I've been really close with my friend Ron for a little while now. We are both 15 and we tell each toher almost everything. Recently I ahve been feeling something more for him. We joke around though like I always give him nuggies and in return he puts me in a head lock or something. Yesterday he was towering over me just to see how much taller he is then me and I jsut wanted to lean up and kiss him. Which I might have done if my other friends were not around. I just don't know how he feels about me though. He read a poem that I wrote about him and he really liked it. So today he shows me a song he wrote and it was about his life but then in one part it said
"When times get rough his thoughts to to her, she has helped me through so much.
I will always be there
Don't let me dissapear"
I know it was about me but the second part I can't tell if the second part is saying that he'll always be there for me or that Hes always going to be there and he doesn't want to be forgotten, as if he's afraid to be forgotten. Which he knows I would never forgett him. So today I gave him another poem I ahd written about him and it had said that I never wanted him to leave and that when I move I need him to call me jsut to say hi so i know he still cares. Well he saw it and hes like "Whats this?" And I told him and his eyes sort of lit up in a good happy way. I have such confused emotions about him. I like him so much its scary I know its not love but I scare myself at how much I like him. What should I do? And do you think he might like me as a girlfriend or jsut as a friend?
TheTeenGirl answered Friday March 11 2005, 4:57 pm: I think you have a boyfriend, but first, you need to remember that when going into relationships with a best friend, it can tear up and ruin a friendship. Now, you say that you can tell this guy anything, well, I think you should either tell him straight forward, or write a poem of how much you love him, I think he will get the point after you read it. But, yeah, thats the first step, tell him you are in love with him, and find out what hes feeling for you.
MummuM answered Friday March 11 2005, 3:09 pm: I think this guy is crushing on you. He wouldn't make a song for you for nothing hun. You should tell him how you feel about him and all that good stuff. Tell him that you do have feelings for him. It looks like he's a little shy and maybe that's why he's holding back from you. He's probably scared you don't like him in the way he likes you. So go for it and tell him your feelings.
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sk8erdude answered Friday March 11 2005, 3:02 pm: you should ask him out i think he like you as a girlfriend i know that i wouldn't write a song about my friend i would make a song about the girl i wanna be with............ [ sk8erdude's advice column | Ask sk8erdude A Question ]
lilrocksta13 answered Friday March 11 2005, 3:00 pm: I think you should tell him how you feel And he might like you in the same way you like him. He probably is just too shy because he doesn't know how you will react. Tell him your true feelings before you have an outburst! [ lilrocksta13's advice column | Ask lilrocksta13 A Question ]
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