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ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now,and things are starting to get tough. he goes out when he likes and tells me just before he leaves, however he expects me to ask him in advance when i want to go out and even when i do he gets angry and calls me all the time when im out to see when im coming home, i feel trapped and we have spoken about all the time which leads into big arguements in which he is rotten to me and hurts me realy bad. i feel silly because i love him but want to get out, why cant i leave, am i an idiot? we are both 19.
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He seems to want to keep a pretty tight reign on you. Seems to me if his going out is okay then you should be able to come and go as you please as well. I personally would be finding someone who wanted to do things together rather than separate. If you want it to work maybe you should be going out together. :)
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You're not an idiot, you're perfectly human. You just need to sit him down one day and tell him that what he does hurts you. If after that things don't work out, dump him! Don't feel silly because you love him, love is in general a silly feeling thing. Hope i helped! x♥x♥
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If he's treating you like crap, and you've asked him to stop, but he'still not listening, then you should definently leave. All abusive relationships are not just physically abusive, they're mentally and verbally abusive, too. If you let him get away with abusing you, then it's just going to lead to more abuse... which could possibly be physical.
You may love him, but he obviously doesn't love you if he's treating you like that. (sorry, but it definently doesn't sound like it..)
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sit him down and try to talk to him calmly of things still dont work out then i would suggest moving on.
P.S your not an idiot, this kind of thing happens to thousands of other girls
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Just tell him to tell you a little earlier next time, but its nice to tell him in advance, so keep doing that, just say if he does that again to tell you earlier.
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no ur not an idiot ur just goin through a rough time my gf and i had the same trouble at first then we started really getting to love each other more than life and im only 14 and ive had my gf for 4 monthes and its just a stage that guys go through
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