Member Since: June 30, 2005
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Last Update: July 2, 2005
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well i need some advice because i've been wearin a thong for about a year now and i've kept it a secret from mi mom but yesterday she found 1 ov them and she didnt really care and wen she asked if it waz mine i said it was my friends. and my problem is i really don't wanna tell her tha truth... :( ( sould i stop wearin them??) i don't know wat 2 do if she brings up tha subject again? thanx ur advice would mean a lot to me.... (link)
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I'm sorry but i think the best thing to do is to tell the truth, Otherwise you'll have this on chest for a couple of months.
I know its scary to tell the truth but parents lose trust in you if you lie to them.
Good luck!
I hope i helped :)
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we've been out of school for a long time and i didnt do one thing with a friend. if one person is doind something with someone already they wont let you do anything with them =( they wont get a big group of girls to hang with or anything. EVERYBODY has something to do and they wont let me come i mean i thought i had real friends but... and my so called "best friend" doesnt talk to me online and in her shout outs she is puttin' me at the bottom of her list i mean i cant stand it with these girls they dont talk to me or call me i call them n they always say i cant do anything n then i look at thier a/m and its hanging with my girls or something like that. HOW DO I GET "REAL" FRIENDS??? PLEASE HELP I WILL RATE HIGH FOR GOOD ANSWERES. (link)
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Try being extra nice to the friends you already have~why ? Mainly to show that your blessed to even have "so called friends" Other peeps dont even have "so called friends" or "so call best friend". If they in up not being good friends like above (that you said) then Tell them your not my real friends if you dont hang out with me or call me
To Get "real" friends: I would say just try making new friend because you never know who will be your perfect best friend. The best advice is to just try making new friends and maybe sometime soon you'll find "real" friends!
Making new friends isnt alwayz easy but you should keep trying to make new friends so maybe you will find a perfect best friend! Keep trying and you might be surprized who's your new friend that likes to hang out with you or call you. Keep trying and you'll find someone to hang out with!
Good Luck!
I hope i helped :)
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Im 14 year old girl, and my friends are the same age, I went to the beach for a week this past week and my best friend, we'll call her, Jess *hold that thought* I also played volleyball this season and made some great friends and I went to hang out with them and invited Jess. but since I went away for the week. Jess has pretty much taken my place. My friends dont even think about calling me to do stuff... they call Jess, its like. she stole my friends. and shes taken my place in every aspect. I dont remember the last time any of them called to see what i was doing.
I want my friends back.. what do i do (link)
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Your going to have to tell "Jess" how you feel. And you could try calling your other friends to do stuff instead of them calling you. Also if you do that maybe after you do it they might start calling you instead of you calling them.
i hope i helped, Good Luck!
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see the thing is i have alot of friends but not one best friend i can do everything with. i want my one friend to be my bff but i dunno how, its really confusing and even tho i have friends i feel so alone.....help please (link)
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You might try making new friends to find the kind of friend your looking for. I know making new friends isn't easy but in the end it will be worth it.
I hope i helped, Good Luck
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Ok, me and what is now my ex both wanted out the relationship cause he liked someone else and I didn't really like him as more than a friend. But I still wants to be friends and he like won't even talk to me. He has another girlfriend now and he's like trying to make me jelous when I'm around (even though I'm not). At this festival thing he was walking past and sorta like pussed her into me? What can I do to like try to become friends again!! I rate! (link)
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Tell him how you feel, tell him the Truth that you just really want to be friends and that you're not a bit jealous of that girl being his girlfriend.
I hope i helped! :) Good Luck
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My friend has had a crush on this guy for a little while, and she's REALLY into him. Problem is, he's... not such a great guy. He went out with one of my other friends for a short period of time (when my other friend liked him, which caused a lot of tension between them), broke up with her, and then started liking me for a while and then stopped. Two nights ago I was at her house, and he called and they started talking and he said he liked her. This scared me and I told her to think before she comitted to anything, and she hung up... We talked for a long time, and I told her to really think about it. 10 minutes later he calls and says he doesn't like her, he was being stupid and he was half-asleep. You can imagine how this made her feel. He wasn't even sorry about it later...
And she still likes him. How can I get her to realize that this guy isn't worth her time, and to move on? BTW, she and him are both 14. (link)
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Tell her the truth, Everything you've told me and other advicenators. Say how you feel, Give personal examples.
Hope i helped, Good Luck!
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My Golden Retriever named Katie is 13 going on 14, i havent gone through a pet dieing experince my question is there any way to prepare myself in case my dog dies anytime soon? Katie's my First Dog and i love her sooooooo Much i would hate it if she died this Year Month Week Day
Can You Please Help Me Prepare for the Sadest Day of my Life???!?!??!?!?!?
HELP i'll RATE HIGH (link)
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Dont worry about it!
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I need a pet! should i get a dog or cat? i dont want it to smell bad! so what smell better (link)
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Dogs are awesome!!!! They cuddle and snuggle and just make you feel good.
Cats will ignor you and are lazy
Go with Dogs They Are sooooo CUTE
To me Cats smell more that a puppy!!
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this year i have lost alot of friends for things that are confusing me. 1) i lost 2 frinds because of the way i eat (i put ketchup on chick'n) and because they said i talked alot about my family.
2) i lost a friend because her friend walked all over me and she never did anything to stop her/because she keept secrets from me about cutting herself but told everyone else and mad them promise not to tell me even though i was her best friend(at least thats what she said) 3) i lost 2 friends because of something someone else did! they blamed me even though i appologized for what happened. isnt that alot of friends to lose in such a sort period of time? what am i doing that is driving away all my friends? should i change myself? please help!!! ill tell u everything that happened!! (link)
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If you are losing friends, then they werent true friends to you. No you shouldnt change yourself!
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ok so my best guy friend is moving. i used to like him but now im trying not to b/c he's moving and i no it won't work out. but i still want to be friends. how can i still be friend's with him if he's moving like 2 hours away. will being friend's work with him so far away? (link)
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You can make it work by these ways
#1 write letters to each other
Or
#2 if both have Aol Instant Messenger (AIM)
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ok i'm really sorry this is long, but please take the time to read it, because it seems no one can help me: all i want is that on friend. that one friend that will stick with you though your whole life, and that u can grow old with. you know? that friend if your crying she will come over to your house and sit with you for hours, or one that you can call at 2 in the morning. and that friend that you never have awkard silent moments with cause you always speak your mind with her, and even if you are silent, its comfortable silence.you see, it seems all my friends arent really THAT friend.like when i feel like talking about serious things, they do not listen. they're just to have a few jokes with and thats it. in MY opinion, i think there is more to a friend than that. my mom says its hard to find that kind of friend but someday you will. i dont believe her. will I EVER get that friend!!??? (link)
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Yes you will! to help try making new friends here and there. i know making new friends isnt easy but in the long run you might find the friend your looking for! YOU WILL FIND THAT KIND OF FRIEND IN THE LONG RUN DONT WORRY YOU WILL FIND WHAT YOUR LOOKING FOR!!!
Hope i helped
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my parents and i dont get along. they always try to get into my bussiness and ruin everything.. i dont tell them anything and i am not plannin to either. my problem they think i spend too much time on the computer. i cant do anything. my parents are over protective and dont let me do anything with my friends unless it is with a parent. i am really gettin tired of my parents bullshit. i dont want to go otuside and make friend with the girls out there because they are ALL snobbs. i have tryed it before. and when ever i talk to a guy my mom questions the shit out of about the guy.. i have no idea what to do anymore i leave me parents alone i do what they say but in return they wont leave me alone... i used to barely be on the computer instead be on the phone and they didnt like that either. so i would like to know what to do. can someone please help me.. (link)
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For one thing if they are on your back then you must have done sumthing wrong to make them lose trust in you and if you did do something wrong then your complaint is showing that its SO HARD to get parents trust back, the Best thing to do is work really hard to Gain your Parents trust it may be hard but once you get your parents trust back then they'll let you do things like spend time with your friends
If the Above wasnt true then i dont know that to tell ya but to try to gain your parents trust
Good luck
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well im 13 and my sister is 15 but for some reason, evertime a guy likes her or she goes out with someone, i get really pissed off and scare the guy away. ( I even gave a guy a black eye) I know that shes gonna go out with guys, but i dont want anybody to hurt her or take advantage of her. last summer, we went to the same summer camp, and a guy liked her and thats where i punched a kid. we tell each other everything so she knows about the gfs ive had (only 2) and she didnt like my gfs either. should i give a guy a chance, and am i being too overprotective? (link)
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you should give the guy a chance and i'm sorry but you are being overprotective i mean your 13 and your making your older sister's decides which isnt excatly right..... i hoped i helped good luck
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i need help about a friend....we have been talking on the internet and like we have gotten so close...its unreal...but i lied about my identity...its not that i don't like the way i look this picture was a lot better...now i feel like a loser cuz i really want to tell him the truth but i am afraid that he won't talk to me anymore...and i really don't want that he is too fun@ HELP PLEASE! I will RATE REALLLLY HIGH!!! (link)
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i hate to break this to ya but your going to have to tell him the truth. He may not talk to ya for awhile but if he really got close to ya, he might turn around after awhile. Also include Why you lied to him (Internet)(wanting to be safe).
Good Luck, i hope i helped
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people say im really pretty and nice but it doesn't seem like anybody wants to be my friend. should i be like hyper and wild? cuz i have noticed that people like hyper and wild friends. idk what do i do? (link)
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dont pretend to be someone your not thats not the right thing to do, the best thing to do is to be yourself and try to make new friend by being yourself and being really nice might help. I know making new friends isnt the easiest thing to do but in the end it will be worth it.
Good luck and i hoped i helped
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weird question i know. my best friend is moving soon, and i sent her a text telling her i was gonna miss her and a bunch of other friend stuff like that. everything i said i meant in a friend way but she took it the wrong way. someone read her fone and saw the texts and thought the same thing. now every one of my friends thinks i like her. and other people i dont even know! shes gonna be gone in 3 weeks.. and idk what to do. haha its funny cause i know its not true and that rediculous anyone would think that, but sucks cause no one believes what i say. help =/ (link)
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Your friend thats about to leave is going to have to staighten this whole problem out. your going to have to tell that peeps took it wrong and that she's going to have to help you so this problem will be staighten out!
I hope i helped
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Right now, there is thunder and lightning outside and my dog is freaking out. He is a 2 year old Shih-tzu. I'm trying to calm him down by talking to him and cuddling him but he just keeps shaking and panting and crying. He is shaking so bad it's making this hard to type. Does anyone know of a good way to calm my dog down a bit more? I feel so bad that I can't do anything else for him. =( (link)
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I'm so sorry this happened but unfortantly there is nothing else you can do. Puppies and Dogs have always are scared of thunder and lighting mainly because they hear thunder way louder than we humans hear it. Just keep doing what your doing because that is the best way to calm your puppy down. Also dont feel too bad about your puppy being scared your doing the best you can!
I hope i helped, Good luck
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my birhtday is in 8 days and i cant decided to have a big party or just hang out with a few friends my back yard isnt to big and i dont no where else i could do it....should i just have a few fiends or just a little party like 20 30 poeple? (link)
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BOTH ~ Have a Little Party of 20-30 peeps but make sure you invite your friends that way your friends dont feel left out!
Hope i helped! :)
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Well I'm not really getting invited to too many parties. A girl named Katee had a huge party and I wasnt invited...I feel like a loser and left out....any ways on how to have more friends or something like that? (link)
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Try making new friends and be really nice and invite them to your parties Or Try being extra nice to your friends and invite them to a party of your own!
I hoped i help :)
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I have been friends with this girl, I'll call Katie for like 15 years. But for the last 4 years she has become an overbearing and often embarrassing persence. Katie often guilts people into doing things they don't want too. Shes an only child and has always gotten her way or has lied to get it. Katie is extrememly outgoing, Oh and did I mention she was outgoing. She is very large breasted and gets a lot of attention from guys. Which doesn't bother me because she and I have different taste in men. Lately though I've noticed she often lies to me, which she never used to. She also tells things about me to others that are outright lies. I am shocked and have asked her about what she says but she somehow comes up with some weird explanation. I have stopped telling her anything I don't want everyone to know. She also often chastises, me for doing the same things she does. Katie also gets jealous when I hang out with other friends and often makes her distaste for my other friends very obvious. I almost want to cut her off completely. Should I or should I try to find out what has gotten into her? (link)
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You might want to try to talk to her about what had happened. If that doesnt work then i'm sorry to tell you this but you'll have to tell her you dont what to be her friend anymore, after that when hang out with your other friends or even try making new friends. I know making new friends isnt easy but in the end its worth it
I hoped i helped
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