Hello I'm Sara. I'm 16 years old. I love giving advice and I am very good at it. I have helped a lot of people out with their love, sex, drug, ruined lives and turned them around. I hope I can do the same for you if you give me a chance and just ask ME a question. I respond quick so you will get your answer as soon as you write it to me. I do have my own little problems too so we can share together if that makes you more comfortable.
.:.I love you John!.:.
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Does anyone know the freezing temperature of alcohol (drinking alcohol)? (link)
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There is no freezing temperature of alcohol. You can put it in the freezer (in a glass bottle) and it will never break, get old or freeze. It will just get EXTREMELY cold. Hope I helped.
Sara
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ok im 16. i have been w/ my b/f for bout a year n a month. and i just found out im pregnant 6 weeks. i love him very much but my family really doesnt aprove of him or want him in my life! now that they know im pregnant they want to stop seein my b/f becuz they think he is not father figure becuz my b/f isnt really that good guy he drug deals and used to be in gang and used drugs but has sober for about 8 and a half months. i dont know what to do help do i stay with his family and him n leave mine his family loves me sooo much they were always there for me. help. i dont know what to do!!!! HELp
het back to me! (link)
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WOw do you have a problem. First off, I'm sorry for this whole thing you are going through. If your family does not approve of him at all but you love him, he is your baby's daddy and then hes family loves you and accepts it then waht do you think? I think hes family. BUT and only but...is hes family "clean" like would your child be raised in a good clean nutrient family? You need you baby to have the best and only the best. He is a new life and needs everything. Think about waht is best for him..then you can think about yourself second. Thats how it is and thats always how it will be. You don't want your kid being a bad trouble maker by the time he/she is 5..so you pick what you think is best for the baby and you..Hope i helped. YOu better think hard about this. Oh and I'm 16 too.
OH OH OH I FORGOT TO SAY SOMETHING...YOu need to tell you parents that you are going to be with you boyfriend no matter what they think. He is your childs father and the baby needs a dad. If they do not like it..Threaten them and say you will move out with hes family taht actually like you and accept it. (they always cave in to this situation threat)
xox, Sara
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thats the whole problem... its not a 6 pac
ever since i started playing handball 5 years ago my muscles on my stomach began developing somewhat irregularly.
6 pac is supposed to be 6 bumps that are in pairs of 2 going from top to bottom, well thats not the case with me.
my muscles are disaligned, meaning that one starts in the midle of its oposite making it 8 msules not 6, which kinda looks wrong....
I NEED HELP AND AM WILLING TO SPEND LOADA CASH TO FIX THE PROBLEM.
how do i get my muscles back into the shape their supposed to be in??? PLZ SOME 1!! (link)
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If you do have an eight pak then maybe its just you worked a certain muscle harder..You can do that you know? work like the upper left more than the rest...I learned that in Karate. Hope i helped again.
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what does " i want to jump your bones" mean?
thanks! (link)
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In a honest very straight to the point meaning...it means "I want to have sex with you right now"...
xox, sara
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Hey!
Does anyone know any really really romantic books for teens about like teen romances? & I mean like really romantic ones. But not sadd.
thanks! (link)
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Oh no...Do not listen to anyone of those ideas. When I was 12 I got into these books because of my older sister...They are very romantic-not sad at all but i love them. They are called BLAZE..THey are by many many differnt authors and are about romance and sex and the feeling of love and relationships. very very good-i have about 50 of them and i started reading them since i was 12 and im 16 now. Just ot warn you that if you buy one of these you will not put it down...They are sold at any book stores and they have a lot at any wal-marts. hope i helped.
xox, Sara
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ok this is for guys mainly, unless girls have any idea
what would you want as an anniversary present?i have no clue what to get my b/f. any opinions? (link)
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Okay me and my boyfriends ONE YEAR anniversary was just this tuesday..the 23rd. I had NO IDEA what to get him..So me and my friend went to wal-mart picked out a REALLY REALLY REALLY sweet emotional card for him and then I picked out a very cute picture frame and a throw-away camera. Took a really cute picture of myself-well like a hundred (we took the pictures in the parking lot in my car) and then we went back inside and got them developed and then looked at the best one and then blew it up to a 5 by 7 picture and then put it in the picture frame...He loved it, even though i hated the picture (it was the best one though) he loved it...He got me a dozen spider-mums...are really really pretty flower and then a hundred balloons to my school...god its so easy for a guy...lol hope i helped-write me back.
xox, Sara
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heres the thing...the enamel on my teeth is coming off...like ive had bulimia but im pretty much better now...so my question is...can the enamel on my teeth grow back or is it gone forever? plz help me! im in a panic! (link)
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Yes actually you can..ONly if you have like a lot of money to pay for it all though. All you do is go to your dentist and they will tell you what you need to do. If not then I am sorry your are out of luck. Sorry If i cannot help you anymore.
xox, Sara
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Okay mine and my boyfriends one year is coming up. And I have NO idea what to get him for it. He doesnt like watches so thats totally out of the picture. PLEASE HELP! I need good ideas! (link)
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Hats I would prefer..Me and my boyfriends one year is august 23rd and hes birthday is august 12 so I'm getting him a tattoo for hes 18th birthday and then im getting him a hat for the anniversary..Because I have already got him a necklace.
I would prefer..
-a hat from pacsun (if you guys have that where you are from)35$
-A necklace (silver perferably)50$
-Earings (diamond stubs)20$ depends on size
-If you want to be romantic get a VERY VERY nice photo frame and try your hardest to get a very good picture of both of you or just a really sweet innocent picture of just you right before your anniversary comes up. He'll always be thinking of you then.
-I'm also getting my boyfriend the picture frame thing...or you can make your own from a craft store with all the things you guys have done on dates or something memorable.
sorry its so long but this is a gift that he has to ALWAYS remember...hes gift on hes first anniversary.
xox, Sara
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Ok, well i have this friend named heather. and we both like eachother as a boyfriend and a girlfriend, but we live about 30 minuets apart.. so were just friends. And i'm over weight, and im really thinking about not going to see her because of it.. She says my appearence dosen't matter but, i've just been made fun of and stuff soo much i can't believe her until i see her reaction. Someone please help me.
-Nab- (link)
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This should not matter to ANY girl. But some girls are so low in life that they have to have a partner in life that looks good to make them selfs look better. I think it is wrong to judge someone for their weight. I bet your a really nice guy to huh? I'm a very skinny girl-average size and my boyfriend is pretty big..He is about 15 pounds over weight for hes height. He's 5"6 but im not going ot give hes weight out because he don't want me to. I couldnt care less what people think of him, Its not all there is to a guy, I love him so much, people say we look different together cause I would look GREAT with a jock kind of guy but I hate thoughs types ya know? If she likes you and thinks you are a boyfriend type and she knows you a kind of big it shouldnt matter at all. Be straight forward with her and she should respect that, If not you can do better...Trust me, there is someone out htere for you...I found mine.
HOpe I helped,
xox, Sara
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what is the missionary position in sex? (link)
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missionary is when the girl is laying on her back and her legs are spread-but just enough for the guy to fit between her legs. The guy is on top of her with hes arms by her rib cage on the bed and is just thrusting while she lays there. To make it a little better you can enhance the position and wrap your legs around the guys hips...That makes it feel a hundred times better. I hope I helped ya.
xox, Sara ((write me back if you have any more questions))
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ok look i gave u my virginity to my current boyfriend! wen we have sex he refuses to stop until i have an orgasm! i tell him i do but im not sure if i have ever had one or not! wot does an orgasm feel like? and how do i no i've had one? PLEASE help! im desperate! (link)
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A orgasm is the greatest feeling. But...It's different with every girl. Like me...My legs trimble, my hands go numb, I can't breathe softly..I moan loud...But on the other hand..My sister...She told me that all she does is moan a little louder..I asked my boyfriend if I have ((he tells hes friends everything too)) He told all hes friends that he can feel me have one because how it feels on hes cock..YOu will know when you have one and he will too (unless he is a first timer, like yourself)
But hun..Trust me, you will know when you have one!...Its G.R.E.A.T! lol
Hope I helped...write me back..
xox, Sara
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ok so i have this friend let's call her kk ok so kk and i are really good friends and so is kk and our other friend lets call her taylor so we are all really good friends but kk and taylor leave me out like them just walkin and then all of a sudden they are just walking right next to each other and i am left behind and that really bothers me and then like a few weeks ago another one of my good friends lets call her lizzie ok so me, lizzie, taylor, and kk were walking and then all of a sudden me and lizzie were walkin next to each other and taylor and kk were walkin together and then lizzie got really up set because for one thing she is taylors younger sis like just a year younger and she gets left out alot but i try not to leave her out so she got really upset and went off and cryed so my friend kk went over and talked to her and scence all that all four of us are not aloud to be together at once (i know it sounds stupid but me, taylor, and kk are 13 and lizzie is almost 11 but almost 12 and she dose not like that same things as me, taylor and kk) ok so now kk is grounded from taylor but that dose not make scence because she can talk to me and all her other friends and scence then she said that she is grounding her self from seeing all her other friends and that hurt my feelings and now my mom said that i can't call kk even though i need to talk to her and tell her how i feel because i feel really hurt now because if she can't see taylor then she is not going to see any of her other friends and that really hurts me what should i do? should i talk to her when she calls and tell her how i feel or just talk to her like nothing is going on? and just to let you know i am a christian so no cussing please (link)
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YOu need to tell her (when she calls) exactly how you feel, no differnt, no faking. If she is a friend then she should at least try and act like she is listening...YOu know what im saying? If not then i have no idea what to do for you because my firends were the same way and i just stopped talking to them. I felt left out because okay... I have sarah, brittani, christin and mikayla. well brittani and mikayla had there thing then mikayla and sarah had there thing...well christin is like OVERLY huge and really hugly so she is always left out so we became friends but then she left me for brittani and then they all left me because they all follow one another...now its now me and mikyal because she dates my boyfriends brother and thats what brings us close AND THATS THE ONLY THING...im about ot loose her to because of how she acts...but i tell her how it is-and she listends...try that-sorry so long...i dont know why i wrote all that but i have to go
hope i helped.
xox, Sara
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my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 8 months, and we havent done anything sexual yet. all we do is make out ALL the time. lately he has been asking me to give him oral sex, which i am willing to do. the problem is, i have never given head before and my boyfriend has never gotten it before neither. i know how to give it, im just worried that i may do something wrong and my boyfriend wont enjoy it. if anybody can give me any advice id appreciate it. thanks. i rate high =) (link)
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Hey all I know (from experience) is DO NOT grind your teeth..try to keep your mouth open as wide as you can, but unless your sucking put your lips together as much as you can but still have your teeth far far away...I almost made my boyfriend cry-lol...it was also my first time. Use your hand too-but make sure its wet from your saliva before hand because it will hurt so bad that he wont want it again...and just go in a up and down motion...HE'LL LOVE IT!
xox, Sara
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Ok well the guy I kinda like I just found out has a girlfriend aww i know im sad... I cant get him out of mind, i have a myspace and hes one of my friends on it cause we go to school together and stuff i mean i didnt just meat him or anything and I use to like always look at his sight and leave him friendly comments and stuff but now the picture thats his main is of him and his girfriend kissing... I respect him and respect the fact that he has a girlfriend and all that cause were good friends and Im happy for him i just want to try to think of him as a really good friend and not get sad when i see thier picture... any advide please help...
signed I respect the man (link)
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Why would you say NO to my answer? I think I gave a pretty good one..But oh well-thats what I get for helping.
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well it this me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 1 year and i asked her is i could kiss her and she said no but she likes to take it slow and i said ok and that was about 2 mounths ago should i kiss her yet or wait and if we kiss should i use tounge and is there a special way to use tounge
please help i need it in the next few days
-rockfan23 (link)
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WOW...How old are you? Like seriously..YOu should ask that in your question so more people will answer respectfully. If you guys have been dating for a year I think it is about time to kiss...Unless she is cheating on you and trying to play an inncocent role. I would just ask her and lay it straight. You guys have been dating for a year and you guys havent kissed- seriously that is sad.Not even a peck!. Just natrually kiss her..Not fast kissing incase she likes to take it "slow". I seriously think you need to check your girl though..i think she is messing around on you. PLEASE WRITE ME BACK AND TELL ME YOUR AGE...IT WOULD HELP A LOT!!!
xox, Sara
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*well my ex boyfriend is coming over tomarrow and i made him a scrapbook of all our memories cause i want him to know how much i still care about him! he has told me 3 times since we've been broken up he loves me and hes said he misses me all the time! but theres also another girl that he likes and im trying to pretty much win him over..but anyways..i was just wondering if you had any ideas on how i could do like a scavenger hunt kinda thing to lead him to it cause i want this to be special!!! please help asap! thanks!* (link)
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Okay, well I think he is just trying to feel powerful if you ask me (i know your not asking me that but still) If he says all that then he obviously does not love you, he is trying to keep you trapped..it has happend to me in my past relationships! Trust me. But..If you want to be pricey I would go for rose pedals...just buy about a dozen roses and take hte pedals off...thats always a cute trail..or do a candy he likes...like make a trail of snickers or reccess cups...OR A VERY VERY good one...(That I would do for my boyfriend)..IF you are sexually active than make a trail of your underwear (sexy kind) and bras...That would turn him on and make him walk to it faster...lol. But if you are not sexual active then do one of my other choices...I hope I helped as much as possible. Tell me what you think!
xox, Sara
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Alright, so I know this girl, i've known her about a year and a half and we have dated once before for like 3 months. It was quiet long distance and we really didn't do anything. We got into a stupid fight about stupid thing's and stopped talking for about 7 months. Well, about 2 months ago I started talking to her again because I wanted to get to know her again and be cool since she will be going to the same high school as me this year as apposed to last year. So instantly we started talking on the phone and now we talk till like 3 am almost every night. I see her a bit more now and we spent the fourth with each other and now im like seriously falling for her, she is everything I could ever want. BUT, I don't really thinks she feels the same and she never tells me how she feels. She just says, I don't want a boyfriend during the summer. What should I do and how does it sound from a female point of veiw. (link)
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That is sweet that you care that much about her. Ya she prolly feels like that way. Most girls don't want a boyfriend during the summer because they like to go ot he beach and to movies and to parks without worrying about a boy, Ya know? Just let it wait. If she is going to your school next year than you totally have a shot higher than anyone so don't worry about that. Just tell her that you like her a lot and are looking forward when she is ready to have a boyfriend because the worst thing to do to a girl is push her. Hope I helped.
xox, Sara
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Okay, so last night i noticed this HUGE like...pimple...on my uh...vagina..im so worried because i dunno what it is and it had to have JUST came up....it lookes like a big pinkish-red pimple and it is pretty big. I was thinking it was maybe a wart but im not too sure because this thing is perfectly round and warts arent. It hurts like hell when you touch it and then a few seconds afterwards it itches. I'm not sexually active so i think it cant be an std...if anyone knows what this thing is and/or how to cure it please help!! (link)
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Okay. EVERYONE basically gave you the same answers. Which I know you weren't looking for. I had this same thing though and I got extremely scared because..I am sexual active (with ONLY my boyfriend..10months) well I went to my gyno lady and I asked her because it hurt and when I would touch it, it would itch like crazy. She told me it was a boil. A FUCKING BOIL?!?! On my vaginal. I was so grossed out, but she told me that I can pop it later (like a pimple) and it will have a little scar, if it gets to big. If it does not pop then yes it is a spider bit. Yes spiders can get down there because did you know you eat 7 spiders in your sleep by the time your 20? So ya spiders can get down there very easily. I hope I helped a little more.
xox, Sara!
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I'm 16, and I don't want a relationship right now because I just got out of a really long one and I'm enjoying being single. But now that I am single it seems that every guy is wanting to date me and I just want to be friends. I'm usually the type of person that takes things fast with guys, but I'm trying to change my priorities and try and become friends before the whole dating thing. But every guy that wants to get with me takes it the wrong way when I say, "I just want to stay single right now because I've gotten out of a long relationship and I'd rather be friends right now." After that they act really cool with the idea but after a couple weeks they stop talking to me, and then the next time I see them they get shitty with me because they feel insulted that I don't want to date them. I want to keep my guy friends and stop worrying about losing them just because I don't feel like dating at this point in time. And I have no clue how to say this with out hurting anyone's feelings or making them think that I'm not interested. They all take it that I a m shooting them down, which I am not at all trying to do. Many of the guys I do kind of like, but I want to stay single until I truly feel ready to date someone and I will know when that is, because I don't want to jump into the next available relationship and have it end quickly. I want to take my time and find a guy that will treat me right. I'm only 16 so I have plenty of time to stay single and find the right guy. So please help me! Is there anyway I can explain to these guys how I am feeling without them getting pissed off and thinking I'm shooting them down with the whole "just friends" line? (link)
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It's hard huh? Just getting out of a relationship. Ya Okay anyways. You just need to lay it straight to them. You still want to be friends but you got way to hurt from your last relationship that you just want to be singel and enjoy your life with a lot of friends, Tell them that you guys can still hang out and go to places..like the mall or movies (friends do that) If they do not respect your feelings and take them into consideration than they just want to date you for one reason and one reason only. If they stick around then you're off to a great start. I hope I helped.
xox, Sara!
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Im 14 and i havent had sex or anything but i have these dark bumps and little black dots on the insides of my thighs but not on my vagina and i have had this since i can remember. what could it be? and also i went to the gynocologyst and she did say anything! So could that mean it is not a big deal or none sex related or should i ask her? Please help! (link)
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If you went to a gyno then why didnt you ask her? She will not tell you any advice if you do not ask her because that means you are not curious about what it is. A gyno is one main person you can trust and should not be scared to ask any question..She does see inside you..HAHA. Well Im serious. Ask her because all I can think of is that they are black heads. Black heads can get really huge and discusting and they are down on innner thighs so try and squeeze one. I'm serious so dont laugh. Tell me what happens.
xox, Sara
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