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Q: first off im a guy. 14 and a half. well i was out in the pool cuz i went to get the drink i had on the side. i guess i put my nipples up to the side and it kinda hurt...i went to reach up for it with my arms putting my chest against the ground...

well i felt their to see if anything was wrong and i had lumps right under the colored part of my nipples on both sides!

whats the deal here? im a guy and i know its rare to have breast cancer and its usually only occuring in men to!

help please

Okay, well those two other people are not really respecting your question. Here's my answer. Well men can not get breast cancer, its impossible only women can. And maybe there is a infection in the tissue around it or maybe you irritated the skin around the nipple to cause it to swell. It is nothing big or anything you should freak out about, but if it continues to hurt and get larger you shoud tell a parent and get it checked out : )

-xoxo-
brittney

Q: ok tonight i had like 4 or 5 beers..for me it was enough to definately get me tipsy..i feel sober now but can i still get a hangover in the morning? any thing i can do or take tonight to prevent a hangover?

Hey, Okay hangovers...are something you cant prevent. I know people hear about all those medicines that can "prevent" them but they do not work. Drink ALOT of water and go to sleep as soon as possible.

Q: Well, to begin with, I started liking this guy, and when I finally asked him out, he said yes. But then after, he started checking out and hanging out with this girl he used to date. I got really mad, so I broke up with him. He also never really cared much and none of my friends thought he would be a "boyfriend". But then, I missed him so much that I asked him out again. Unfortunately, this time, he said no. But the thing is, I still like him. And I don't know how to get over him. I think about him everyday. Please help.

Okay well it seems that the guy wasnt worth your time, he paid more attention to other girls then to you, so that shows some bad news right there, so when you broke up with him you were mad...Good idea to. And so when you asked him back out he said no and you still like him but its always good for a girl to have an eye on a boy, its not bad but there is a reason your always thinking about him, of course you like him, but he might be YOUR prince charming, but sadly your not HIS cinderella, so maybe you should settle over him, and check out some new guys, i had to forget my ex, i still deal with it every day, its hard but i grew to love a new guy. It takes time

-xoxo-
Brittney

Q: we've been out of school for a long time and i didnt do one thing with a friend. if one person is doind something with someone already they wont let you do anything with them =( they wont get a big group of girls to hang with or anything. EVERYBODY has something to do and they wont let me come i mean i thought i had real friends but... and my so called "best friend" doesnt talk to me online and in her shout outs she is puttin' me at the bottom of her list i mean i cant stand it with these girls they dont talk to me or call me i call them n they always say i cant do anything n then i look at thier a/m and its hanging with my girls or something like that. HOW DO I GET "REAL" FRIENDS??? PLEASE HELP I WILL RATE HIGH FOR GOOD ANSWERES.

okay, your friends are probley not the best friends you could have, you have already seen that huh? okay well you should talk to your "best friend" and tell her how you feel and wait 1 week and see if some things change, if they dont talk your "best friend" again and tell her your gettin pissed off at her and you dont like it and you want a good friendship, so wait another week and if that dosnt work, just start to go to the mall with some other friends, not close friends just friends, and create a bond with them. It will work, i had the same problem. : ) good luck!

mucho love,
brittney