. I know how you feel. Even around my closest guy friends sometimes I don't talk at all, I'm afraid to go up to them, etc. Thankfully, they know this, and will typically come up to me, say "hi" first, join me, invite me, etc. But, I still had to get up the courage to go up and introduce myself. (Don't you love group settings where everyone introduces themselves at the same time?) But I guess all you need to do really is get their AIM screen names and e-mail addresses. I find it easier to talk online than to talk in person because your facial expressions don't show! (it rocks because you can be totally mad, but act really happy, and then, you're happy pretty soon!) It makes you harder to read, you could be hiding something, and they'd never know. So, try and get the AIM and e-mail address. Take it to God. Pray about it. God will give you the courage to go up and talk to some dude. SMILE!! :D That makes you seem so much friendlier if you have a good attitude and facial expression. (and if you don't want people to notice you, pretend to go to sleep. And if you're mad and want people to look at you and run, scowl really deeply...) Pray. That's the best thing you can do. God bless!
-FunnyCide
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Hey!!
I have also been in this position but I overcame it and so can you. Just act normal, like yourself...be flirty but make sure he doesn't have a girlfriend first. If you can make friends with the girls you'll probably be friends, or more, with him. But don't use his friends.
Lily
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Find any way possible to sit near them or be around them. Sometimes it's usually better if it's just the two of you so he's not occupied talking to someone else but if you do hear something they're talking about comment on it if you have something intresting to say about it and they'll willingly let you in their conversation. but if you're okwardly sitting or standing near a guy alone, make a comment on something if it's too weird to just start talking to him. That way you can get up a conversation then ask him about himself and stuff like that. After that, you'll know eachother and they'll probably start aproaching you. = )
Good luck with these guys, x0x Jordy|♥
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