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I really like this guy. I've never had a serious crush on anyone, but with this guy I do. We talk and flirt sometimes, but I think my friend is trying to hook up with him. She even knows I like him. I want to flirt with him on instant messenger, because we barely talk so there is awkward silences. I also want to flirt with him more in person. I don't know who he likes, but I really don't want him to like my friend. What should I do?
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i know what you mean, i've been through same thing. unfortunetly for me, i lost him to my best friend. but it was all my fault. i told her that it was ok for her to like him and stuff and i let her tell him how she feels first.
well you should first, find out what he likes. (i mean i 've became real good friend with that guy in one day)
so when you IM him, ask him about him self. like what kinda of music do you listen to?
and before he can answer, tell him yours...
most guys like rock.
unless they are one of those ghetto rapper wannabes and red necks...no offense if he is.
but anyways...then if he sais he likes rock, ask him if he listens to red hot chilli peppers. most guys who likes rock listen to them
and ask how is his summer and tell him about your "interesting event" even if you have to lie about it. i mean little white lie wont hurt unless they seem so fake.
and you can flirt by, calling him like, "hey baby" but jokingly...and if you think he wont take it as a joke, then quickly write just kidding.
and that only works if you guys are a friend.
and i hope i helped and if you need more help then email me or something
CIAO FOR NOW~
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the most important thing is to be yourself around him especially. guys can see right through the acts us girls try to put on. so flirt with him, but dont act really differnt, and you should jsut talk to your freind and see if she likes him or what, she jsut might be a flirty person, i have a few freinds like that.
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With my current boyfriend, before I HAD A SERIOUS CRUSH ON HIM! and I was good friends with one of his ex's who still liked him and flirted with him. But i flirted with him on instant message of course and we talked about alot of stuff, not just flirting. Make sure thins guy knows alot about you, your feelings on stuff, and other things because it will be a long lasting one if he knows what your like. But make sure to give him the hint that you like him, mabey even tell him, it feels better to BELIEVE ME!
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Okay, you need to straighten things out with your friend first. If she won't stop flirting with him, she's not a great friend. As for the guy, have more confidence! If you're confident, that's really attractive to guys. Hope I helped!
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If you have aim give me your sn. Mine is garrettg2006 on aim. I could give you better advice on there. In my opinion if you like this guy...and you feel there may be a connection..GO FOR IT! From personal experience, i can tell you that you don't want to pass something like that up. Don't ruin a friendship however. But hey if he really likes you then he will pick you over her anyways. just make sure if you like to talk to him that you don't bother him too much...i dont know him but if you act like your obsessed with a guy it usually turns us off. Alright ill give you more and better advice when i get the details on aim. Im glad to help. My advice column is : [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
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If you do not want him to like your friend then you should take every opportunity you have to flirt online and you might even suggest to him hanging out sometime. When you hang out with him in person, you can avoid awkward silences by talking about anything and everything. Ask him open-ended questions to start conversation and make sure you smile, laugh at his jokes, and look him in the eye while either of you is talking. Let him know you are a fun person to be around and then he will want to hang out with you more. Your friend will not stand a chance! If you are really good friends with this person, you might want to tell her that you like him. She will back off if she is a good friend since you admitted to liking him first. Do not admit to him that you like him until you feel comfortable enough. Good luck!
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