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what was the name of the song being played on the oc during the last couple minutes when ryan and marissa were slow dancing?
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Maybe I'm amazed at the way you love me all the time, Maybe I'm afraid of the way I need you. It was a remake of the original song. it's on the mix 2 cd, last track
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Ok so my boy friend and I were making out one day when he suggested sex, I said i didnt think I wasnt ready! and he got really pissed off and his face turned red and his head was shaking you could see his veins! He started cursing at me and called me the c word! I started crying and begged him to stop because he was scaring me! He slapped me and forced my shirt and bra off, i was pushing him away and then he took off my pants and underwear he started licking me evry where, I tryed to get him off but he wouldnt stop. The next day he left 26 messages on my cell phone saying that he was drunk and he was sorry! I love him half to death but I dont know what I should think of him! Please please Help! (link)
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This chick came to our school a while back and talked to us about abuse and how it started gradually and then built and kept building until it was inescapable. I would tell him that he's broken your trust, because you said yourself you dont kno what to think of him anymore. I think that if I were you I would end it. I think it would help you in the long run and keep what he did tro you from happening in the future. Good luck.
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well i have this boyfriend named mike and this best friend named brittany. lately brittany has been flirting with mike but mike of course has not been flirting back. she has started lightly hitting him and he would just look at her funny. she even says stuff like "say hi to mikey for me" i don't want to lose her as a best friend and i really really like my boyfriend. and when me and mike hug she starts trying to say i'm cold let me get in the middle. and when we all sit down she like throws mike up and tells him to sit next to her so she could be in the middle. in the middle of me and him! help (link)
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Maybe she is afraid she is loosing you... I would talk to her about how she's feeling. Tell her what you've noticed lately and see what she says. If she says she likes your guy... be sure to remind her that he's umm... YOURS. lol, Good luck! just be honest...
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Hi. Tonight I am babysitting an 11 year old girl at my house. I was wondering some things I could do with her to keep her accupied. Any ideas would be helpful. Thanks. (link)
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I would rent movies that are good, but ok for her to watch.. check with her parents before they leave to see what movies are ok with them. That will be a good way to get her settled down for bed too. Good luck! and have fun!
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Okay, I'm a pretty preppy girl. I have lots of friends, and we all are into fashion, and dressing our best. Anyway, I have a secret love, that's so far from fashion I'm afraid my friends will hate me for it. It's skateboarding. I loove skateboarding so much, and I always go skateboarding after school with all the skaters at the park and stuff. It makes me happy, I love learning new tricks, and doing all that guyish stuff. It's so weird, but I feel like I can't tell my friends. Well, now they're all getting curious about why I don't have as much time to hang out with them..and I'm starting to run out of excuses. I've only told one of my friends (whom I'm actually not that great of friends with, someone whose 'out' of my group and in a 'less known' group, but she's wonderful) who I never really thought much of, until I learned she can keep my secret. She's such a great friend, and I'm wondering why I feel like I can't tell my other 'friends' about my secret passion for skateboarding. What am I to do? Should I just come out and tell them I like skateboarding? (I don't think that any of them will take this badly, but sometimes girls can be really.. picky about things, and some of my 'friends' may ditch me because of this) Find new friends? Only tell some of them? Aghh, help!!
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I think that you should tell them and if they are really truly good friends like you say then they should understand and respect your secret love for skating. If they don't then, yes, I think you may need to find some new friends who think of you for something other than what you dress like and your lovely fashion sense... Good Luck!
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i'll be standing at my locker, waiting for my boyfriend, and my best friend comes up. well, i wanted to talk to my boyfriend about stuff, like not with her around. i want to tell her to quit comin cuz she does it everyday, but i dont want to be mean. i'd like to have some alone time with my boyfriend but SHES ALWAYS THERE. she's really getting on my nerves. what should i do? (link)
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I think you should tell her. Or when she walks up tell her that you were going to talk to your boyfriend or walk with him today. If she knew that her always coming up and being there was causing a problem, I doubt she would do it anymore, So let her know!
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i'm in 8th grade and we have a field trip to islands of adventure (universal) we have the money to go but my parents dont think it will be safe.my teacher who planned it is one of the most responsible people i know and she called to convince my dad but he just simply told her 'no' and wouldnt let her explain.i cant get them to listen to me!what should i say so they'll let me go?! (link)
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I would sit down with them and ask them why they don't think it will be safe. Try and be as mature as possible and present them with reasons for why it will be safe. Don't whine though... because then that will make you look like a little kid. I think that that's really the only way if you teacher has already talked to them. Sorry I'm not much of a help, but good luck and I hope you can get them to change their minds!
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One of my really good guys friends leaned over and touched my boob and i am not even his girlfriend. He doesn't have one so what should i do becuase i am getting the feeling that he likes me because he is telling everone about this and i don't know what to do about him. Should i go out with him or jsut stay friends. (link)
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Well do you like him? some of my guys friends that are single do stuff like this to me... but just because someone likes you, doesn't mean you have to like them back or go out with them or anything. If you like him, go out with him (if you want to that is...) if you just want to stay friends, then tell him that you don't think about him this way, just as a friend. Good luck either way!
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me and one of my best friends like the same guy but she dosent know that i like him and he asked me out and not her what sould i do say yes or no please help me i dont know what to do? (link)
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I would talk to your friend. Tell her that you're really sorry, but you like the same guy that she does. I would also tell her that he asked you out but you haven;t answered him yet. see what she says. I would say yes to this guy tho. If you like him and he likes you, than that's a good enough reason to say yes. Good luck!
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this is kinda gross but does anyone know a good way to keep your armpits dry? i have even tried mens deoderant...i need something stronger HELP (link)
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I have a Teen Beauty Secrets book that says putting powder on over your deodorant can keep your under arms dry. I would try that and I hope that it works!
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Anyone Know any Happy Love Songs??
Could you please tell me the Artist and Title, or just send the Lyrics if you have them!!
Thanks in Advance! :) (link)
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umm here's one by Tim McGraw that I love:
It's Your Love
Dancin' in the dark, middle of the night
Takin' your heart and holdin' it tight
Emotional touch, touchin' my skin
And asking you to do what you've been doin' all over again
Oh its a beautiful thing, don't think I can keep it all in
I just gotta let you know what it is that won't let me go
It's your love
It just does something to meIt sends a shock right through me
I can't get enough and if you wonder about the spell I'm under,oh it's your love
Better than I was, more than I am
And all of this happen by taking your hand
And who I am now is who I wanted to be
And now that we're togetherI'm stronger than ever
I'm happy and free
Oh it's a beautiful thing, don't think I can keep it all in
If you asked me why I've changed, all I gotta do is say your sweet name
It's your love
It just does something to me it sends a shock right through me
I can't get enough and if you wonder about the spell I'm under,
It’s your love
Oh its a beautiful thing, don't think I can keep it all in
I just gotta let you know what it is that won't let me go
It's your love
it just does something to me it sends a shock right through me
I can't get enough and if you wonder about the spell I'm under
Oh it’s your love
It's your love
It's your love
It's your love
Hope I helped!
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my grandma wont let me have a boyfriend and all of these guys like me and i like one of them but i cant have a boyfriend but the thing is i have gone behind her back and dated like 3 guys (not at the same time) and she didnt find out so should i just go out with him or not and how would i convince her to say yes bc my mom did alot of bad things with guys when she was my age and my grandma thinks i will turn in to her but i wont so can you help i rate 5's (link)
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talk to your grandma about it. Don't yell, just talk to her. I wouldn't go behind her back again, even though you didn't get caught the first time, because if she does find out you'll break her trust and then she probably won't even consider the matter at all. Anyway, talk to her. Sit down and set rules with her, that way it's a compromise. Be mature, stand your ground, but, again, don't yell or wine, that will probably just make her think that you're not old enough to have a boyfriend at all. Good luck!
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I've been really close with my friend Ron for a little while now. We are both 15 and we tell each toher almost everything. Recently I ahve been feeling something more for him. We joke around though like I always give him nuggies and in return he puts me in a head lock or something. Yesterday he was towering over me just to see how much taller he is then me and I jsut wanted to lean up and kiss him. Which I might have done if my other friends were not around. I just don't know how he feels about me though. He read a poem that I wrote about him and he really liked it. So today he shows me a song he wrote and it was about his life but then in one part it said
"When times get rough his thoughts to to her, she has helped me through so much.
I will always be there
Don't let me dissapear"
I know it was about me but the second part I can't tell if the second part is saying that he'll always be there for me or that Hes always going to be there and he doesn't want to be forgotten, as if he's afraid to be forgotten. Which he knows I would never forgett him. So today I gave him another poem I ahd written about him and it had said that I never wanted him to leave and that when I move I need him to call me jsut to say hi so i know he still cares. Well he saw it and hes like "Whats this?" And I told him and his eyes sort of lit up in a good happy way. I have such confused emotions about him. I like him so much its scary I know its not love but I scare myself at how much I like him. What should I do? And do you think he might like me as a girlfriend or jsut as a friend? (link)
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let him know how you feel. It sounds like he really likes you too and since you're friends from way back you can talk to him about it and see what he says. Good luck!
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breaking up with your boyfriend for his best friend...?
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still going out with him because he's a really good guy and you're afraid to break his heart...?
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what should I do, because my boyfriend is the most amazing guy ever, and he'd cry and be depressed for months if anything happened. But I just don't have feelings for him anymore, and his friend and I like eachother... help! (link)
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I think that still going out with him even though you don't like him anymore is worse. It won't b real anymore and he'll probably notice. Just be honest with him and let him know what's going on! Good luck
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I want to make my hair wavy. I already have natural waves, but they aren't that strong, and anyway they're frizzy. My friend uses mousse and scrunches up her hair, and she also uses tongs. I told my mum I wanted to make my hair wavy, but she keeps saying that the only way you can have waves in your hair is to get a perm. It's not, is it?? Because my mate says she's never had a perm. But whatever I say, my mum keeps saying that you can't have wavy hair unless you get a perm, my mum ALWAYS thinks she's right, I can't get through to her. Anyway, how do you make your hair wavy? Please tell me any products/tongs etc that are good, and if there are any sites that tell you how to get wavy hair then I'd appreciate it. I used to curl my hair with tongs, because I did Irish dance competitions. But the curls just fell out like 30 minutes later, so if you know how to actually keep the waves in place, that would be helpful too (I tried tresemme gel spray but that didn't work). Thanks! xo (link)
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I love to make my hair wavy/curly and my hair is naturally wavy in some parts 2. What I do is the night before I wet my hair and put in some mossue and scrunch it up and leave it like that in a towel and sleep on it that way. Then in the morning when I wake up it's ready to go and I don't even have to go anything to it! Hope I helped!
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is it just me?..or do other people think like me, that they hate themselves, that theyre not worth living. Because there are so many stressful things in life, school, personal life, friends, family..so on and so on....im stressed over so much stuff, and all i do to make myself feel better is to cry. i keep my emotions up inside of me, and all i have to let my feelings out is in a journal i keep and write my deep thoughts and feelings in it. i dont think there is anyone in this world that i can tell ALL of my feelings to. is it just me?...is there anyone else out there who thinks just like me?...how do you solve your problems?... (link)
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I agree, there is not one person in the world that you can tell all your feelings to. I also think that life is very stressful and a lot of times unfair. I keep a journal too and write down things when they bother me and that helps me a lot. I also pray a lot. Sometimes it makes me feel better to talk to someone and have them just listen. But please dont think about suicide, life is hard, but getting through it is part of it. You can do it, Good luck!
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i have a boyfriend.. we'll call him R. R and i have been dating for 7 months. The first 5 months were great! He's been starting to hit me, he kicked me, and I fell and I had a bump on my head last week. Last night he tried suffocating me. I've also been told about him flirting with about 5 other girls at school. 2 of them are some of my best friends. Oh, by the way, I'm only a freshman in high school. He's a sophomore. But anyway, I'm so sick of hearing about him doing other stuff with girls. He told me if i ever broke up with him, he'd ruin my life. What am I supposed to do? I am scared of him, but he'll do crap to ruin my life (believe me, he's done it to many.. trashed reps.. everyone hates that person, etc.) but what can i do? please help! i'm scared (link)
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You need to tell an adult what is going on. This isn't a relationship, it sounds more like abusive blackmail. You need to get out of this relationship because things are just going to get worse, and the longer you stay with him, the harder it's going to be. You can bounce back if he says bad things about you, but you need to get out of this situation before you really get hurt. Good luck!
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IF substituting yarn for a pattern requires using 1 size smaller knitting needles to achieve the correct guage will the end result be that more, less or the same amount of yarn be needed?
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I believe that you would need more yarn if you had smaller needles. The smaller the needles, the smaller the stich and the smaller the stitch, the less yarn used. Good muck with whatever ur making tho!
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i have a horrible sunburn.... i mean horrible! it doesnt even look that red but it KILLS! for example, i went to bed at 10pm and i woke up at 12 not being able to sleep bc it hurt so bad! what can i do! when can i start going to the tannign place again? (link)
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put on lots of aloe vera. That helps I promise and the red will go away a lot faster than if you don't use it. Hope I helped!
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so at my school if you dont live in greystone {The rich part} or wear abercrombi (which i think is pointless to pay 80 bucks for prefaded and pre riped jeans)any way if you arent privledged then ure pretty much the scum of the earth.All the punks have spiked or really long hair and wear black shirts and riped jeans. all the preps wear collerd shirts and north face jakets. any way they label the rich kids preps and the middle class to lower class punks. So punks hang out with punks and preps with preps but, this prep likes me and i like her and every one knows so we are both hated by our own soacial clases. so what should we do
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i think that you should act like the classes aren;t there. it's dumb to be seperated like that. Set the example that what u wear doesn't matter about who you are and stir things up. See if she feels the same way and act on it! Good luck!
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