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okay i knoe alot of ppl are havin sex and all and i used to want ta have sex really bad but i was talkin to my friend and she really explained to me that its a really good idea to wait for mariage. so thats me new plan. but c i talked to alot of guys about having sex... and now i dont knoe how to turn them down..?? i mean will they think im dumb if i say i wanna wait till marriage??
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depends on how they are w/that stuff. but dont worry about them thinking ur dumb for turning them down. if you wanna wait then wait gurl!*
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well..i dont think its *dumb* to wait for marriage...but u shouldnt just be talken to random guy friends about haven sex..b/c thats how you get the reputation of a ho..and all you have to say is that you dont want to..simple as that..if they dont understand.oh well..they are tryin to use you
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It really doesn't matter what they think. If they want you to have sex and you say no the only reason you need to say is because it doesnt feel right or you arent ready or you just don't want to. It's your choice and if you have sex with them it's because you said it's alright and it's not their fault. So, if someone asks you, you don't have to say i'm waiting until i'm married just say i don't want to or it doesn't feel right. I guarentee i would say that and walk out the second the guy tried anything. I'm waiting til i'm married too. That's the only time i'll be for sure it's okay if you don't plan a pregnancy or something. Just say no. And that's all they should need but if they need an answer tell them something i've mentioned. Good for you for waiting it'll be so special when you do it with the one you love and Good luck with whatever you choose to do.
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well just tell them your plan is to wait, and if they get mad then they are just not worth even doing anything wiht...u need to find a mature guy who understands!
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just say NO! =)
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if they think your dumb, then they are losers.
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well i was alwai`z raised to loose yu`r virginity to some one you love`trust` nd curr about... dun matter wha age yu are.. yu jus gotta be mature enuff... sex is suppossed to be an intimate thing between 2 ppl.. buh it aint no whurr near that anymore... nd i lost mine when i was 14... nd i lost it to a friend not tha guy i loved...buh in tha end i regreted it...if a guy isnt willin to respect yu then he isnt worth tha tyme or daii... buh do suttin becuz sum1 else does it.. yu do everything fo yu -haley
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No way! if your not ready or you just want to wait till marriage then thats what you tell them! your, ur own person! don't let any guy tell you what your ready for or not! and if they really care and love you than they will wait to!
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no dont think your dumb if u turn them donw and say that becaz its wat u feel and if they think yur dumb becaz of that mabbe u shouldnt be friends
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Hello =) Do whatever YOU are confortable with. I personally am going to wait until marriage, but you can do whatever you want. Don't let people influence you; if you think you are ready, go right ahead. I hope I helped... if you need anything, drop one in the inbox <3 Steph
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do what your heart tells you to do! and don't give in if you don't want to even if he is the sexiest guy on earth! =)
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You need to really think about how important waiting to marriage is - what are the reasons you've chosen this? If you can clearly explain to yourself why you want to wait, it'll be easier to explain to your future partners why you want to wait.
An understanding person who really loves you will not think you are dumb - if you fall in love with someone, anyway, chances are they'll share your ideals and goals. The best matches are with people who share your basic beliefs.
Just trust that you've made a smart choice, and stick with it.
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a good guy will be there for you..Jerks will think its dumb..but beleive it or not..there are guys out there that wait til marriage...its all up to you and when it feels like its the right time..even if you don't wait til marriage..it doesnt make you a bad person...my advice is when it does happen be protected and make sure its someone you really care about..because you might regret it if not...XOXO
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Who cares if they think you're dumb? Look, if a guy thinks your an idiot for wanting to wait till marriage, you shouldn't be with him anyway. Wait for a guy who respects your views and doesn't pressure you for any of that. If this is what you believe in (and kudos to you for that) then, if they ask, just say no. If they can't handle it, then move on.
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They should understand. If they dont then you shouldn't even have sex with them in the first place. They shouldn't think your dumb at all. Actually it's a GREAT idea.
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Guys will call you dumb... prude... a loser... they will pretty much say anything to get you to think that you should sleep with them. But those kind of guys are definately not worth it to even sit there and explain that you want to wait until marriage. If a guy calls you dumb for your strong will, then you shouldn't hang around him, and definately don't let him take your virginity.
I respect you for wanting to wait until marriage when you really love someone to share something as special as sex with them.
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mayb u shuldnt answer w. the marriage thing. jus wen they ask u b like "nah thas ok i don wanna" n they should respect tht. if they dont, its not worth it
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okay well if the guy is a horny loser who only cares about his dick getting wet, then yeah he will think your dumb. but if a guy truelly has respect for you, he will understand that you have values. and in my oppinion, you dont have to wait til your married, just until you are old enough to be responible if anything happens like you got pregnant or caught an std. and sex should not just be with anyone, it should be about sharing something special with someone you love, if that means that the only way you will truelly know if you love someone is until you are married, then thats fine, but trust me it doesnt always turn out that way.
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No!! Waiting til maRRiage is a COMPLETELY Respectable answeR!! If they can't Respect THAT.. they don't Respect YOU! Hope I helped!! =D
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well i think that its a very good idea to wait untill you actually find sum one you love and are gonna share the rest of your life with. i deff agree with your plan and honestly its my plan too. so about turning all these other guys down i would just tell them straight up that your not ready.. and if they really like you then they will understand and not react in such a harsh way.
and all the ppl who your soo worried about them thinkin your not cool for that ... just ignor them i mean you dont wanna do sumthing you will regret.
.:*livvy*:.
hope i helped ya out!
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