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does anyone know any sad and depresing songs i can listen to. break up songs, madning songs, or sad songs. ill rate 5s.

Here You Me- Jimmy Eat World
We Belong Together- Mariah Carey
All My Life- Kasey & JoJo
Feels Like Home- Chantal Kreviazuk
Cold- Crossfade
Listen To Your Heart- DHT
Bother- Stonesour
I'll Be- Edwin McCaine
First Week- Graham Colton Band
Fall To Pieces- Avril Laveign
Untitled- Simple Plan

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ok my boyfriend asked me this question and i dont know what to do. ok first of i am 14 and my boyfriend 15 (turnin 16 in sept)and well i have known him for 3 months but i have been going out with him for 2 weeks and everything has been going great except one thing.. MY PARENTS. out of two week i have only seen my boyfried once...y bc i meet him online and i talked to him on the phone then meet up with him at the mall with a friend.. i noe i shouldnt be meetin up wit guys online but i did it. (plz dont say anyhting about that because i already did it) my parents wont let me out of the house. my boyfriend gave my two things i can do 1) either wait until i am 16 and he is willin to wait for me and in the mean time we stay close friends (i dont know about that i am scared that i will never have a secondchance) or 2) keep going like this and see my boyfriend wheveer i can?? dont knwo what to do?? i mean sometimes i will probably be able to see my boyfriend once every 2 months and i dont want to hold him back from liking or going out with other girls.. does someone one get what i am talking about?? can someone please helps me out??? i need some advice on what to do?? and i cant fallow my heart it is confussed...

well it really all depends on how much you like and TRUST (

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ok i have worn uniforms for EIGHT YEARS and im sick of them. WHat can i do to bend the rules but not break them and dress up my uniform .OUr unifrom rules are pretty leniant. I rate high!!

If you have to wear button up shirts, then you could put a really cute shirt under it an un button some of the buttons and let some of your undershirt show, or hell, you could do that without a cool undershirt (lol). Or if you wear jackets then if it looks okay you could turn it inside out. Maybe with your shirt you could also tye it to the side or in the front with a rubberband an make it look like you tyed a knot with it (like Daisy in dukes of hazzard, just not that short). If you have to wear skirts MAYBE if they'll let you, you could cut lots and lots of slits all the way around it, so when you sit down all the strips will fall over ur legs. Some of these ideas maybe bending the rules a little TO much, but I hoped I helped!!

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I like some of the clothing from the Dickies brand but i know like if you wear something from volcom and you dont like skate your a poser. So i dont want to be a poser to everyone cuz no one will talk to me. My style is kinda punk rockish. I get kinda overwhelmed cuz its like im supose to walk into the store knowing what all these brands are.

So can i wear the dickies brand and all?
And what does it stand for?

OF COURSE YOU CAN!! Screw everyone else! >Only God Can Judge You

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I have a really cute guy friend name"Brock Bumbarger" & we have been friends for 3 years now. We hang out all the tim, and go to the movies together!! Last august on my 15th b-day he kissed me, like making out wise & ever since then I have been confused. Everyone says we should just admit we like each other. I so want to tell him how i feel, but i am scared he might reject me & I would know what to do if he did. What should I do?

Girl Go For It!! If he's really your best friend, he wouldn't let something like that get in the way or your friendship. My best friend told me he liked me and after he told me that i kinda started to like him too. Maybe that'll happen with yall. I mean the second someone tells you that they like you, it's always very flattering and even though ou don't admit it sometimes, you kinda develope feelings for them too, ya know what I'm sayin? I don't know that's just the way i look at it. Hope I helped and keep me posted! GOOD LUCK!!!

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hi i really like this guy and i don't no if i should tell him because i think he hates me what should i do?

If I were you I would call him up and talk to him for a REALLY long time. It doesn't matter what you talk about (school, friends, party's, etc.). Just kinda laugh and carry on the conversation and let him get to know you better, while at the same time your getting to know him a lil more. Then after yall have been talking for like an hour or so I guess, just tell him that you like him. Of course you don't want to just blurt it out, but say it kind of slowly and not straight to the point. Be like.. well I've been meaning to tell you something, and I don't want you to think of me differently, but I really like you and I've always felt that you've hated me.. or something like that ya know? I really hope I helped. GOOD LUCK!! an keep me posted!

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well i was wondering is all the drama from laguna beach actually real.... cause it seems to perfect ... like if it was palanned 2 be true

I totally agree with you! It does seem waay to perfect. I don't think it's real. I think they just grabbed a bunch of rich good looking people and told them who they were going to be and who was going to hate who. Even though i don't really believe it's real, I still love to watch it anyway. Drama is always good when it's happening to other people. It's kinda like a movie, you know it's not real but who cares, it's still really good anyways.

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I just got my period (i've had it for 2 years) and i noticed that in my pad the blood was dark black instead of red/maroon like it usually is. What does this mean??? its dark dark black. Am i dehydrated or sumthing?

It just means your healthy. having dark blood is a good thing. if you've ever had a cut like on your leg or something and your blood came out darker than normal, that's pretty much the same thing. It happens to me to sometimes, it's nothing to worry about.

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I usually just use a little foundation with powder over it to set the foundation, but it really makes my skin look so dry and---dull. theres no dewyness or light to it. What are some types of makeup I can use to give my skin a dewy glow??

i don't exactly know what "Dewy" means, but i use Cornsilk Bronser. It's just regular powder. cornsilk is just the name brand of it. It works for me just make sure not to put to much on or else your skin will look orange. YOu can buy it at any wlak-mart, probably CVS, walgreens, and other pharmacy's have it to.

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I'm a 16 year old girl, and I don't shave my legs or armpits on any regular basis. I'll do them for special occassions or if I'm wearing a special outfit, but most of the time the hair just doesn't bother me so I don't bother removing it. I figure that it's my body, and my time and energy that I'm saving by not shaving, but sometimes I worry that guys won't be interested in me because of this and I've got to the age where I wish guys expressed more interest in me. Should I start shaving, or should I just wait for a guy who doesn't mind me being me?

omg your JUST liek me!! i do that too! i've been doing it since like the 6th grade (in 11th grade now) i haven't told anyone about it, i just wear pants all the time and if i wear skirts or roll my pj pants up a little bit.. or if i wear a sleaveless shirt. Nobody ever notices it as long as whenever you do deside to show your legs or raise your arms, their smooth.. plus if someone does find out, be like it's winter and im not gonna where shorts of skirts and show my legs right now anyway, so why waste my time in doing it. make up some stupid excuse that's pointless, but makes sense.. It's perfectly normal, i wouldn't worry about it.

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I am a 17/m and i really like this girl. I have a plan to ask her out. The only problem is that it involves two weeks and Valentines day. The plan is to leave notes in her locker with no name just ending it the same way. Should i go for the two week plan or should i just ask her?

just ask her and get it over with.. if u leave notes in her locker, yeah it'll flatter her alot.. but she might find it kinda weird not knowing who it is thats writting her.... but hey, thast just me-- hope i helped! Keep me posted on what happens!! (like wut u do, and what she says)

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ive been seeing this guy for about 2 months now and i think our relationship is just based on sexuality and looks... i mean when we first started our relationship we were like awesome friends and we loved to talk all the time and now i feel as if we never talk anymore and he isnt the person i once thougtht he was.. like we never talk anymore and i feel all we do is like make out... i try to read books and see if he is interested in what they have to say and sometimes they have poetry and i leave him sweet notes in his locker but we still like never talk anymore... help!
how do i tell him how to change without looking like im tryin to make him the person i want him to be?

awww. you kinda sound like me. but i've been goin out with my boyfriend for almost a year now. I thought at one point that our relationship began to become about sex to so i told him that we should stop for a little while and he was fine with it. that's when i knew that our relationship was more because i told him i didnt want to and he respeted my decision and didnt try to talk me out of it. Just tell your boyfriend that you want to stop for a little while, if he's okay with it then your good, but if he doesnt then ask him why it's so improtant to him b/c use to he didnt really seem to mind, but now thats all he thinks about. i hope everything turns out!

->ME!

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what does git-r-done mean?? alot of guys at my school use this term.

It means Get It Done! like go ahead and screw the gurl and get it over with.

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Ok I asked the question about bangs a while ago. Anyways, do you just get them cut on one side of your part? Like I part my hair to the side so should I get mine cut on just the larger side if that makes sense? How long should they be? I don't want them to be really long though if that makes sense. Can anybody help me with these. If you know anything else, then let me know too. Thanks.

yes get them on that bigeest side. but a little bit on the other side wouldn't be that bad. u should get them long enough to go behind your ears, but not to long just long enough (if that makes sense) b/c u want to be able for all your hair to fit when you put it up in a ponytale or else it'll all fall in your face. My friend has them and they look really great. But it all depends on your personality i guess. Hope everything turns out great! -->ME!

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My friend is a horrible singer and he wants to be fameus and sing on american idol but he sucks really bad.. i dont know how to tell him

PLEASE HELP ME !

he's not gonna go on american idol. he might want to, but he never will get around to doing it. Trust Me!

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does anyone no any really good books. My mom wants me to get into reading (i hate reading) so i need a good book thatti wont hate to read!

anything will do! thanks a lot!

Well i loved the book called "Sounder".. but alot of peoiple didn't and its kind of long. The book "Girl Interupted", now everyone liked that one. I hate reading too but once u read a little bit of that one you'll wanna read it for days. Also the book "6 months to live" that was good, but sad. Those were the last 2 books i read and that was like 3 years ago. I know its kinda sad but there really good books. Hope you liek them as much as i did >if u decide to read them.

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See my boyfriend isaac lives s=in a hole diffrent town but this other boy Colton lives in the same town and he goes to my school how can i cheat on isaac without him noing.

you shouldnt cheat on him period.. if you dont like him enough to just have him and only him then you should be dating him. how would you like it if he cheated on you behind your back? just think about if he finds out.. he's probabley gonna dump u

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i got my gf pregnant and we havint told anyone yet should we tell someone like our parents
or should we not. and since i got her pregnant should we like get marryed or something i mean i am not ready for that i am only 15

ur a dumbass! lol i've had the same problem but it just turned out that i over reacted and wasnt pregnant.. i hope the same turns out ofr u--I'll pray for u

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ok..me nd my bf have been together for 7 months. just recently we had oral..and he busted...so he went to the bathroom and everything was ok. later that day, he fingered me. my period has always been irregular. im late a week nd my bf is freaking out. is there any way i culd b pregnant?

umm no!! the only way that could happen is if his juice went inside your coochie. If it goes inside your mouth then your okay, trust me. sry if i come off a bitch i jsut hate it when people freak out about dumb shit like this. My friends did it to guys all the time just for attention. Your probabley not doin it for attention, but im just sayin..

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ok i like this gurl and i want to tell her and this is my plan but i want to kno if its corny or not. ok i was gonna ask her to take a walk with me and then take her hands and b like "i really like u and i was wondering if u could see me as a b/f?" abd then also if she says yes wat am i sapposed to do and wat do i do if she says no?

awww! thats soo sweet!! you should definatly do that! if she says yes be like, "really? cuz i was real nervouse that you were going to say no, but i'm really happy you said yes b/c i didnt think you even looked twice at me." (*say it with a big smile on your face*) then just try to find stuff out about her. ask her where her favorite place is to eat, then that weekend on your first date, you should take her there. i hope i helped! i wish you lots of luck! -->ME!

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