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PLEASE HELP!
i need help about a friend....we have been talking on the internet and like we have gotten so close...its unreal...but i lied about my identity...its not that i don't like the way i look this picture was a lot better...now i feel like a loser cuz i really want to tell him the truth but i am afraid that he won't talk to me anymore...and i really don't want that he is too fun@ HELP PLEASE! I will RATE REALLLLY HIGH!!!
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tell him who you really are, tell him a lot of things changed or something
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tell him youve changed a lott since you first started talking to him and then just make excuses from the things you told him. like you quit your job or dumped your bf. hope i helped.
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EEK, although you definatly should not have done that, you did it, so here it goes...
Tell him, honestly, you have to. If you two really have it going together, and he really likes you, make sure you make it clear thats the ONLY thing you faked, becuase if you two are as close as you say you are, he won't care.
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Ok.. I can seriously help. I did the same exact thing this year.. haha I told him the truth about.. 3 months ago... and we're still talking.. he did get a little upset but then he just asked me to describe myself and then supposedly whenever I get a stupid scanner working, I'm sending him one haha.... just explain to him how you wanted to show him your picture, you were just afriad that he'd find you ugly.. and then I'd suggest you show him the real you...so he might be a little mad at first, but he'll probably forgive you ; I mean he can't be mad at someone he's never met haha =) Hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
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i hate to break this to ya but your going to have to tell him the truth. He may not talk to ya for awhile but if he really got close to ya, he might turn around after awhile. Also include Why you lied to him (Internet)(wanting to be safe).
Good Luck, i hope i helped
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Well, it sounds like he will never acutally see you, so whats the point in telling him? If there isn't a way for him to find out don't worry about it.
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Ok well you shoul tell him the truth I know it might be hArd but if he is your true friend he will forgive you over time.But you really need to be honest with your friend.
Hope I helped
MD_GIRL101
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If your planning on meeting this guy hthen your gonna have to tell him the truth eventually, just start by apoligizing and just tell him it's not that big of a deal unless you've been talking to him over a couple of months
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Just stay away from this guy. This relationship feels unreal because it IS unreal. For all you know he could be hacking into your computer and reading your stuff. It doesn't matter what he thinks about "your identity". Internet friendships are a waste of time.
hope i helped!
x♥x♥
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honesty is always the best pollicy
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Just tell him the tRuth. Just flat out say it; don't beat aRound the bush... just be bold, be honest, and go foR it!! Make shoRe you let him know that YOU KNOW it was an infantile and disRespectful act, and you'll be honest from heRe on out.
Goodluck to you; hope eveRything woRks out!! :)
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Well just tell him straight up that you have thought that the internet is not such a good place to meet people on thats why you lied about your identity but you made a mistake and you dont want to lose him . I know that he will forgive you just do it as soon as possible before it gets worse.
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