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problem with my friend
i'll be standing at my locker, waiting for my boyfriend, and my best friend comes up. well, i wanted to talk to my boyfriend about stuff, like not with her around. i want to tell her to quit comin cuz she does it everyday, but i dont want to be mean. i'd like to have some alone time with my boyfriend but SHES ALWAYS THERE. she's really getting on my nerves. what should i do?
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I would say that all you really can do is talk to your friend. Tell her how you feel and that you want some alone time with your boyfriend every once in a while and that you would like it if she didnt smother you so much. Be gentle. She should understand. If she dont, then she isnt really respecting your privacy and I would she that you may need to just find someone who respect you more. Hope this helps!
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if i were you i'd pull her aside and tell her,"i love talking to you but sometimes i need to talk to my b/f alone so if you would plz let me talk to him @ my locker in the mornings i'll talk to you next period" or something like that!! good luck and keep smiling!:)
<3,
SeRenA
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I think you need to explain to her that you want time alone with your boyfriend. It isn't an unreasonable request. Set aside a time each day to be alone with your boyfriend and just tell her not to disturb you during that time. There is no need for her to get upset if you say it nicely. If she does then I guess she will just have to get over it. :)
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Just excuse youRself veRy politely, and tell youR boyfRiend that you'd like to speak with him pRivately foR a moment -- that's a statement eveRyone can Respect. Then tell heR that you'll talk to heR at the end of the next houR, or when you get home - I'm shoRe she'll undeRstand and Respect youR pRivacy. Best wishes to you! =D
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Just tell her how you feel. But be nice about it. Tell her that you need to talk to your boyfriend alone sometimes. Make it clear that you're not trying to be mean you just need some alone time with your friend. If you're nice about then she will understand and leave you alone with him.
Good luck
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just tell her..dont be mean..say something like.."hey can i talk to my b/f real quick..ill talk to you later" idk something like that hehe nd if shes a good friend she should understand
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I think you should tell her. Or when she walks up tell her that you were going to talk to your boyfriend or walk with him today. If she knew that her always coming up and being there was causing a problem, I doubt she would do it anymore, So let her know!
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tell her in a nice way. "can i talk to him real quick?" somewthing like that. dont be too harsh, because then it will be mean. hope i helped!
~*ana*~
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u should tell her to back off sometime and tell her that its ur bf not hers but be nice goodluck.
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just say that you need to talk to your boyfreind & have some alone time with him just like you talk to her & have alone time with her. and that she is still your best freind.
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Hey
Just tell her that you will see her l8r! it is fine!
<3 ya
Andrea
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