Aright, well...heres the deal. First of all there is this guy I had liked for about 4 years and things for really rough and we stopped seeing each other...when I say rough I mean he cheated on me with ALL of my best friends. I started working somewhere where I met this girl...she's absolutely amazing...everything about her. To get to the point, I fell head over heals in love with her. We were together for a while...and then I got basically shafted for this other girl who she is now with. Now, I'm moving 700 miles away and I'm to afraid to confront who is now the love of my life and talk to her. Also, my "best friend" confessed her love to me recently and she kissed me...so really everything is ALL messed up. The best friend that now says she loves me, has had a boyfriend for 2 years...if you were me, what would you do?
Loz4Dan4Eva answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 4:26 pm: Well this sounds really confusing to me. First of all you need to deal with your "best friend". You've got to tell her that you only like her as a best friend and that's it. I don't think it's a good idea to tell this other girl that you love her while she is seeing another person. Maybe you could go up to the girl that you was seeing while she is with the girl that you love and ask her for her phone number and then ask the girl you love for her's aswell and then once they have finished seeing each other you could tell her how you feel.
SaraLee answered Monday July 4 2005, 4:00 am: Okay so your a girl? lol I got VERY confused for a second when i read that you were with a guy and then a girl and now your friend that is a girl loves you. lol Are you bisexual or something? Anyway...To your answer. If she has confessed her love for you, then she isnt really worried about her 2 year long relationship with her boyfriend so then you should go for it. Make yourself happy with hte person you want to be happy with. Your person you are in love with now is who? Is she a friend, a stranger? If you like her than you SHOULD NOT be afraid to aproach her. Your need to have it out in the open if you want to be happy. Hope I helped. xox sara. [ SaraLee's advice column | Ask SaraLee A Question ]
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