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Falling for a loser... HELP NEEDED!
My friend has had a crush on this guy for a little while, and she's REALLY into him. Problem is, he's... not such a great guy. He went out with one of my other friends for a short period of time (when my other friend liked him, which caused a lot of tension between them), broke up with her, and then started liking me for a while and then stopped. Two nights ago I was at her house, and he called and they started talking and he said he liked her. This scared me and I told her to think before she comitted to anything, and she hung up... We talked for a long time, and I told her to really think about it. 10 minutes later he calls and says he doesn't like her, he was being stupid and he was half-asleep. You can imagine how this made her feel. He wasn't even sorry about it later...
And she still likes him. How can I get her to realize that this guy isn't worth her time, and to move on? BTW, she and him are both 14.
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Sounds like you won't have to convince her because he doesn't like her anyway. The part about being a friend is to listen when they fall - but let them fall sometimes because when it comes to love there is not a lot someone else can say - even your best friend! I'm not saying she's in love - but this sounds like something she's gonna have to figure out on her own. Of course you can be there to listen to her and give her advice. Now, you could get with some other guys and get her interested in someone else....
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Tell her the truth, Everything you've told me and other advicenators. Say how you feel, Give personal examples.
Hope i helped, Good Luck!
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