Hmmmm my name is Shannon and im 13 and going into 8th grade. [uhhh I know] I play Field Hockey and Lacrosse, LOVE MIRACLE [and for the stupid people who dont know what that is, its the story of the 1980 US Hockey Team.] Im short, have short brown hair, and like greenish eyes. My favorite place is St. Augustine, that place is amazing and so beautiful. Green and Pink are amazing. I have obsessions with gatorade and converse, yeah I even have converse sandals so shut up lol. Random, i hate socks and pillows. Old Navy Jeans=LOVE. I want to be a prosecuter when I grow up, or doing something with history would be awesome. Short people are cool. I loooove music, but really musically disabled- but I cant go anywhere without a cd. Yellowcard is ammmmmazing. Dont fight that the Beatles are the best band ever, its a fact. Oh and the Beach Boys too, but when there on drugs, not all the surfing shit. Favorite song ever I think is Ocean Avenue then Wouldn't it Be Nice then Goodnight Goodnight, cause Hot Hot Heat is really cool. I dont really like TV except for some stuff, like OPRAH and Lost. Movies are cool like MIRACLE! lol and the Breakfast Club and Clueless oh and Sixteen Candles is amazing, like all 80s movies. I hate it when people say thats the shit or the sex, that is so annoying and OMG OMG is too, so valley girl ahh. [Avril Lavinge= Canadian Valley Girl] Guns creep me out and birds scare the living shit out of me, and like anyone coming up to me, I get scared for some reason. I sing Jimmy Eat World and Motion City Soundtrack in the shower, ok dont call me wierd lol. TRL is amazing. And im always cold for some reason. Bad music needs to die. I hate it when people tell cheesy jokes and then people laugh. I suck and bowling, basketball, and anything to do with throwing a goddamn ball lol. Yeah and I absoultley hate baseball, dont even get me started, just a bunch of guys itching there balls and swing a bat. I get bored easily and I like change but not like dramatic change like moving, just like change of pattern of doing something. There is a reason for everything, I just know it. I always decide something then 10 seconds later im like hell no I dont want to do it. But nobody influences my descions, especially my parents. Im very creative but I dont have an open mind about things cause im really stubborn. I dont really like learning new things so that basically means I hate school, but not completly im not all fuck school and never show up sort of way. And I like it when people tell me what they are thinking and when they speak there mind, and they dont keep all there emotions inside, thats like a maaaajor turn off. And I always tend to get into the middle of things, somehow. I love things that are bold and colorful, and of course shiny, I dont care what you say no one can resist shiny things. Im one of those girls who likes going to the mall, and loves shoes, but im not one of those girls who are obsessed and all they think about is going to the mall. I swear too much, I really need to stop that. I think sloppy handwriting is sexy, ok just to get that out of the way lol. Yeah and its good to smile, so all you gay people who think they're not cool and dont smile are stupid. Yeah thats about it...i-m me at xO sHanNii Ox
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ok i have been modeling since i was 5 for big agency in calgary i have been asked to go to new york for 5 months to recive a bigger contract with the company that runs america's next top model, tyra banks etc. and they want me but to start i will have to leave the love of my life for 5 months what sould i do sould i accept it or what please help cheak out my pic in my advice column it is Reality. thanx (link)
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I wouldnt leave the love of your life, because if you do, you wont have a good time, unless he wants to go with you.
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how long after a break up should you wait before the next chase? I mean like... looking around for new people... if the relationship you've just come out of wasn't that serious... but I don't want to hurt his feelings by jumping straight back in... :S
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I say go when your ready! But I would at least wait a day or so to cool myself down and recognize my feelings about my ex and other people. And if you want revenge, haha do it as soon as you can.
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so theirs this boy and my best friend likes him nd hes trying to fuckk me and i dunno what to do. . help
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Tell him to back the hell off!
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ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now,and things are starting to get tough. he goes out when he likes and tells me just before he leaves, however he expects me to ask him in advance when i want to go out and even when i do he gets angry and calls me all the time when im out to see when im coming home, i feel trapped and we have spoken about all the time which leads into big arguements in which he is rotten to me and hurts me realy bad. i feel silly because i love him but want to get out, why cant i leave, am i an idiot? we are both 19. (link)
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Just tell him to tell you a little earlier next time, but its nice to tell him in advance, so keep doing that, just say if he does that again to tell you earlier.
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what are some hints you can give a guy to ask you out?? (link)
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Id give him all the attention, gently tease him, make him feel wanted, but more importantly be his friend before you go out, because it wont work out if you guys are strangers. Talk to him about his interests and yours. Music is always good to talk about to, and mabey talk about movies then say mabey you and I can go see that together sometime...
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hi my name is jess im 13 and there is this kid who stalks me. He callc be 10 times or even somtimes he wont give up until i pick up. Then when i go into the grove (which is a place everyone hangs out) he follows me around and it scares me. What can i do to get him away from me?
Plz Help Me!!!!! (link)
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I think you should see what he wants! Or if you dont want to see, just ignore him because he wants a reaction. Everyone does everything because they want a reaction [ex. talking about something, they want someone to talk back to them] If hes an older person, i think you need to contact someone such as a parent who can take care of him.
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16f, See my problem is that there is this boy that I used to have this fling with,'sorta' and its over now, its been over for quite some time but I still just can't seem to get him out of my head. I'm a rising junior in high school and he just graduated, so I know I'm never going to see him again so whats the point in liking someone soo much when you can never have a relationship with this person. I've been trying soo hard to forget him but I can't shake the feelings I have for him. Its like he has some type of power over me and I can never seen to get away from him.
PLEEEEAAAAZZZZ help me get him out of my head.
Signed,
HOPELESS (link)
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Well I dont think you can get him out of your head. But the only thing that can is to meet someone else. For now just keep telling yourseld dont worry there is someone else out there.
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Ok, so I've liked this guy and I've liked him for at least 4 or 5 months. We are pretty good friends, like we hang at parties (if he doesn't have a gf at the time) and we talk to each other online ALOT. Well, he doesn't know cuz he's had on and off relationships and I'm scared if I tell him it will ruin our friendship. But that's not what I'm asking advice on. Well, I told a best friend of mine that I liked him a loong time ago, like when I started liking him. And I still like him to this day and this friend told me she has started liking him too. And she tries to brag to me about funny conversations they've had and I feel like she's taking what I have of him. and i just don't know what to do....:(...I'll take any advice you have...please... (link)
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Well your friend sounds like a stealer to me, since she knew you liked him. Id say go for the guy and ask him out!
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I need to be more outgoing. I really want to be able to go up to people and just talk to them. I want to have more confidence. How do i do so? I keep missing my chances to meet new guys. (link)
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What I did was just like join into a conversation, and say what I think, or join a sports team, basically your forced to communicate on a team sport. Also clubs such as Student Council you will make friends then you will be more confident, and boys like confidence.
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alright, my friend and my bf have had a relationship before and we all r always on aim. but the thing is that when we r she is always like...o jacob i love you and stuff. and i hate it. i DONT want to ammitt to my friend that im jelous but...i dont want to have to put up with her anymore. how do i get her to stop? (link)
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Be like well DO YOU Really love him? and if she fesses up ask her why she never told you, or if she doesnt just say well your all love-ish with him and stuff. As for your boyfriend ask him the same question.
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I really like this guy. I've never had a serious crush on anyone, but with this guy I do. We talk and flirt sometimes, but I think my friend is trying to hook up with him. She even knows I like him. I want to flirt with him on instant messenger, because we barely talk so there is awkward silences. I also want to flirt with him more in person. I don't know who he likes, but I really don't want him to like my friend. What should I do? (link)
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With my current boyfriend, before I HAD A SERIOUS CRUSH ON HIM! and I was good friends with one of his ex's who still liked him and flirted with him. But i flirted with him on instant message of course and we talked about alot of stuff, not just flirting. Make sure thins guy knows alot about you, your feelings on stuff, and other things because it will be a long lasting one if he knows what your like. But make sure to give him the hint that you like him, mabey even tell him, it feels better to BELIEVE ME!
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I've had terrible luck in love lately. I haven't found any guy who meets my standards (which aren't extreme, just funny, sweet, smart, etc.) I've been thinking a lot about my former crushes and boyfriends, and I thought of this guy, "Josh". Josh and I were friends & hung out a lot last summer. We sort-of dated for probably a month, but then after school started, we drifted apart because we were at 2 different schools (he's a year younger than me). Thing is, I really miss him and I think I'm in love with him. He's been on my mind so much lately, and it's driving me crazy because I never see him anymore! What am I supposed to do? (link)
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hey ya never know if he is mr. right!!! what you need to do is mabey ask one of you or his friends or mabey even yourself to get his phone number or his screen name. [I know its hard calling a guy so mabey go with the screen name] To kind of rekindle the relationship you need to talk more, and if that doesnt work you at least will be good friends ecause you talk more. If you do talk more, you can set a day to hang out or something.
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can anyone give me advice on how to tell if a boy likes you?
P.S is constanat starring one (link)
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okay well
he will go out of his way to be by you or talk to you, if you critisize him, like say your ears are big he will tease you, and the big test which ALWAYS works is
1] look at him and slowly look somewhere else for about 10 to 15 seconds
2]look back, if he looks at you and turns away HE LIKES YOU!!! trust me!
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i have liked this girl for about half a year. she has gone out with some other guys who r more popular then me but we r still good friends. im not the best looking guy at our school but i still don't know. what should i do (link)
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Well i like a guy that isnt popular at all or good looking, but what attracts me to him is that I feel something with him that I dont with anyone else. You should only go out with that girl, if she feels the same way i do, because thats the key to any kind of realationship is on how she views you.
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so i have this boyfriend. almost 3 months. but we have only held hands and hugged. he is going sooo slow. every one is like .. make the first move. but im really shy. like.. really shy. but just around the boy im going out with. are there anyway i can sortof give him hints.. but not make the firt move? 13/f (link)
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Me too! but im almost 5 months along. We hold hands at movies and hug all the time, its just i really want him to kiss me. I know im only 13 but i really like him, and i really want to kiss him but im very shy. im thinking soon mabey ill kiss him, but he has alot of chances and i dont know why he doesnt take them, and i think he doesnt like me because of that. I dont care if he kisses me or not, its mostly just pressure from my friends, but i know how you feel.
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