I've had terrible luck in love lately. I haven't found any guy who meets my standards (which aren't extreme, just funny, sweet, smart, etc.) I've been thinking a lot about my former crushes and boyfriends, and I thought of this guy, "Josh". Josh and I were friends & hung out a lot last summer. We sort-of dated for probably a month, but then after school started, we drifted apart because we were at 2 different schools (he's a year younger than me). Thing is, I really miss him and I think I'm in love with him. He's been on my mind so much lately, and it's driving me crazy because I never see him anymore! What am I supposed to do?
MELiixMARiiE answered Saturday July 2 2005, 4:05 pm: Okay I have to ask something: are you sure you really miss this "Josh" guy? Because since you haven't been having luck in the love department lately and you were reminising ( sorry idk how to spell it ) on past crushes and boyfriends, maybe you were just missing the feeling have having a special someone and whenever he came to mind, you liked him again.. I'm just saying rethink it for a moment, and if you do seriously still like him.. then call him!! I don't see why you shouldn't! =) But since you two go to different schools, he might have a girlfriend you don't know about, so I'd find that out first.. but if that's true, then just try hanging out with him.. cause if the relationship doesn't last.. then you can snag him =P because if you do think you love him, don't you think it would be best if you were some part of his life, than none at all? =/ So just call him, IM him and talk to him, and if he's single, ask him to go somewhere with you or something!! Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
p.s. I have a friend whose dating someone that lives about..55 minutes away, and they've been dating for about.. 5 months now I think. They just see eachother every weekend, or like every other one. So see? Long-distance relationships can work out if you try hard enough and want to see eachother enough. =) [ MELiixMARiiE's advice column | Ask MELiixMARiiE A Question ]
StArGiRL75 answered Saturday July 2 2005, 2:50 pm: Call him girl! Pay him a visit and tell him how you feel! Dont play shy...but if you can....try and find out if he has a gf first...btu even if he does...mayb it would last that long...not all of the relationships do! Ash! [ StArGiRL75's advice column | Ask StArGiRL75 A Question ]
Ekaterina answered Friday July 1 2005, 12:37 pm: You both go to different schools and he's a year younger than you. I know how that is I was in the same situation i wasnt able to see my ex bf and we started falling apart i wasnt able to know what he was doing at his school and who was he flirting with etc . I think that you should move on and just be friends with him or just be cool with him.Dont ever think of going back with any of you ex's there is always some one better for you out there than them! I hope I helped. [ Ekaterina's advice column | Ask Ekaterina A Question ]
rosiecheeks520 answered Thursday June 30 2005, 10:54 am: I used to have a boyfriend is was one year younger than me and when the time came when he had to go to another school i was heart broken. We drifted so much apart and then he cheated on me! I then decided that it's just not going to work out so I broke up wth him. I think that you should tell him that you miss him whenever you get to talk to him and that you love him! Then if he feels the same way make plans to get together. Meet at the mall, the park, go over each others houses. It can be hard. Trust me I know.
ForNowAtLeast answered Thursday June 30 2005, 10:03 am: hey ya never know if he is mr. right!!! what you need to do is mabey ask one of you or his friends or mabey even yourself to get his phone number or his screen name. [I know its hard calling a guy so mabey go with the screen name] To kind of rekindle the relationship you need to talk more, and if that doesnt work you at least will be good friends ecause you talk more. If you do talk more, you can set a day to hang out or something. [ ForNowAtLeast's advice column | Ask ForNowAtLeast A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Thursday June 30 2005, 6:27 am: This pRobably isn't what you wanted to heaR, but peRsonally, I would leave it as is.
And aRe you ABSOLUTELY 100% POSITIVELY suRe that it's indeed ****HIM**** that you'Re missing.. oR is it just the feeling of BEING WITH SOMEONE, you see what I'm getting at?? The two aRe often confused.... I'm not doubting youR feelings, since I OBVIOUSLY do not know what's going on inside you, I just suggest that you Rethink all of this befoRe taking action. Goodluck to you. :) [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
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