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Last Update: November 18, 2005
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k i like this guy lets call him D and he is black i am white and my parents are totaly against that! i havent told them yt but i really like D so i am confussed about what to do!!! i think he likes me too but its kinda iffy!!! i wanna date him but i dont want to be disowned by my family. and i know they will disowen me because the had told me before if i had ever dated one then they would ! so what should i do!!!
Thanks!

P.S. for really stupid answers i will give ones!! (link)
This is so "MArTiN lUtHEr kIng tIme" cant we all jsut live in peace..seriouslu..my grandmother said they same thing to me. Just because theyre skin is a different shade means not one bit. I come to find out that my grandmother was just saying that to make me believe she would disown me. When i dated one she was mad but she got over it. Just explain to ur parents its your life and your choice. If you made the wrong decision then you made the wrong decesion dont let anyone make you mad like that..they just dont want you to get hurt. Seriously many blacks are the nicest funniest people you can meet, i have nothing against them. THat would be like saying that you can have sprite but not coke..just because one is a lighter shade doesnt mean its any different...theyre both drinks just like black and whites are both humans.
HOpE i hELped..go0d Luck..


Okay I really want to pierce my own cartlage but I don't know exactly how. I want to do it the right way so I won't get it infected or whatever. Could anyone give me precise instuctions? Thanks in advance! (link)
Please don't. The people when i got it done told me that if you pierce it wrong it can go through a vein in your ear and kill you so i would definitly get it professionly done. PLus it hurts like crazy i have my belly button done n it didnt hurt as bad as that

hope i helped x00x


What guys look for in a girl?? Thanx

Eye color?
Hair color
Do you want her to kiss you on the first date?
If not when?
When is it alright to take it to second base
How soon do you want her to put it out (sex wise)
athletic, preppy or girly girl?
Skinny,muscular,chubby or fat
shorter or taller than you?
experienced or unexperienced?
Do looks matter?
Whats a major turn off?
Whats a major turn on?
Feature you like the most on girls?
Do you like it when a girl makes the first move?
If your girlfriend gains 20lbs will you stay with her?
Do you like it when girls play hard to get?
Dou you like
Would you date a girl who has slept around just for sex?
Would you date an ugly girl just for sex?
Ass or boobs?
Pretty face or hot body
Do you mind if a girl beats you while playing sports?
Make-up or no make-up?
dressed up girl or sweat pants/casual jeans and a sweatshirt
First thing you notice about a girl?
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Hey. im a girl but i asked my best guy friend because these ?s are fun! lol

1..eye color- doent matter--blue is this prettiest
2..hair color-blond
3..kiss--wenever the moments right
4..wenever
5..wenever
6..just as long as she doesnt get on his nerves
7..between skinny n muscular
8..same or shorter
9..doesnt matter
10..not really she cant be busted though
11..bad hygiene
12..outgoing
13.. besides the hardcore stuff hips
14..yeh
15..yeh
16..depnds on personility n looks
17..no
18..lil bit of both
19..lil bit of both
20..no thats hott
21..dont matter
22..casual
23..eyes lips


There is these 2 older guys.Im 14 and theyre 17. They have seemed to like me but I dont know.Would older guys like someone younger out of everyone of their own age? (link)
Most guys sometimes do, sometimes dont..it really depends on the guy, not trying to sound rude or mean but most older guys go for younger woman to get in there pants.! SoRRy!. hoPE i hElPed


I am kind of sad because all of my friends have a b/f and I dont...... I know it sounds child like but it has been this way for a year now... I mean I am not the best looking but I still want someone.... idk what I should do..... btw 15/female (link)
Try to hang out with some more guys/girls so you can meet guys! But being single is also fun u can flirt with any guy you want.I dont know, maybe your shy, but try to get around more guys so you can find the right one for you.

xoxo GoOD LUcK bAbe..plEaSe raTE~


hey well im really depressed all teh time. and i want to quit school. and im just so sick of everything! im just stressed. can somebdy give me advice on what to do? (link)
Chill out..life sucks! I know and im sorry. Please dont let these things get to you..because one of my friends was just like you..stressed about everything and he almost comitted sucicide..but it isnt worth it! Live life to the fullest and dont let little things get to you. Look at the good things about every situation, not the bad things. I dont know if you have friends but try to get one really close one and do stuff with him/her so you wont think about other stuff and let it get to you. Well if you need anything else PLLEASE let me know. Im here to help wenever you need me!
xOxO


can you get pregnant from anal sex? (link)
No, ..but you can get stds and i heard it hurt!
hOpe i HeLped
xoxo


this isn't really a ? but a survey for guys. what do guys like best in a girl
looks
blonde or brunette?
color eyes?
height?
skinny or average weight?
populararity or just a nice average girl?
i'll give everyone who answers everything a 5.

thanks Kate (link)
blonde
blue or green
5'0-5'5 depending on there height..girls should be shorter its cuter
thick- not to skinny to see the bone but not to fat that its just..nasty
nice average girl..popular girls are to stuck up

Im a girl..but i asked my guy friend these ?s hope i helped!
xoxo


my bf just dumped me . i want a song about me being his ex gf does anyone know any songs? (link)
*ex gf by gwen stefani...
*since youve been gone by kelly clarkson
*im not really sure..why would u want a song about that anyways?! Write me a message and put in my inbox and explain more pleaseee!!
xoXo


How do I go about giving my boyfriend a handjob? And then how do I do it? Is a condom required? thank you!! (link)
giving a handjob is easy. While your making out..undo the guys belt and unzip his zipper. find the *u knoe what* spit on your hands or use a kind of lotion to make it more relaxing. A condom doesnt need to be there and i*m pretty sure you can get any stds or anything from a handjob so no condom is neccissary! Hope i helped...drop one in my inbox if you have anymore ?s!

p/s- just hold it...not to tight and go in an up and down motion also they like it wen you massage the top of the penis! !


well my ex boyfriends birthday is coming up and we decided we were gonna spend the day together after school or the following day together! weve been broken up for almost 7 months now! ya i know a really long time! but through it all weve been like best of friends and we talk all the time! and weve hung out twice this summer! well he does tell me he knows we both want to be together but it wont work right now because he is dating another girl but they arent going out cause she cant have a boyfriend! and even after being broke up hes like i love u and i always will! and just last night he said he missed us! and i still really care about him! but anyways for his bday i wanna do something really cute! i was already thinking about making him a cake and decorating it all cute and getting him a card! but i was trying to think of something else special i could do to show him how much i care! any ideas? thanks so much! (link)
hEy! well i seems like this guy really digs you! Im so happy that you all are friends and stuff! lOl..anyways a card and a cake would be so cute..maybe buy him something hes really into..ya knoe if he likes a certain kind of music buy him some c.ds but if you want to do some other stuff im sorry but i LOVE putt putt and its so cute..pretend like you dont know how to play..then he will have to help you. thats always fun!! :) Movies, walk in the park, and just hanging out is fun to. Buy him something to remind him of you, so he can think about you 24/7

If you need any more ideas drop it in my inbox

please rate :)

mAke iT a b_daY hE wiLL NEVER fORgEt


If yur on the 1st day of yur period, but yur flow is just normal, not heave and not light, can yu go swimming w/o a tampon? Like is there anything yu can use or do to go swimming w/o a tampon. Dont talk about how easy to use and comfortable tampons r, thats not what i care about. Plees help, i rate high (link)
actually, i went swimming with out a tampon before and then RIGHT wen i was done i went into the bathroom n nothing happened! On the 1st day of your period(mine is) light so dont fret! Have fun swimming..ALSO try to get a black bathing suit just to be extra careful! But seriously i dont think tampons are all that bad just try to get use to them..also the light type of tampons are more comfy!
drop one in my inbox if you need some more info!


ok when i go to a search engine like ask.com or msn or google..it has everything i searched for saved in the spot where you type in what your looking for. is there any way to delete that? if my parents ever use my laptop and see the things ive searched for..that wouldnt be good (link)
just hold down the Ctrl button and H this clears all of your toolbar history. hope i helped :)


i sure hope you can help me. heres my story... ok me and this boy named zach used to go out like a yr. ago! and when we went out it didnt last long. now me and him are starting to talk again and we are getting along great. we are talking about getting to know each other more and then thinking about getting back together.
some how me and him started talking about sex! he wants to have sex with me cause he likes me alot! and i like him so i cant turn him down! im scared though.its not cause im still a virgin its because im afraid ill get pregnant! i know alot of teens loose there virginity and most of them dont get pregnant the first time. but im afraid beacuse if i get pregnant then my parents will kill me. i dont want to make another mistake because i ahppen to make alot of those! so can u please help me choose what to do? and what condom is the best? and if i do have sex with him with a condom what the percent chance i can get pregnant! thanx so much i hope u can help me! i rate high

IM me on xoxokaylaoxox91 always kayla (link)
hEy kayla..i*m in the EXACT same situation..first off i dont know your age but im 13 and ready to have sex so i*m not going to judge you on that. Anyways, virgintiy is something you own and make sure you give it away to a person you really care about. If i were you i would give it a while to make sure this is someone you love very muxh. If you plan to have sex, here are some ways that help to make sure you don*t get pregnet

1. USE A CONDOM (trojan or lifestyle and get it with spermcide* that kills the sperm when he cums)

2. GET ON BIRTHCONTROL- you can get this from planned parenthood

3. Pull out before it comes out- if you now what i mean..just to be extra sure

4. Lol i think this is funny but have your boyfriend drink like a whole 2-liter of Mountain Dew (it kills sperm) right before you have intercourse so you can also be extra sure

lOl..so about the percentage of condoms..i think trojans are 97-99% chance that you will not get pregnet..i really have no clue about the others and I don*t want to lie to you :)

Also, if you do get pregnet go to planned parenthood and get THE MORNING AFTER PILL...i*M not sure exact how much it cost but its suppose to kill the egg :)
hOpe i helped..i*m me sometime blueyesfiddler@aol.com


hi i really like this guy and i don't no if i should tell him because i think he hates me what should i do? (link)
get a friend to talk to him for you, see whats going on..lemme knoe if you need anything else...communication is the key in a relationship
hope i helped xOx


i just cleaned out my whole closet basically and now i only have like 40 shirts! i usually shop at abercrombie // hollister // american eagle, and its pretty pricy. i was wondering if there was any other stores that have websites with cute clothes for school this year. and if you could name some. thank youu! (link)
places in the mall like fashion shop, rave, pennys stuff like taht alos wal-mart (i knoe its not a place you would like to be seen shopping at) but its clothes are real cute and not expensive also dillards..but thats more expensive if you need some more let me knoe
please rate n leave feedback if you have the time xOx


i just can't get the ladies off me. they wont leave me alone to tend to my own needs. they flock to me like sheep to a sheep herder and nothing will stop them. sometimes they even break into my house jsut to watch me make my cute little face when i sleep. what can i do to get the ladies off of me?? (link)
oh man that must sucks ! Any ways buy an alarm system or being ugly er something just stop bragging :) hope i helped


ok...well im really upset right now...usually im the person giving advice but not this time..well me and my boyfriend lets call him...bob?...and this girl...up lets call her paris?...idk..well im reallyy upset right now..and im sorry if this is long..i was going thru my boyfriends myspace and i saw a comment that "paris" left saying awww i (link)
hey! im really sorry to hear about this because its almost exactly what happened to me. My EX friend was talking to my boyfriend on the phone and they started talking about sex (this is what she told me) and he was saying how pretty she was and all this shit..so i talked to him and he said yeah he said that but he was just "horny" and i was like WTF!But i was so in love with him that i excepted his apology and now we're doing good..but really jsut talk to him because like me, you have evidence and if he really cares about you you can just see it in his eyes. If you need ANYTHING else im here for you
xoXo

p.s.- my ex friend was a SLUT and she will do a guy in a second, and she was in love with my boyfriend and just wasnt ready to do that like handjobs stuff like that so he wanted that from her.


hey im 14/f and my mom has always told me 2 use pads. instead of tampons. I guess pads are more comfortable she says. But i wanna wear a tampon 4 like when i go swimming. I have tried 2 use before but i couldn't get it in. ik i was doing it rite i just couldn't get it in. So if i wanna start using tampons how can i do it w/o being grossed out. (link)
hEy i will try to say this without sounding to gross lol..okay here it goes..sit on the toilet with your legs open..use regular size, dont start with super just open your legs and find the hole..lol and just stick the tampon up there..i find them quite comfy :-) Send me a message if you need more explaining! lOl (sorry i didnt go into much detaiL!

xOx-daNCeR cHycK!


What's something special I could do for me and my boyfriend's 3 month anniversary? (link)
Tell him you love him (if your serious about it) and go to the place where you first started going out or buy him a c.d that he likes or just hang all day and talk, thats always fun. Maybe go out to eat or to a movie. hOpe I HeLPed

drop one in my inbox if you need some more ideas :)




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