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Trash Talker!!
I have this friend,(E) and every time I turn around, I hear that she was trash talking me!! Well me and my two other friends, (L) and (H), and they keep telling me she was talking trash about me! I have known (E) since 4th grade, and she is my friend so why does everyone tell me she trash talks me?? Who should I believe? I rate high!!!!!
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tell E a fake secret, only her. then see if anyone finds out about it then youll have your answer.
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I wouldn't believe any of them untill you hear her say it. But she could be if two of your friends say she is then she might be but who knows.
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i have been in this situation b4 ... from wat u've told me, i'd believe l & h. but are l & h friends with e, bcuz they cud also b jealous of ur friendship and want 2 break it up. talk 2 all of em and mayb u'll find a solution!
Hope i helped!
xoxo-Jules
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you definatley need to get her story. Tell her you've been hearing that she is bad mouthing you behind your back and you'd really like to know why. She may deny it but maybe she will stop.
Just let her know that you know whats going on and your willing to forget it this time but that you don't want it happening again.
Do it in private, not in front of other friends.
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ask her straight up and if she gives you a big deal about it then you know she is taking about you but if she is calm about it then maybe she wasnt after all. dont always belive what you hear. hope i helped!
~*ana*~
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Well when you're friends with someone for a great amount of time and become close. They will feel comfortable to say something slightly wrong because the friendship is much more close and they will say a lot of things that you wouldnt expect your friend of two months to say.
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you should know her well enough to know if she'd do something like that to you. have you talked to "E" about this, or have you kept it behind your back? talk to her about it, but remember.. people do change. there will be friends who backstab you, and it's all part of growing up. you just have to decide who is worth it, and who you can actually trust.
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Well, why dont you just ask E? be like I'm hearing from people(dont say names) that your trash talking about me..and I wanted to know if it was true. Thats all you could do, she'll give you an honest answer or not..but how would you know? If she says no just let it go. If shes REALLY talking crap you'll figure it out yourself.
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