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I need help
Alright, so I know this girl, i've known her about a year and a half and we have dated once before for like 3 months. It was quiet long distance and we really didn't do anything. We got into a stupid fight about stupid thing's and stopped talking for about 7 months. Well, about 2 months ago I started talking to her again because I wanted to get to know her again and be cool since she will be going to the same high school as me this year as apposed to last year. So instantly we started talking on the phone and now we talk till like 3 am almost every night. I see her a bit more now and we spent the fourth with each other and now im like seriously falling for her, she is everything I could ever want. BUT, I don't really thinks she feels the same and she never tells me how she feels. She just says, I don't want a boyfriend during the summer. What should I do and how does it sound from a female point of veiw.
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it sounds like you really like this girl. have you told her how much yet? if not, you need to. she might be feeling the same thing, but sometimes girls wont open up to guys because they are afraid of getting hurt. let her know that you like her and that you arent going to be like other guys she may have been with. if you get rejected it wasnt meant to be. but if she feels the same then taking the risk of being rejected was worth it.. right?
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well if she doesnt want a boyfriend during the summer then wait till the skool year and ask her how she feels about you...if she feels that way about you, then ask her out. Since you dont really kno how she feels bout you as of right now, ask her somwhere where its just you and her and maybe some other random people.
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tell her how you feel about her all the way. then ask her how she feels about you...if she still says she doesnt want a b/f during the summer, then tell her that you still want to know what she thinks and how she feels about you. if it's just not going to work out during the summer, then continue to call her and talk to her. then maybe when school's back in and you'll be around her more, then maybe ya'll will connect better and she will realize her feelings for you. hope i helped! :)
xoxo,
marie
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"I don't want a boyfriend during the summer" is an excuse. Either she can't tell you to your face that she doesn't want to go out with you, or she's chicken and afraid to. You've got it made, basically, since she willingly has long conversations with you. I can't really explain this because I don't know enough about the relationship, only that you 'hung out on the 4th and talk on the phone til 3am' but basically I think you should take a chance... you have nothing to lose.
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ii think you should have a lonqq conversation with thiss qirrl..tell her excatly how u feel let everythinq..out and..believe me she has 2 have some kind of feelinqss for you..by the way you say yins talkk till like 3 am..it will all work outt
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just give her hints all summer that you like her. and then when summers over ask her out on a date and just tell her how you feel.
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Ok, so then logically your telling me to play the waiting game, and don't push her...Just maybe try to be even better friends then we are?
I can try that, but I sometimes feel that if we get to know each other to much she will give the, "well your more like my brother," type of thing. I don't really want that, I wan't her, more than i've ever wanted anyone. It's hard sometimes. But alright, thank's for your advice girls.
-Levi-
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That is sweet that you care that much about her. Ya she prolly feels like that way. Most girls don't want a boyfriend during the summer because they like to go ot he beach and to movies and to parks without worrying about a boy, Ya know? Just let it wait. If she is going to your school next year than you totally have a shot higher than anyone so don't worry about that. Just tell her that you like her a lot and are looking forward when she is ready to have a boyfriend because the worst thing to do to a girl is push her. Hope I helped.
xox, Sara
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