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we've been out of school for a long time and i didnt do one thing with a friend. if one person is doind something with someone already they wont let you do anything with them =( they wont get a big group of girls to hang with or anything. EVERYBODY has something to do and they wont let me come i mean i thought i had real friends but... and my so called "best friend" doesnt talk to me online and in her shout outs she is puttin' me at the bottom of her list i mean i cant stand it with these girls they dont talk to me or call me i call them n they always say i cant do anything n then i look at thier a/m and its hanging with my girls or something like that. HOW DO I GET "REAL" FRIENDS??? PLEASE HELP I WILL RATE HIGH FOR GOOD ANSWERES.
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if you arent in sports maybe you should get into sports wen skewl starts back up....or get more involved...and then you usually make really good friends with the teammates...or maybe express your self more in school, if they have sumthing new go out for it and try...people always watch and stuff soo then they will see what you can do and start to talk to you...lemme kno how it goes wen you start back skewl!
hope i helped
<3
Amber Nicole
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They don't sound like real friends to me. You should look for someone that doesn't have any friends, and go up to them and ask them if you can talk. Get to know them and about there life. To me those sometimes seem to be the best friends. Here and there, there are people who aren't the kind of friend you would want, and that's okay. Just keep looking, and remember. As you get older you make a lot of friends, but at the same time you loose some. But that doesn't mean that you aren't a good friend. I hope I helped!
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ok, maybe you need to be the one initiating things. and this whole "shout out" thing, don't worry so much. maybe she thinks you aren't interested in being freiends with her since you havent asked her to do anything. sorry to be so harsh, but you really sound desperate and it would be best for you to take action, not come to an advice column and whine. don't expect to always be invited.
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okay, your friends are probley not the best friends you could have, you have already seen that huh? okay well you should talk to your "best friend" and tell her how you feel and wait 1 week and see if some things change, if they dont talk your "best friend" again and tell her your gettin pissed off at her and you dont like it and you want a good friendship, so wait another week and if that dosnt work, just start to go to the mall with some other friends, not close friends just friends, and create a bond with them. It will work, i had the same problem. : ) good luck!
mucho love,
brittney
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Honey..i've been wondering that for years!! I haven't hung out with my "friends" since school ended...my so called "best friend" moved to cali. and forgot to call me when she came to visit. i tried calling her and she never answered. i've learned to just go out on my own and figure out how to do that.. i play on a softball team and i've made "real" friends there...and we hang out all weekend. Try joining a team or get involved with activites that you can make "real" friends... if there is such a thing!!
Hope i've helped some!!
*jeN
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I'm sorry to say that your friendship with these girls have drifted too far apart. There's not a whole lot that you can do about it now. I know that this isn't too helpful but that's the truth. But you can try to make new friends! When the school year starts you can make friends with the new kids. Making new friends isn't always easy, but you can do it. Always keep in contact with them. If you don't keep in contact for a long time, a friendship will drift apart.
hang in there babe!
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wow omg, the same thing is happening to me.....i just dont talk to them or try not to and then now im makeing new friends..go to like a swim club or the mall and like o up to some random people and like start talking it worked for me but like dont go up to ne like weird looking people and be wiht someone when you go you ahve to have one friend that sint like all the otherss....but dont ever go by your slef to talk to some one you dont kno adn always have a cellie!!!
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Try being extra nice to the friends you already have~why ? Mainly to show that your blessed to even have "so called friends" Other peeps dont even have "so called friends" or "so call best friend". If they in up not being good friends like above (that you said) then Tell them your not my real friends if you dont hang out with me or call me
To Get "real" friends: I would say just try making new friend because you never know who will be your perfect best friend. The best advice is to just try making new friends and maybe sometime soon you'll find "real" friends!
Making new friends isnt alwayz easy but you should keep trying to make new friends so maybe you will find a perfect best friend! Keep trying and you might be surprized who's your new friend that likes to hang out with you or call you. Keep trying and you'll find someone to hang out with!
Good Luck!
I hope i helped :)
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ya...moslty everyone can say theyve been in that situation before. What you can do is just go out and join clubs with people of the same interests. Like during the summer you can maybe get a job and make friends with some co-workers...go join a team sport..go join dance...an art class..anything that interests you. That's a good way to meet people. Also, you cant make people like you so just forget about your old "friends" and try to find some other people.
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Sound to me you have some crappy friends i mean they are sooooo rude :( do yu know any other classmates phone #'s or actually call your friend like the day before and make plans or yuo could stay inside and watch T.V and eat junk food or maybe you could draw pics or Read!!! a BOOK!!! it won't hurt ya or you could go out by your self and casually run into them you know what i mean:-P
Hope i helped good luck send me feed back Bye :-)
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Well i think that you should deffinatly talk to your best friend and see whats up. Just ask her if she wants to hang out a couple of days ahead. Also your friends are "real friends". If they have someone else to hang out with they may not want a third person or something. This happens to me too, so your not the only one! but i just go out and find another person to hang out with and stuff. Hope i helped. <3 Amanda
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