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friend or foe??


Question Posted Saturday February 26 2005, 7:33 pm

umm my friend who isnt really now used to abuse me and my other friends.. when i finally got the guts to tell her to stop she gets mad... she hits u so hard and it makes you feel like you want to die. shes hurt a lot of my other friends to and she even hurts guyys=.. well so anyways she hit me really hard on the head and i didnt say anything so then she says i dont think she felt that and kills me with two more slaps... so i went home crying and of course my parents fournd out. my mom accualy went over and talked to them. she doesnt even care and now i think she is going to tell everyone else a whole different story even though i have witnesses. also she is friends with most of my other friends too even though im better friends with them then she is. i am just scared that no one will believe me or she might accually hurt me again. im so scared i dont even no wat to do now... HELP!!!

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H0LLYWANTST0HELP answered Sunday February 27 2005, 7:02 pm:
This girl is NOT a true friend! Believe me, I had a friend we'll call her Jessica and she used to beat up my other friend "Kellie" I told Kellie exactly what I'm telling you and Kellie told Jessica that and Jessica ignored her. I think when the bully finds out that you don't care about her, she stops. It may work for you, lets hope for the best!!

-Holly

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poisonkissesox answered Saturday February 26 2005, 8:33 pm:
If she keeps bullying you, it's best to go to a counselor and talk to them. They WILL help you. They'd actually probably put her in Anger Mangament or something. And you shouldn't worry about what anyone else thinks. It only matters what you think about yourself.

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ImHere4u answered Saturday February 26 2005, 8:27 pm:
This girl has problems and I'm not even kidding. This may sound way over the top of what you think but you need to tella counsler or have someone call her parents about this. Ignore what ever she has to say too. Don't gever her the time of the day. It's nto worth it. Your friends will understand and everything will be fine.

Just ignore any rumors, x0x Jordy|♥

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BeachBabe71919 answered Saturday February 26 2005, 8:06 pm:
Hey!

Ok...this is a VERY serious problem. If this girl continues to do this you REALLY need to tell a teacher, counsler, or even the police. I really hope you and your friends can work out this problem.

Lily

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missmsk8 answered Saturday February 26 2005, 8:00 pm:
omg dump her ignore her do any thing u can to leave her out of ur life! try to advise her other friends to do the same. wuts the point of hanging out with a friend who hurts you?!?!?!? i'd say shes a foe without a doubt hope i helped!
~Dani~

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Karen answered Saturday February 26 2005, 7:58 pm:
This girl is definitely not your friend. You don't deserve to be abused by her. If she goes and tells people lies about what happened, tell everyone that they aren't true and tell your side of the story. If you think this girl is going to hurt you, have people be with you all the time and bring a cell phone with you so you can call someone. This girl needs help and if she keeps abusing people, imagine what she will do to her kids, that's if she gets married or finds a guy who likes abusive women. Talk to your school conselor and tell her/him about this girl so they can keep an eye on her. You need to ignore this girl and if she does anything else, report her.
-Karen

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annka answered Saturday February 26 2005, 7:47 pm:
shes not your friend...talk to your friends and see who they like more and make them pick between you and her..if they pick you then ur set and just ignore that girl ...if they pick her make new friends forget about them...there not your true friends if they abuse you

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FlaWlessMonoLith answered Saturday February 26 2005, 7:44 pm:
hit her back and laugh and start treating her like that haha it could be amusingly funny

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