Me and my friends, (L), (S), and (E) are planning to perform in a lipsync. The song (S) picked out is highly innapropriate!! We all agree except her. We still haven't told her. We don't want to hurt her so what do we do?? I rate high!!!
BLONDE911 answered Monday March 21 2005, 10:36 pm: List all the songs you rather have and let your friends agree the ones you want. If S doesnt like it then you have to tell the truth that her song is inapropiate. You better be safe than sorry. Hope this helps and isnt confusing! If ya want to you can IM me on renfro sayS. xoxo BLONDE911 [ BLONDE911's advice column | Ask BLONDE911 A Question ]
perfect101 answered Monday March 21 2005, 8:05 pm: well try breakeing it to her slowly with every one in the group there and tell her some altrnitives and see what she say but yall should tell her what you feel before it's too late or try a vote by hands the most vote win just disscuse it and she should totaly understand [ perfect101's advice column | Ask perfect101 A Question ]
_eMiLy answered Monday March 21 2005, 4:18 pm: Pick a different song that you ALL agree on. It's not fair for three people to pick one song and the other not want to do it, it's really annoying and kinda hurts and makes you feel left out since it's happend to me many'a times. Imagine they did that to you and you didn't like the song.
You should definatly think of one all together.
At least everyone is going to be happy then and about telling her that you's don't like the song she picked tell her nicely and tell her it's nothing personal but you think you should all agree on one song together.
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charmed-cherry21 answered Monday March 21 2005, 1:57 pm: Then you need to tell her what you three think and find a song ALL FOUR of you can agree on.
karenR answered Monday March 21 2005, 1:09 pm: I think you could try picking out several songs.
Then have a vote on which one you will use. Be sure everyone knows up front that majority wins!That would take of the problem without hurting her feelings to badly. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
AdInA answered Monday March 21 2005, 12:15 pm: well you have to tell her! she should understand if it is highly inappropriate. she isn't going to force you to use a song that you aren't aloud to be using. if you can't, you can't, and there's nothing you can do about it. just tell her you like the song, but you just can't use it for whatever reason. [ AdInA's advice column | Ask AdInA A Question ]
Sherry answered Monday March 21 2005, 12:14 pm: Just tell her you guys dont want to do it and was wondering if all three of you could pick a song you can agree on. She should understand, shes your friend! [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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