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Hello There! My name is Heather.
For a while I've been giving useful advice to my friends, family, and others. Most advice I get from my mom, and she is very accurate! I love hearing and sharing stories with people. I am available online about 2-3 hours a day. I am also available pretty late at night during the summer. I would love to help you with what ever you need!
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i need help about a friend....we have been talking on the internet and like we have gotten so close...its unreal...but i lied about my identity...its not that i don't like the way i look this picture was a lot better...now i feel like a loser cuz i really want to tell him the truth but i am afraid that he won't talk to me anymore...and i really don't want that he is too fun@ HELP PLEASE! I will RATE REALLLLY HIGH!!!

Just stay away from this guy. This relationship feels unreal because it IS unreal. For all you know he could be hacking into your computer and reading your stuff. It doesn't matter what he thinks about "your identity". Internet friendships are a waste of time.

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I'm not sure why, but latley I haven't been so happy lately. I mean I'm so sick of being me. I don't like my hair, im not as pretty as Miss popular. I dont dress as great as them and I've been alone alot latley cause none of my friends have been invitin me over anymore. I've been on a no sode low sugar diet and I lost my baby fat (im 13 and i weigh 105 lbs) so im noT like fat or anything but I somehow got off my diet and I just feel soo crappy I havent gotten back on. I hate me right now, what should I do?

Trust me, last year i went through the SAME EXACT THING. It's just a phase for now. When you are 13 you tend to be very insecure and you start to feel like no matter what you;re the odd man/woman out. Just for now think about things that make you original and wonderful. It's a crappy to be 13. Trust me, time will go and these things will be less important to you. Once you're out of this phase you're gonna look back and think "what was i thinking?!"

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ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now,and things are starting to get tough. he goes out when he likes and tells me just before he leaves, however he expects me to ask him in advance when i want to go out and even when i do he gets angry and calls me all the time when im out to see when im coming home, i feel trapped and we have spoken about all the time which leads into big arguements in which he is rotten to me and hurts me realy bad. i feel silly because i love him but want to get out, why cant i leave, am i an idiot? we are both 19.

You're not an idiot, you're perfectly human. You just need to sit him down one day and tell him that what he does hurts you. If after that things don't work out, dump him! Don't feel silly because you love him, love is in general a silly feeling thing. Hope i helped! x♥x♥

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is there any way of knowing if your hymen has broken yet?? i want to have sex, but im afraid it will be embarassing if it hasnt--i use tampons and i play a lot of sports... but is there any way of knowing if its "popped" yet?? thanks!

After you cherry has "popped", over a long amount of time it will heal again. You shouldn't be embarassed if you don't think yours popped. If this guy you want to have sex with really cares, then he won't care about a little bit of blood. You will bleed quickly for a short amount of time. Hope I helped!
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okay i dont know whats wrong with me!! i love this guy but i dont no what to do! he doesnt have the same feelings for me! gosh i wish he did! i miss him like oh my god ! i love him more than i love myself! but im scared to go out with anyone else because it just makes me think of him more and because i dont want to get hurt! but when ever im with this guy i feel like im in heaven and im not scard at all because i can be my self with him! i mean he knows all my secrets i tell him everything because i know i can trust him! but i just dont no what to do i mean he has like no feelings for me! i asked him and i think he didnt wanna tell me because he didnt wanna hurt me!! but im hurt even more now! gosh im going crazy just thinkin bout him!! i miss him every minute of everyday! i love him more than this world and if someone took him away from me i would die! he is everything i ever wanted i mean the first time i saw him in 5th grade it was love at first sight!! i thought i was in heaven he like swept me off my feet and that kiss we had oh my god! it was so magical what else can i say then HE took my breath away!! i love him soo much!! well there isnt any point in it because thats his feelings and i cant do nothin to change them sooo...... i dont know what to do!! gosh i've never felt this way bout anyone!!! what do i do to get him to like me???? i love him soo much!!

Though it seems like a major tragedy, you should be fine. It's clear this guy is very important to you and you love him. Just give him some space about this and amybe he'll like you even more. But as for now, just stay close friends with him. He sounds like a nice guy and what you have now should be good enough for you because let's say you start going out. You're going to break up one day like it or not and you're gonna be hurt really bad and things won't be the same with him. Or you could find that you don't like him as much as you thought. Hope I helped!

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i feel horrible. i feel like i have a hangover, but i didn't drink anything. last night i couldn't sleep and watched tv till 4:30 am. then woke up at 6 am cuz i was on my living room couch and the rest of my family woke up. i really need a quick-fix so i can move on with my day. i think i'm gonna go take walk, that could help, but i would REALLY appreciate any suggestions. thankyou!

I pretty much did the same thing last night. The best thing you can do for now is get some fruit, watch a funny movie, and rest a bit. Going for a walk helps too. Be sure to drink A LOT of water because it's summer. Hope I was able to help! Feel better!

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Well I saw this guy and he is like really hott and my friend just took me to the movies with him!She kept on saying like he would talk to me and start a convo but we talked just little! How do I ghet to know him better cauz we will make the cutest couple and I love to flirt with him!! I NEED HIM!! PLEASE HELP!!!

Whenever a best friend says they'll talk to a guy for you, it usually doesn't work out. YOu just got to get out, flirt a lot (but not too much), find some common interests with him. And before you jump into things, make sure he has good values and is an all around nice guy, it's not all about looks (trust me).

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