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i want to measure my breasts. like to see what my size is. so how do you figure it out ?
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Wow...um..you could just go to a store and try a bra on and if it fits see what size it is. AsH!
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im 17/f and i have a little acne on my face. the only place i get them is on my forehead and especailly my chin. i was wondering if anyone knew of any good acne products that arent real expensive? what the product is called, how much it costs, how good it works, and where i can find it? thanks so much! (link)
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Well...i dont know where to find it...look in some magazines...and it works really good! It's called proactive. It's $60 but you can't find a really great product that works wonders at a good price these days! AsH!
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i had my period for about 3 months. i never told my mom because she died.. so now i have a step mom and we were never close. i was planning to wait until she asks me if i have it and then say yeah. but im afraid she'll never ask. if ur wondering how i get my pads i get them from my step sister. should i wait?? please help ASAP!! (link)
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JUST TELL HER GIRL! If your not close now...mayb telling her would make her feel like you trust her and then you two might get closer! AsH!
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Hey...I was wondering if I was having normal period pain or not. I have a slight fever, not very high. And I'm having pains in my stomach (everywhere not just in the lower part) and some back pain. I'm getting headaches and after I eat I feel like I'm about to throw up. Plus I'm suffering from a loss of appitite. I should have started by now but i'm a little late. Is this normal? (link)
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Ask a parent or doctor...it could b a million different things. AsH!
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ok well theres this boy and me and him have been messin around basically for a year. We went out and i lost my virginity to him but then later on down the road it didnt work out. I still love him ALOT and we still chill all the time but i want to be more then just friends with him..idk what to do. I mean he tells me that we need to chill more and stuff but im wondering if its just to get something, or if he really wants to chill...please help! (link)
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Ask him. Dont be afraid to ask him out or ask him why he actually wants to chill. AsH!
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My roots get greasy really fast, like within 5-6 hours after I take a shower. Is there any way I can keep my hair cleaner for longer without taking 2 showers daily? Is there a shampoo that prevents your hair roots from being greasy? I rate. (link)
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The same thing happens to me...mayb your hair is used to the shampoo you use. If it is it may tend to get greasy. So if it does...switch shampoos and then when your hair gets used to that one switch back to your old shampoo. You could also get a shampoo that says...for normal to oily hair. If you find anything that works for you that i havent already said...gimme an inbox and let me know! AsH!
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ok so my guy friend lives around the block. directly behind me. so i just hop the wall and go through his back yard and im at his house lol..well ive had feelings for him FOREVER. and last time we hung out...he later told me he thought about kissing me...when he said that i didnt want him to know i liked him cause i had a bf at the time so i was like um ew kyle..thats gross. but now we havent really hung out for a while..and i hope he still likes me. hes always busy hanging out with his friend..who happens to be a girl.he NEVER IMs me anymore, i always IM him now. whenever i ask him to hangout..he says umm...maybe. i might hangout with my friend..but ill let u know after i call her. he used to always ask me to hangout..ive already asked him if hes mad at me..hes like no not at all..so i donno whats going on..advice? (link)
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Just tell him how you feel. And tell him why you said, "Ew Kyle...thats gross." Then see if things change! If they dont just tell him the changes you have been noticing. AsH!
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well tomorrow i'm going to the doctors for a check up and i'm 14/f and last time i went they looked down my pants and i think its VERY preverted! ( is that normal for most doctors to do?) is there a way i can stop them??
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DUH ITS NORMAL! They do that to everybody! They check to see if everything is normal! That may seem perverted but it's their job!! AsH!
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I need help breaking up with my boyfriend. I still like him and everything its just that its summer and i dont think im gonna see him that much. What should i say to him? I still wanna be friends cause he is really nice.
Thanks Alot
If it helps we have been going out for about 2 1/2 months. And the reason is becuz i wont see him much. (link)
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Well...you could just tell him what you told me. You could say that you wanna break up with him because you dont wanna tie him down this summer because you arent gonna see him that much! I mean you can get back together in the school year if you 2 are still single. AsH!
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what are some quick and easy ways to lose 10 pounds? (link)
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You could go on ediets.com or you could go on the south beach diet...probanly at a store somewhere...AsH!
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I have a friend who is a cutter. She has been for as long as I can remember. Lately, we have become best friends and I felt like cutting, too. Not because I have a bad home life or because I have stress in my life or anything like that because I don't, but I think it's because I am best friends with her now. I did cut my legs up pretty bad just 2 weeks ago, but then I never did it again and now they are healed. I keep getting the urges to cut, and then I tell myself not to. But I still can't help but feel so influenced by her to cut myself. A long time ago I used to cut because I liked it, but that didn't last long and wasn't as obsessed with it as I am now. I love this girl with all my heart. She really is a GREAT friend that I had since pre-school, but I need help with trying to stop thinking about the whole idea of cutting all together. I must admitt that I did REALLY like it, but I know that it is unhealthy. But I STILL get those urges and they keep getting bigger and bigger .. HELP !* signed., helpless soul (link)
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WHAT ARE YOU CRAZY!? NEVER DO IT AGAIN! AsH!
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NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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what is the quickest/fastest way to get rid of a pimple? (link)
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There really isnt a quick/fast way to get rid of a pimple. Trust me..I know...lol. You could buy that clearasil ultra thing. It says it gets rid of acne in 3 days. AsH!
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okay so basically my dad said he is moving out .. him moving out = me moving some place else because my mom cannot afford this house we live in .. what am i going to do .. im leaving my friend jen if i move and she is basically my only BEST friend right now .. because i dont hang out with any of my other friends because well i dont know why but i feel like im losing all of my friends and that all i have left is jen and now im probably going to move away .. this is so hard for me because i lost my aunt on christmas and she was my best friend and i cant deal with this anymore and i dont know what to do.. please help me .. (link)
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When you move...you can start a clean slate and make new friends. In order to b happy...you need to think happy thoughts! AsH!
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hey umm i no this sounds wrong, but i think i really like my cousin. i dont know what to do, i mean hes family and all and he lives like 6 hours away and i dont no if he would ever like me but what can i do? (link)
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COME ON GIRL!!! HES YOUR COUSIN...THERE ARE A LOT OF OTHA GREAT GUYS OUT THERE WHO ARENT RELATED TO YOU! Its ok to like your cousin but idk if its worth the long distance relationship for a relative. There are plenty of otha fish in the sea who dont live 6 hours away & who arent related 2 you! lol AsH!
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I am 14 years old and I am self-conscience about my breast size. Is there anything that I can do to reduce my breast size? (link)
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You could always get a breast reduction...like professionally. I dont know any other way. If you dont have the money...you should just suck it up and except the fact that your size is your size and you cant change that. AsH!
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Aright, well...heres the deal. First of all there is this guy I had liked for about 4 years and things for really rough and we stopped seeing each other...when I say rough I mean he cheated on me with ALL of my best friends. I started working somewhere where I met this girl...she's absolutely amazing...everything about her. To get to the point, I fell head over heals in love with her. We were together for a while...and then I got basically shafted for this other girl who she is now with. Now, I'm moving 700 miles away and I'm to afraid to confront who is now the love of my life and talk to her. Also, my "best friend" confessed her love to me recently and she kissed me...so really everything is ALL messed up. The best friend that now says she loves me, has had a boyfriend for 2 years...if you were me, what would you do? (link)
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Just get everything straight and think these problems out. Forget about your past relationships and move on to your new ones. AsH!
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I just dont know anymore. I'm falling apart in life. I feel like a mother. I'm 15 Female and i clean my house every day! feed all the animals on the farm. And with all of that i still have to have a teen life. Last year wasnt my best year i went through like 10 boyfriends and all they wanted was sex. My family has been falling apart. My love of my life and the boy i lost my virginity to moved far!!! away this year. All i wanna do right now is die. I just dont know what to do with myself. I only had him and he talked to me listened to everything and had a answer. He told me he wanted to keep in touch so i wrote him and he never wrote back and it should have been here already i called him once and im gonna call agqain but no one picked up.... =/ how can i make myself happy again. Be the girl i once was. Make my mother proud of who i am and for her to stop saying i dont do shit for her in her life!! And to try to get through loosing the bestest person ever cause i dont wanna get over him but....i dont know
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You need to find something that relaxes you. Just try and get away from it all. Take a trip or a spa dayor something. If you dont have the money then you can always just relax or do something that interests you that you didnt have time 4 before but you have time for now. YOU NEED TO FORGET ABOUT THE PAST AND WHAT YOUR MOTHER SAYS! It will releive a lot of stress from your shattered life! AsH! P.S. Stay positive!
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i was best friends with these 2 girls for 4 years. A couple of weeks ago i decided we shouldnt be best friends anymore. I was always the one being left out and i was jsut fed up of feeling that way so i told them that i just wanted to be friends, Now im regretting that i said that and do want to be their best friend again but i feel like if i do i will just feel the same as i used to be and be treated like JUST A FRIEND. please help me, what do you think i should do? sorry its long
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Just tell them why you said you only wanted to be friends and ask if they could b your best friends again and then see how they take it...or if your shy wite them a note but the 1st way is a lot easier and time saving...AsH!
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ok i asked the ? about getting into shape. you told me to drop one in you inbox saying how my days go so here it is:
when i wake up i do my first set of crunches. i eat fruit for breakfast. throughout the whoel day i do multiple sets of exercises (not only crunches but stretches and push ups as well) for lunch i'll have a sandwich and for dinner i usually eat cereal or sumthing small. i might have a snack on some days but it will usually be more fruit. i dont no what im doing wrong but also my back hurts like crap everyday ever since i got into doing the crunches. which has been around a month now. i thought it would go away but it hasnt so far. any comments on anything im doing wrong?
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Well...you said that you ate cerial 4 dinner? Ok...you need to eat 3 good, solid meals. And try not to have too many snacks. There is also sugar in fruit so mayb that can be causing something to go wrong. And about that back...your body might not b used to those crunches. I do crunches a lot just and i go on the stationary bike we have too. I do it to keep my adrenalin up...but my body wasnt so used to it at first. Stretch before you exercise and mayb that will help ova time. AsH!
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ok, i want to get into really good shape for the upcoming school year because i plan on working out hard over the course of the year. im trying to get my stomach to get really flat and its not working. i do sit ups every single day and i do a total of at least 4500 in a week. i stretch everyday too and i go on walks as often as possible, probably a few times a week. i swim twice or three times a week too but nothing seems to have any affect on my body. any advice? plz help! i rate high for any reasonable answer (link)
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Thses things dont just happen...you need to eat right too! You cant go off exercising and then expect to eat cake when you get home and expect to loose a few pounds. Send me an inbox of how your days go and i can tell you what to correct or do! AsH!
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