HI yall! My name is Sarah, I have literally gone through just about anything with friends family and boys and everything else inbetween!! Ask me for advice ANYDAY! xoxo Sarah
Gender: Female
Location: Colorado
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
AIM: xxFabxUxLousXX
Member Since: July 16, 2004
Answers: 10
Last Update: March 11, 2005
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I've been really close with my friend Ron for a little while now. We are both 15 and we tell each toher almost everything. Recently I ahve been feeling something more for him. We joke around though like I always give him nuggies and in return he puts me in a head lock or something. Yesterday he was towering over me just to see how much taller he is then me and I jsut wanted to lean up and kiss him. Which I might have done if my other friends were not around. I just don't know how he feels about me though. He read a poem that I wrote about him and he really liked it. So today he shows me a song he wrote and it was about his life but then in one part it said
"When times get rough his thoughts to to her, she has helped me through so much.
I will always be there
Don't let me dissapear"
I know it was about me but the second part I can't tell if the second part is saying that he'll always be there for me or that Hes always going to be there and he doesn't want to be forgotten, as if he's afraid to be forgotten. Which he knows I would never forgett him. So today I gave him another poem I ahd written about him and it had said that I never wanted him to leave and that when I move I need him to call me jsut to say hi so i know he still cares. Well he saw it and hes like "Whats this?" And I told him and his eyes sort of lit up in a good happy way. I have such confused emotions about him. I like him so much its scary I know its not love but I scare myself at how much I like him. What should I do? And do you think he might like me as a girlfriend or jsut as a friend? (link)
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he probably ust wants to get u in the sac
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okay i knoe alot of ppl are havin sex and all and i used to want ta have sex really bad but i was talkin to my friend and she really explained to me that its a really good idea to wait for mariage. so thats me new plan. but c i talked to alot of guys about having sex... and now i dont knoe how to turn them down..?? i mean will they think im dumb if i say i wanna wait till marriage??
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well just tell them your plan is to wait, and if they get mad then they are just not worth even doing anything wiht...u need to find a mature guy who understands!
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ok this is wicked embarassing but im a 14 year old boy and im not alot like my friends. i get scared wicked easily. i hate it! i hav panick attax wen im outside in the dark.after i saw the movie The Village(which sucked) i couldnt get those creatures out of my head and ive had a hard time sleeping ever since. wen me and my friend saw it i kept grabbing the arms on the seat(not his arms of course} and he kept asking me if i was feeling ok and he sed that my face was all white and harfly ever blinked. i just wanna no how i can stop being afraid so that wen i c a scary movie w/ a girl im not the one huddled up againstt her (link)
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keep the bad color away...
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im a slut and i know it but i have a problem....when my friends call me a slut it doesnt bother me but when a stranger tells me im a slut thats when i get mad..
so now im tryin to keep a relation ship ...i have my mind set on this one kid who likes me back but he has a girl friend....he doesnt want to dump her and im afraid that if i look for someone else ill go back to the old ways..+ if he dumps her she's gonna kick my ass
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Just find somebod totally new, its complicated but just look around. people will be surprised when u find some one NEW that they have never seen before!
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hey. has anyone even been to sparknotes.com? more importantly has anyone even been assigned to read a book for skool and just read the chapter summaries on sparknotes.com? did it work 4 ya?
THANX!! (link)
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last year i used sparknotes all the time, but its hard because u never know if sparknotes is leaving something important out...they do that alot..so its hard on quizzes when u get asked really RANDOM ?'s ya know?
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How do I really know if i'm ready to have sex? My Boyfriend and I have been together for a lil over a month... and I feel conforable around him ... but im not sure if im ready to have sex with him yet... how will i know if im ready? (link)
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i think that you should do whatever ur mind tells you. If u think u are ready to make that comittment with someone then u should but if u think u guys should do mroe stuff then do tha but only do what YOU feel is right. and be safe ;) ~fabulous
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okay, I just wanna know for all you people who are in gymnastics or dance...can you give me tips on how to do a better switch leap? i've can almost do both of my splits and i dont know if you can help me but i just need to know how to do a better switch leap. thanks. (link)
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switchleaps are so hard, i am a gymnast and i stilll cant do one lol, but my coach told me that u have to have a lot of force and u have to jump high and quick so u can change legs...im sorry if i sound confusing but THEY ARE HARD!!
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Hey, i'm hoping someone can give me some advice. I'm an 18 year old female, and for 18 of those years, me and my mum were really close - like best friends. But since around the time of my eighteenth birthday, she's been like a rollercoaster ride of emotions. I wont bore you with the details of our arguments, but one day she'll be screaming in my face, and the next she'll be suffocating me and being all lovey dovey with me. I'm thinking that because i'm 18 now she's struggling to find a balance between letting me have my independence and still acting like we're family.
Right now she's not speaking to me, and when she does speak to be she'll snipe at me so there's no talking to her. I don't want to be her emotional doormat, so she can just throw any old emotion at me that she likes when she likes - I'm still a person too. I just don't know what to do right now, please, if you have any ideas, let me know. Thanks x (link)
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My boyfriend is 18 and he just graduated. His mom is sooo like yourmom. he doesnt have a job and still has to make up 2 credits to be able to go to college, im sure ur moms are just really eager to see u do good, i mean i know im not 18 or anything but i knwo how it is they are just emotional because they are stressed about things u need to do...
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yah well there is this guy that i have liked for 2 years and he likes my best friend...and it seems like he doesnt even know i am there and i even told him that i have liked him for 2 years....even loved him!!!! what should i do??? i really love this guy! (link)
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I used to like this guy for a whole year, and he was really stubborn but he told me he liked me too so i waited & waited but we never went out..it was like he didnt really care, i mean i was the one calling him al the time but finally we went out during the summer. Sometimes guys need time b/c they are unsure of themselves. Dont get impatient but i know how u feel. If you2 never get together then u deserve better, i promise!
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Hey Sarah, ok lately i have been having problems with my friends. They have become so mad that i hang out with my boyfried all the time. It makes me feel so bad, but i love him and i want to spend time with him without them getting mad...what should i do? (link)
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ok wow! i went through the exact same thing! but my friends were so immature they took it to the councelors at my school...anyways you should tell them that they have no control over how much time you spend with your boyfriend, but try to let them understand how much u love him and maybe they will understand...someday they will find out how great it is to be in love ; )
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