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whats is the preppy look. wats the preppy attitude. i am sorta of a prep...all my frends that i hang out with r preps. how do i become a prep (link)
hollister. period


Okay, I'm a pretty preppy girl. I have lots of friends, and we all are into fashion, and dressing our best. Anyway, I have a secret love, that's so far from fashion I'm afraid my friends will hate me for it. It's skateboarding. I loove skateboarding so much, and I always go skateboarding after school with all the skaters at the park and stuff. It makes me happy, I love learning new tricks, and doing all that guyish stuff. It's so weird, but I feel like I can't tell my friends. Well, now they're all getting curious about why I don't have as much time to hang out with them..and I'm starting to run out of excuses. I've only told one of my friends (whom I'm actually not that great of friends with, someone whose 'out' of my group and in a 'less known' group, but she's wonderful) who I never really thought much of, until I learned she can keep my secret. She's such a great friend, and I'm wondering why I feel like I can't tell my other 'friends' about my secret passion for skateboarding. What am I to do? Should I just come out and tell them I like skateboarding? (I don't think that any of them will take this badly, but sometimes girls can be really.. picky about things, and some of my 'friends' may ditch me because of this) Find new friends? Only tell some of them? Aghh, help!!

SAM♥ (link)
tell them. it will be better for you because you wont have to make exuses. if they ditch you just because they dont like something that you like, theyre not really good friends. they shoud respect something that you like, even though it might be something they dont like to do. hope i helped. and come out with it!
~*ana*~


i'll be standing at my locker, waiting for my boyfriend, and my best friend comes up. well, i wanted to talk to my boyfriend about stuff, like not with her around. i want to tell her to quit comin cuz she does it everyday, but i dont want to be mean. i'd like to have some alone time with my boyfriend but SHES ALWAYS THERE. she's really getting on my nerves. what should i do? (link)
tell her in a nice way. "can i talk to him real quick?" somewthing like that. dont be too harsh, because then it will be mean. hope i helped!
~*ana*~


okay.. me and this boy.. used to be good friends.. my mo and his mom are best friends... the thing is i sthat we both uses to have a thing for each other.. and we used to play spin the bottle.... and then i d him b/c our sisters were teasing us... we even went to the beach together for spring break... but now i have deciede that i lik ehim again.. i dont know what to do.. because of our families.. relationship... like if i ask him out.. and he says no.. then we will still see each other.. what should i do? he has never had a friend.. i wil rate high (link)
flirt, and if he flirts back, or hes ginving sighns that he likes you, go for it! but if hes not doing anything, leave it alone, because you're right, it will be awkward. hope i helped!
~*ana*~


hi im Jess for some may know but when i run i get tired very easily and i get a cramp fast how can i avoid these problems thx i rate high.
Love Jess (link)
try doing it more often. if you get tired easily that means youre out of shape. and for the cramps, take a pain reliever before you go run. keep running, and every time you do it, make it a little longer. hope i helped!
~*ana*~


My eyelashes are really long meaning i cant wear Mascara becuase it makes them look even longer and weird. is there any mascara i can buy (that they sell in England) that will be ok for long eyelashes and wont make them look really long? thanks
xxxx (link)
if you have really long eyelashes, then you dont need mascara. thats the whole point, is to make your eyelashes look longer, which is not a problem for you. or you can use clear mascara. hope i helped!
~*ana*~


how can you get rid of cramps ***WHILE*** or BEFORE you are running?? I NEED to know soon! thanks!!!!!!!!!! (link)
take some midol, or IBprofen, before you start runnning. actualy running is good for your cramps, even though sometimes while you run, it seems that they get worse. hope i helped!
~*ana*~


My friend Alexa and I wer'e haveing a fight over two Actors on TV and we shared our opinions. but Alexa took mine too seriously and now she won't talk to me. So i said our friendship's over, and she won't WONT reply to me!!!!!!!!!!!! What should I do? (link)
that was bad on bot of your parts. she shouldnt take it so seriously, and respect your opinion. but you shouldnt have said dat ur friendship was ova. gie her some time, then try talkin 2 her bout ow ds fight really has no meaning. hope i helped!
~*ana*~


Ever Since I started exerscising (about once a day for half an hour) I get really bad stomach aches in the afternoon. But only in the afternoon. I dont know why and this didnt happen before that. (link)
that means that your muscles ar building up. in other wornds, theyre getting stronger, which means that all your working out is working out! lol. or its because you did it right after yo ate, and you worked too hard with a full stomach. try working out in the morning. if it doesnt help, talk to your doctor. hope i heled!
~*ana*~


I am 14 years old and me and my friend were ''playing'' around w/ this guy and after my friend gave him a blow job he fingered me. I would like to know how many days until I can take a pregnancy test and what are my chances of being pregnant. I am very worried because I am very skinny from anorexia and I'm afraid I will die if I am pregnant. (link)
first of all, you cant get pregnent unles ou had sex. which you didnt mention you did. Second of all, you can find out if youre pregnet right away. have you ever heard that commercial where the lady's like "theres such a thing as being a little bit pregnent" you can find out in the next week or something. im not sure. third of all, you should definatly start eating because if you are pregnets, you AND your baby are going to need a lot of proteins, and food and stuff, so you need to eat A LOT! and dont worry about looking fat, because you'll loose it when you start nursing. lol. hope i helped!
~*ana*~


Hi, let me start by saying I'm young. 13f and my best friend died. Her brother was hurt really bad and i feel like it was my fault, cuz they were on their way to pic me up when a drunk driver ran into them. My friend died instantly and her brother is expected to die in the next seven-twelve days. I want to say something to him, but I don't know what and if I don't hurry, it might be too late. You can e-mail me at prettymoonbug@hotmail.com (link)
wow. im really sorry. if i were you, i would definatly say something to him right away. im also sorry that you feel like its your fault, even though it isnt. it would be if that drunk driver were you. but it wasnt, so get out there and tell your best friend's brother what you have to say. hope i helped, and im really sorry!
~*ana*~


What can you use to get rid of stretch marks/ and or scars? Thanks in advance!
I rate 5's (link)
you can always use crems, or get plastic surgery, but tats usaly an option when your parents are, like super rich, and they would let you. you can also ask your doctor! hope i helped!
~*ana*~


what do you do about depression? (link)
i know how to tell that you're depressed. when you dont feel like doing anything,and everything makes you sad, or mad. a thing to make it better is medice, or doing something you really like to do. try to keep your self busy, because the more bored you are, the less you feel like doing. plus, its not good for your health to be depressed. (duh!) hope i helped!
~*ana*~


i am not overweight, but i would like to get rid of the lots of flab on my stomach. do you know any excersises to do? thanks! (link)
you can always do crunches. but a really good thing to do that works out every muscle in your body is swimming. thats what i tell eveyone dat asks me this question. hope i helped!
~*ana*~


i have an amazing boyfriend and i love him so much, like he is everything i dreamed of.. but the other day like one of my best friends *bob* told me that he has liked me since sixth grade, that i am amazing, and he is so jealous of my boyfriend, and how perfect i am and how much i mean to him.. and the thing is i liked *bob* for like 4 years and then i met my boyfriend. i talked to my mom about it.. and she said i shoudl try hanging out with *bob* to see if i like him or w/e so i went to the movies with him last night.. and had SO much fun.. would this be considered cheating ? am i a terrible person for like questioning my love for my bf ? and what do you think is the best way for me to tell my bf about this... ?

15-f if that makes any difference.. (link)
no, its not cheating. it would be cheating if you did something like kissing or something. talk to your boyfriend, and tell him how you feel. if he really loves you, he would understand. it might make him mad though because you have feelings for someone else. it would be alot better if you did tell him because if you didnt, you might consider cheating because it would be a date if your bf didnt know about it. hope i helped!
~*ana*~


I'll rate 5's to anyone who gives an answer. I've had my period since lasy octobber. They are so reagular, they happen EVERY 2 WEEKS!! what could be causing this? I also feel so gross down there, and its bothering me so bad. Also at night they get really really heavy and happen like every 5 seconds and i have to go to the bathroom like every 20 minutes. I never get any sleep. It makes me cry. This also happens during the day. Don't say to use tampons, cause im not going to. You've seen my problems, please please help me, It's killing me. (link)
go to the doctor, and ask for some help. the best thing to do woulb be to take birth control, because it helps minimize the amount of it. hope i helped!
~*ana*~


How do I get my hair to become straight and stay like that? It's a little wavy right now. What kind of products should I use? My hair is kind of thick too. (link)
go to the hair lady, and get it chemechly straightened. it will stay like that for a really long time,a dn u dont have to worry bout straightning it every day. but its kinda bad for your hair though. hope i helped!
~*ana*~


My best friend is 16 now but she has been getting abused by her dad since she was old enough to walk. I saw him punch her in the face one time and bang her head against a wall. I am really scared for and her sister because I have seen him hit her too. She's asked me not to tell but Im scared that if I keep quiet that one day he might really hurt her. We tryed calling the police on him one time but they wanted to press charges against us and not him. I dont know what I should do and I dont know how I can help her. (link)
do tell because if you dont, it can get worse. i had some frineds that went through this, and they didnt say anything, so it went from bad to worse. and they were slightly injured. it will be better for you and your sister. this is a serious problem because its against the law and everything. hope i helped!
~*ana*~
P.S. im really sorry this is happening to you...


There's this kid, Sam* and he was dumped by my best friend, Katie* in February.. Sam is the nicest kid you will ever meet..and Katie I think is just boy crazy. Well anyway, Sam and Katie went out for over 2 years on and off. Sam lives about 2 hours away though. Well this real jerk starting going out with Katie and she doesnt like him and is actually kind of attached to Sam still..but Katie wants him to dump her, because she doesnt have the heart to dump him..so my job is to try to make him break up with her..and its all confusing..but any suggestions?

Sorry Its long (link)
well if I was in this situation I would just tell him to brake up with her because of the reason and then if he doesnt do it then have her brake up with him and or do it for her so she doesnt feel bad about it ok! hope i helped!
~*ana*~


I have this friend,(E) and every time I turn around, I hear that she was trash talking me!! Well me and my two other friends, (L) and (H), and they keep telling me she was talking trash about me! I have known (E) since 4th grade, and she is my friend so why does everyone tell me she trash talks me?? Who should I believe? I rate high!!!!! (link)
ask her straight up and if she gives you a big deal about it then you know she is taking about you but if she is calm about it then maybe she wasnt after all. dont always belive what you hear. hope i helped!
~*ana*~




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