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This girl at school hates me and i have no idea why. When she said that she was sorry for being rude, she added "but i still don't like you". i asked her why and she said, "i've heard stories about you from my friends". Do you have any idea how i can change my reputation around without being a suck-up and being marked as a fake?

I dont know why this girl's opinion matters so much, for one, but if it really does, try to find out what she's heard, then explain the truth about it. If she doesnt listen to you, then she's basically a bitch and isn't worth your time, ok? and, uh, just for my own info, who is this?

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this is the person w/ the henry question. i want to say thanks for the advice. i am not one of ur yearbook buddies, i am a random eigth grader that read your previous advice to other people and decided that it was good advice.

OH, Ok. Thanks for askinggg me :)

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this is the same person w/ the Henry question (again, not his name). He's nice, but he shows no interest in me. However, he has never gone out with a girl. I'm thinking about not asking him out, since it is either two things. 1. he has no interest of that sort towards me at all 2.he's too shy. In my opinion, that will result in rejection. Is my decision right?
By the way, i am an eigth grader at mckamy middle school.

WELLLL, if you say he's never gone out with a girl before, I sure hope that doesn't mean he's gone out with a guy. JK, JK. Anyways, If he shows no intrest in you now, try flirting a bit or something. If he's completely oblivious, he's a moron. Maybe he's just not mature enough to date.... You never know. So, are you one of my old yearbook buddies, someone i've known for a while, or just some random eighth grader?

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there's a guy at school, let's say his name is Henry (not his name), and he is a nice, sort of shy boy. I really like him, but he knows i like him and hasn't done anything about it. He acts natural around me. Should i try anything, like ask him out?

You said it yourself that he was shy, maybe he just doesn't have the guts to ask you or something. You could ask him and hope for the best, but I'd probably try to get some signals that he likes you back first. And you know, I could probably help you more if I knew who you were...

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i have a boyfriend .. and i really like him and he likes me. so we're good together. but then there's this guy that i used to like a lot. but he had to choose and he didn't choose me. so i moved on. and its to the point where the girl he did choose dumped him and now he has these feelings for me. and i feel bad b/c i kind of feel the same way. wat do i do? stay with my bf and keep the other guy on hold? let him down easy and when i come out of my relationship like him again? help!

15/f

wow. that's a tough one. The best suggestion i can give you is to go with the boy you like most. it would be wrong make one guy basically wait for you to get sick of your other boy. if you like the other boy more that you like your bf, then the answer is there. if you like your bf more, tell the other guy that. you cant put a boy on hold, although that would be the easiest thing to do. i hope that kinda made sence.

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is there anything wrong with naming a guy cat snuggles?????????????????????????????????
aka. snuggle-sox

There is everything wrong with naming a male cat snuggles. You're supposed to boost weak aninmals egos. For example, a few of us in my PAP biology class chose to name a hampster moose, beacause a moose is a big, powerful animal (unlike a hampster).
You name your male cat snugles, you may as well take away his manhood.
I suggest Tyranasaurus Rex, Buffalo, Gorilla, or Spotted Tree Frog (the poisonous kind).

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hi alicia! =)
i really like one of my guy friends and were really close. i can be myself around him and stuff and its cool! but i really want him to ask me out or something. he always likes other girls though and i dont know if hed like me as more than a friend! i want to ask him out soooo bad but i dont want him to say no. should i just live with it? hopefully we will see each other soon cause i never even see you in the hallways or anything!!! fmhs is so big!! last year was fun. =)

hey! i have an idea of who this might be. i think you should go for it, if you have the guts and like him that much, ask him out. the worst he can say is no, and then, that would be his loss, wouldnt it? there's soooo many other boys out there. you said yourself, FMHS is HUGE! that means lots of new boyssss. if you do ever see me in the halls or something, say hi! that way i can be sure i'm right about who this is =)

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ok, well, i have a boyfiend. im gonna dump him next time i get to talk to him. i just dont like him anymore. now that im gonna be single, theres two different guys who like me and i could go with either. i dont know what to do! i like them both! anyone have tips on how to decide?

that's really mean. you dont go out with a guy who likes you if you don't like them. and to break up with a guy, and skip the whole single thing because there are more guys out there is pretty cruel. sorry to be so mean, but how would you feel if you randomly read that question?

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This past year, my hair was wavy/curly (as it naturally is) and always up in a ponytail or bun with tons of frizz. 2 days ago, I got a ceramic straightener. Other than straigtening my hair, what can I do to segregate myself from myself in the past? Also, how can I look older without being a slut or looking like my mom? I'm entering high school and that means hot guys!!

haha, that sounds like me, except i'm not so worried what other people think of me. just dress more mature, shop at older stores like forever21 and express, that alone will make you look a bit older.

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we've been out of school for a long time and i didnt do one thing with a friend. if one person is doind something with someone already they wont let you do anything with them =( they wont get a big group of girls to hang with or anything. EVERYBODY has something to do and they wont let me come i mean i thought i had real friends but... and my so called "best friend" doesnt talk to me online and in her shout outs she is puttin' me at the bottom of her list i mean i cant stand it with these girls they dont talk to me or call me i call them n they always say i cant do anything n then i look at thier a/m and its hanging with my girls or something like that. HOW DO I GET "REAL" FRIENDS??? PLEASE HELP I WILL RATE HIGH FOR GOOD ANSWERES.

ok, maybe you need to be the one initiating things. and this whole "shout out" thing, don't worry so much. maybe she thinks you aren't interested in being freiends with her since you havent asked her to do anything. sorry to be so harsh, but you really sound desperate and it would be best for you to take action, not come to an advice column and whine. don't expect to always be invited.

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you know those fun surveys.."how old are you..who was the last person you kissed" bla bla etc
anyone have a website on wherre they are?

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=sUrvEyS_aRe_awEsOmE

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my best friend, my family, and I, are going on a cruz in about two weeks to Mexico. My best friend and I were thinking about bringing some alcohol but we're scared that we're going to get caught when they check our luggage. We were going to put it in like two water bottles. What do you guys think? Do you think we'll get caught? Thanks

first of all, it's not a "cruz" it's a cruise. to answer your question, no, i dont think you'll get caught. my parents and our friends all bring alcohol onboard disguised as other things.

vodka- water bottle
whiskey- listerine bottle
tequila- listerine bottle

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can you help me get my friend to stop acting like shes all that around other people and she acts her self around me. im a girl and im 11 years old

you're not allowed on this site sweetheart. come back in about... 2 years.

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OK, I was on vacation for the last 4 days and I went swimming each of them. This pool had way too much chlorine in it. Anyway, I've been washing my hair as best as possible, but it still feels sticky and strange. What can I do?

really really moisturizing conditioner. I'm a swimmer, every morning, 2 hours, in a way over chlorinated pool, i know what i'm talking about. also, tips for next time, after you swim, put regular conditioner in your hair, like, immediately. it helps ALOT.

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I enjoy making AIM buddy icons. There is one site that I always submit at. THat site is dollbuddieicons.net. Today when I went to the website instead of the usual home page coming up this message came up:

PHP is not enabled on your account.

What does this mean? And can I do to get it to work? Thank you.

iconator.com is better, submit there. i do =D

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Ok, I'm on a competative swim team and I already have dry/damaged hair. The chlorine that gets in my hair after every day's practice is killin my hair! What are some brands of special shampoo's that specificly get chlorine out of your hair and where can I find them?
*I havent found anything @ Wal-Mart, Kroger, Publix, or Eckerds* I'll RatE BuncHezzZ!

why is it that whenever people are talking about their swim team's they have to mention that it's "competative" First of all, it is not "competitive" it is competitive. Second of all, if you have to make a point of it being competitive, then it probably isn't really all that competitive at all.
Anyways, about your problem, I am on a real swim team and I suggest looking at Sally Beauty Supply. I don't use any special stuff and my hair is fine, it's really about conditioner used regularyly because chlorine will dry your hair out. It isn't so much the fact that you can't get the chlorine out, it's more that you dont re-moisturize. Hope I helped.

Alicia

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Ok this is a really weird question...but for the past few days...i have had these spots on my tonuge..not like bubbles or anything...just little spots like missing or something. and they burn when most things touch them. I was sick for a few weeks and i drank a lot of hot drinks to make my throat feel better and i dont know if that would have anything to do with it...but does anyone have any idea what they are or wht i could do?? thanks

you probably burned off some taste buds from the hot drinks, as ucky as it sounds, it happens. believe me, i had an incedent with hot chocolate a few years back. dont worry, they'll come back.

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hey does anyone know where i can get some good jeans? but not like hundred dollar ones lol

Ummm... Everywhere.

Personally, most of my jeans are from Abercrombie and Fitch ($70-$80), American Eagle ($25-$50), Hollister ($30-$50), and Old Navy ($20-$40). They're all awesome jeans that last a long time, but I'm sure you can find cheaper ones other places



ALSO!!! I advise you not to buy jeans from Aeropostale because alot of the fabric tends to thin out easily and result in tearing. If you do buy there though, keep the recipt and be sure you are careful with the fabric.

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My Chest and Back area had been braking out this summer realy bad. My Hair is realy oily and i think that is why. Anyways...
Last Night I bought Clean&Clear (Daily Cleansing Pads). I used it and this morning its dry but still showing bad and i see lil dots so that means more acne! Has anyone ever used this or known/know someone who has? How long does it take? It says Daily Cleansing Pads but does anyone do it more than once? HELP IM GOING TO THE BEACH IN A COUPLE DAYS AND I DONT WANT TO LOOK LIKE A *F*R*E*A*K*!!!!


-13/f-

Signed,---
---Freak

Eww. Nothing you use will work immediately. be patient, or wear a shirt to the beach. =D

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my mom pays more attention to my cousin accept for me so how can i tell her without making me seem like i am jealous

Well, you can start by learning proper grammar and punctuation. Lets try to re-build this question so I can answer it...

My mom pays more attention to my cousin than she does to me, and I would like a bit more attention. How can I get this attention without seeming jealous.

The answer: You can't. You are jealous, so just tell her that. She won't disown you because you are jealous, although that would be funny.

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