I am a 17/m and i really like this girl. I have a plan to ask her out. The only problem is that it involves two weeks and Valentines day. The plan is to leave notes in her locker with no name just ending it the same way. Should i go for the two week plan or should i just ask her?
DiamondGirl answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 5:32 pm: Sometimes romance is good, but you can be romantic & still be direct. I like the direct approach and then be romantic by doing little things for her after she knows for sure and like little private romantic things.
THOSEGirls answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 9:52 am: Just ask her out. You can come up with something different for Valentines Day if you are still into each other then.
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I have to agree. Your plan sounds really sweet, but it will be pretty disappointing if she's not interested after all that. Just be direct.
Girlfriend15 answered Tuesday February 1 2005, 1:10 am: just ask her and get it over with.. if u leave notes in her locker, yeah it'll flatter her alot.. but she might find it kinda weird not knowing who it is thats writting her.... but hey, thast just me-- hope i helped! Keep me posted on what happens!! (like wut u do, and what she says) [ Girlfriend15's advice column | Ask Girlfriend15 A Question ]
Toca_says answered Monday January 31 2005, 10:07 pm: awwww that's so0o cute... girl's love it when guyz do that for them.... definately do the two week plan.... it's so romantic when a guy asks a girl out on Valentine's Day... tell me how it goes =) [ Toca_says's advice column | Ask Toca_says A Question ]
dancinqueen08 answered Monday January 31 2005, 10:06 pm: The two week plan sounds really cute. I think you should stick with that. I know as a girl that secret notes in the locker are the sweetest things we could get. I don't know a single girl who wouldn't like something like that. [ dancinqueen08's advice column | Ask dancinqueen08 A Question ]
xXxpinky615xXx answered Monday January 31 2005, 9:56 pm: I honestly think that would be really sweet leaving notes in her locker. Asking a girl out of Valentines day has got to be the most romantic thing a guy can do!! You should definately keep up with that plan! It sounds so cute, If I was her, I'd accept in a heart beat. That's the cutest idea I've heard. Go for it hun! Good luck! Hope this helped. [ xXxpinky615xXx's advice column | Ask xXxpinky615xXx A Question ]
wantinganswers112 answered Monday January 31 2005, 9:51 pm: I think that the 2 week thing is a good idea. I think that she would apperciate the fact that you went way out of your way to get your relationship off to a good start. But, just be sure that she doesn't think it's someone else through the whole process, I think that would be the only thing that could ruin the whole thing! Good luck! [ wantinganswers112's advice column | Ask wantinganswers112 A Question ]
KiRmaRiE answered Monday January 31 2005, 9:49 pm: aww thats sweet! well i think any girl would appreciate you leavin notes on their locker n stuff. but you could always ask her now. you sound sweet. im sure she'll say yes [ KiRmaRiE's advice column | Ask KiRmaRiE A Question ]
Melaur1001 answered Monday January 31 2005, 9:49 pm: YES do that she'd LOVE it! awe I wish I knew a guy as sweet as you! On Valentines day bring her roses and a really cute teddy bear and ask her out that day!! :o) Hope she loves it, I bet she will! [ Melaur1001's advice column | Ask Melaur1001 A Question ]
Reesespieces022 answered Monday January 31 2005, 9:42 pm: absolutely wait and ask her out on valentiens day : ) my exboyfriend asked me out last valentines day...i loved it : ) the notes in her locker is such a sweet idea, but maybe do it for a week instead of two. Make sure you tell one of her friends what your plan is so that if shes having any doubts about you liking her, or about you asking her out, they can discreetly assure her that she has nothing to worry about. [ Reesespieces022's advice column | Ask Reesespieces022 A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Monday January 31 2005, 9:41 pm: I would leave her a weeks worth of notes in her locker but dont put love put your secret admirer and then on valentines day bring her roses and say surprise!! that'd be super cute!!-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
lildiamyn_69 answered Monday January 31 2005, 9:33 pm: if your 2 week plan is surefire and you're sure she'll love it, then go ahead.
but if you're not so sure, then you should just ask her.
*Another thing: if you don't hurry, someone else may grab her attention!*
Hope i helped some:)
~Diamyn~ [ lildiamyn_69's advice column | Ask lildiamyn_69 A Question ]
Berri answered Monday January 31 2005, 9:33 pm: That sounds so cute!!! Do the two week plan thing! It sounds like something from a movie! [ Berri's advice column | Ask Berri A Question ]
xoxsweetashley91 answered Monday January 31 2005, 9:32 pm: Awww. The 2 week thing is so romantic. I would love if a guy did that for me! I would totally look into doing that, but maybe do like one week because what if someone else asks her out? Then you`ll be crushed. good luck babe. please rate! [ xoxsweetashley91's advice column | Ask xoxsweetashley91 A Question ]
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