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Question Posted Monday August 8 2005, 10:35 pm

hi i really like this guy and i don't no if i should tell him because i think he hates me what should i do?

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shutupnkissme98 answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 4:06 pm:
wow well if he hates you then you should jus talk to him like normal and try to find out why he hates you. work up the relationship until your pretty good friends again. you can do this by simply talking to him. once your friends again give hints to him that u want more. you can do this by flirting alot or mayb having a friend "let a secret slip" to him. hope i helped XoXo

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salemwolf answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 1:14 am:
just come out. if he hates you then you really have nothing to lose. trust me i've kept things secret and its screawed me over befor in having a relationship with a girl i really like during the school year.

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CxoMariiex3 answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 8:18 pm:
dont tell him*become friends with him, then tell him & why would u like a guy that hates you?

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TheCynic answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 5:06 am:
This may be the answer you want to hear:

Well, like, I think you should totally tell him because you never know how he really feels, and who knows, he could end up being in love with you!

This is the answer I'm going to give you:

If you're picking up on signs that he hates you, then DON'T tell him anything. Sure, you might regret it for some odd reason, but in the end, I think you just saved yourself a ton of embarassment. Human intuition is there for a purpose, so use it! If you seriously think this guy hates you, then don't go and tell him you really like him. For you, it'll be mortifying, and for him, it will be really really weird.

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DancerBabyx0x answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 1:26 am:
Let him know, because you never know how a guy feels until you ask!

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charmed3fanatic answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 12:37 am:
tell him.. you never no.. a lot of guys act mean to you because they like you.. and they don't know how to act around you.. so tell him the worst thing that could happen is he could say he doesn't like you either.. just make sure you tell him because if you don't he could forget about you.. and make sure it's the right time hope i helped

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Teza answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 12:07 am:
I think its a normal thing sometimes to think that a guy hates you. Well for some girls. But most of the time its not true! Dont think that he hates you. Does he have a reason? Think about it. Having a friend talk to him for you is fine but I honestlly think you should do it yourself. I mean you can.. its for the best. Just talk to him and find out. First find out if he hates you or not.. which I dont think he does. And get to know each other more and keep in touch. After your feelings have grown more for him just let him know how you feel!

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LeigGhxOx answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 12:07 am:
get one of your friends or his friends to ask him if he likes anywho , or who he likes and then you could get them to tell you and then you tell him what you feel .

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Girlfriend15 answered Monday August 8 2005, 11:57 pm:
If I were you I would call him up and talk to him for a REALLY long time. It doesn't matter what you talk about (school, friends, party's, etc.). Just kinda laugh and carry on the conversation and let him get to know you better, while at the same time your getting to know him a lil more. Then after yall have been talking for like an hour or so I guess, just tell him that you like him. Of course you don't want to just blurt it out, but say it kind of slowly and not straight to the point. Be like.. well I've been meaning to tell you something, and I don't want you to think of me differently, but I really like you and I've always felt that you've hated me.. or something like that ya know? I really hope I helped. GOOD LUCK!! an keep me posted!

<3 ME*

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ViTaChaN answered Monday August 8 2005, 11:39 pm:
If you really like him..Just tell him..Don't worry about being hated..And if you're not sure to tell him that, be his friend first because everything starts with friendship.Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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i_love_my_bitch answered Monday August 8 2005, 11:29 pm:
you should tell him because he might feel the same way u do but might just think u hate him

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MusicMuse008 answered Monday August 8 2005, 11:26 pm:
You need to find out if he really hates you first of all. Ask him or one of his friends, or if your shy have a friend of yours do the digging. If you find out that he really does hate you, CHANGE HIS MIND! Show him what a great person you are. If you need any more advice, feel free to ask. I hope things go well!

~Bee~

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xOxdancErcHyckxOx answered Monday August 8 2005, 11:21 pm:
get a friend to talk to him for you, see whats going on..lemme knoe if you need anything else...communication is the key in a relationship
hope i helped xOx

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