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SWEET REVENGE
Ok, so theres a guy in my class named *Justin* (name changed) and I HATE him. He always makes fun of me liking his best friend, he stinks like Michael Jackson's butt, and he always tries to do things to humiliate me. I wanna get revenge on him, you know, give him a taste of his own medicine. But..I dont have a flamethrower or a pistol or anything. I'm on a budget. so PLEASE HELP ME!
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VOODOO.DOLLS
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Voodoo Dolls,
Stay away from Voodoo!! You're sick of Justin making fun of you, but you probably don't know why he keeps on doing it, do you? You probably make it very clear that you do not like what he's doing, you don't like it that he's making fun of you. (no one likes to be made fun of) And you want to get revenge. Does that make sense according to the Golden Rule? "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you". Now, while he's making fun of you, according to the Golden Rule, you can make fun of him too. But by doing that, he has a right to make fun of you right back.. and if you get revenge, he has the right to get revenge on you. That's not what you want. It's good that you don't have a flamethrower, but I have a pistol.. and a rifle.. and a shotgun.. and.. ok, but that's not the point. Just ignore him. That's his medicine. Justin gets pleasure out of making fun of you because you don't like it! If you make it clear that you could care less, he'll eventually leave you alone. You say, "He always makes fun of me liking his best friend...", enhance that! Say, "so? You've got a nice best friend, it's my business if I like him or not, thanks." Or you could just ignore him. Don't say anything back, don't look at him, pretend he doesn't exist. (I know how hard this is, I've dealt with this before) Tell someone (teacher, parent) about him teasing you, and maybe they can (and/or will) help you with this problem. Give it to God. He'll know what to do! God bless
-FunnyCide
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No, don't get revenge on this guy, it sounds like he likes you. Some guys tease girls and always try to humiliate them if they like them, that's how some are. Just talk to him and tell him that you want him to stop wasting your time and his by teasing you. This guy is only probably teasing you for liking his best friend because he is jealous that you don't like him. Well, if you still want to get revenge on him, find out a really good secret about him and spread it. Yes, that's an easy one but it could work. Just try to think of something that won't get you into trouble.
-Karen
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might i suggest rat poison? no, jk. he probably likes you. guys are really weird like that. this guy was real ass to me last year and then he told me that he liked me, but i was so mad at him already i was like "leave me alone!" lol. good luck with him. lol.
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VOODOO.DOLLS-
Woa well first of all dont do anything overboard or dangerous or violent cause that will just get you in trouble (*COUGH* Flamethrower, pistol -- i dunno if your kidding there or not, i never really was good on the whole sarcasm thing and telling when people are but i'll just assume you were). Maybe he's just jealous that you like his best freind and not him!!! who knos? But when he says mean things, dont let him know it effects you, cause that just fuels his fire and will make him try to make you madder.. ALSO 2 wrongs dont make a right! But im sorry this probably doesnt help you at all.. but if you do get a way to get revenge, dont do it 'till like APril Fools, so then its nto too much of a big deal
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dear revenge,
he simply is a coward. he might like you, or he might just enjoy taunting you because he love to see you get mad. other times, he just might have problems! but you should just try to ignore him for a while, you never know what goes on in someone elses life or head.
but if you can't help ignoring him, here are some suggestions...
*tell, you might be considered a tattle-tale but hey, at least you don't get detention or worse...
*threaten him. not with weapons though! just find out some secret of his (maybe by asking his friend)simply tell him that if he won't stop taunting/teasing/making gossip about you/ etc. that you'll tell him "his little secret"
if those ^ dont' work, simply IM/email me and im sure we'll have something up our sleeve! <3
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VOODOO.DOLLS,
DON'T do anything drastic!! If *Justin* bugs you all the time it probably means that he likes you. Just talk to him and ask him to stop, if he doesn't tell an adult, a teacher or a parent.
Lily
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