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(sorry this is really long)

Yesterday I went to Cedar Point with one of my really good friends for her birthday. She introduced me to one of her guy friends, let's call him Fred. So at Cedar Point there was Me, my good friend named Emily, Fred, TK and two other people. Well..Emily said that Fred told her that he really likes me. There may have been some signs..but I'm not sure like exactly how guys flirt. So..Since it was Halloweekends at Cedar Point we went through lots of haunted houses. a.)Fred always let me hold on to his arm and he held onto mine when we went through them.
b.) As humiliating as it may seem, I tried running from this freaky guy and I tripped and fell (lmao) and people started laughing. Fred told everyone to stop laughing and like stood up for me.

c.) Fred rode on every single ride with me. (Until yesterday I had never gone on a rollercoaster and he kept insisting that I go on every ride with him.)

Are these signs?? Because when people ask if he likes me he doesn't deny it..and Emily said that he wanted to ask me to be his girlfriend. It's not that I don't trust Emily or anything it's just that..y'know..friends mess around with you like that!

Any help is greatly appriciated =] (link)
well if i were you i would hang out with him a little bit more..ya kno to get to get to kno him! and than if you really like him ask him yourself!


Okay...I have this friend. She has been my friend for about 3 or 4 years but we have come really really close. Now we are Freshmen in high school and never see each other. I see her around the hall and stuff and i can tell how much she it starting to change. She dyed her hair pink, she is always wearing black, and she is hanging out with a whole differnt crowd of people like the punks and goths and stuff. Dont get me wrong i have a lot of friends that are punks and goths and i have NOTHING agenst them but that is just not her type at all. Ever sence she is changing like this i never talk to her...i want to cause i feel like she doesnt want to be friends anymore...but if i talk to her i dont really kno what to say...i need help...

i'll rate 5 for anything good... (link)
hey! just pull her to the side one day and tell her how you feel! tell her that you miss talking to her and you feel like your friendship is falling aprat! she should understand!!


One of my best friends is this guy rite? well i dont like him as anything more then just a friend.... but he likes me. He asked me out the other day and i told him that i just cared about him too much to go out with him. That i didnt want to ruin our friendship over something stupid like a highschool romance. He still keeps grabbing my hand and yesterday he kissed me on the top of the head. its getting really wierd and its depressing the hell out of me, plus its giving everyone the wrong impression. He's the sweetest guy ever and i dont want to hurt him. i dont want to tell him that i dont want a bf right now because i DO, just not him. And im hoping this other kid asks me out. Its getting really annoying, like hes being really clingy, i cant even hang out with other people without him just coming over! He hangs out with me before school, at break, at lunch, after school, calls me everyday, and now im going to be going to church with him. Hes sweeter then any guy ive ever met, but i feel like i cant breathe.
I need help! Please, ASAP, give good advice and ill rate high! (link)
hey just tell him that he bin clingy and tell him how you feel about him hanging on you and being around you all the time! if he really likes you he would back off a little bit and he would enderstand!


Ashlyn it tiff okay well ive liked brandon( i think u know which one..) well i like him an he told me he likes me too an wrote me a note tellin me this...well..Now like all of a sudden now he barley talks to me..an i have no clue why...i make all attempts to talk to him but i guess it dont work...AN he said by the end of the year well be datin but umm its just not working..all my friends tell him to ask me out in 9 day cuz its my bday but...he just wont talk to me Wat should i do???HELP ME PLEASE....Love you.. (link)
the "p' sista's should kick some booty! haha umm..well try a cupple more times and if he doesn't than just move on and find some one else.

were gunna have to kick some butt! haha

love ya!


My friend got a new puppy. Its a Yorkshire Terrier and its brown and black. Its a boy and she really needs help thinking of a name for it. Can some one please help! I rate high! Thanks! (link)
my friend has one to and she named it charlie for some odd reason..haha but she should just name it was ever name she really likes.if its
brown n black name it midnight or rosco..haha
i dont kno if i had one i would name it rosco


-ash-


hi, i am 11 years old and this is my first time liking a guy and i was wondering if it is normal for a girl to ask a guy out and how do you do ask him? (link)
yes! it totally normal to ask a guy out! just ask him if he would want to go to the movies or somthing with you or just to hang out! and than just ask him if he'll go out with ya!


Hey ashlyn its me shanna ... well anywayz..jamie is being really fucking gay ..jus cuz her boyfriend or ex boyfriend likes me .. wat should i do . cuz i like him .. so help me





shanna (link)
gurl you only have one life! so go for it! inless u and jamie r really good friends..cuz if you are then that wouldn't be such a good idea. but you cant let other people tell you who to date and who not to date! like kevin for example! lol

love ya gurl!!!


-ash


hey there,
theres this guy at school I really really like.
Before our xmas vacation,we had this party at school. Out of no-where, he just said "hey S".
A week later, he asks me about the yearbook comitee.
After the vic, we had PE together, he called my name and when I turned, he waved with a big smile on his face. I was so surprised, after that I developed a crush on him. But all he does is say "hi" and told me one funny thing my guyfriend did(they're in the same class). I really dont know, does he have a crush on me? Every time I decide to give up on him, someone says he glanced at my direction or was staring at me.
I really need your advice, should I wait or should I give up on him? (link)
WAIT GURL! haha if he started talking to you and staring at you and calling your name just to wave i think he likes you!!and if you really like him i dont think you will leave him! if he doesn't have a g.f than ask him if he would want to hang out with you on friday, at the movies or some were..any were!! and if he hangs out with you than yes,he does like you!

xox*ash


just warning you, this may get long!

last night me and my boyfriend of nearly 3 years were in my room and sleeping. not fooling around, literally sleeping. then my dad comes in and freaks out bitching like we had sex or something.

the situation is that i'm the only girl in the family and they treat me like crap. i do the dishes almost every night, take care of my sick grandma, do the laundry, clean the house, and do well in school yet they still look down upon me like i can't be trusted. i am a very responsible girl and i have had enough of them snooping through my room and checking up on me.

the only possible reason why i think they could be acting like this is that we don't communicate very well with each other, let alone get along. maybe bitching is their way of talking to me? even so, that doesn't explain the overprotectiveness!

my question is what can i do to make them trust me? i feel like i've done everything, all ending in failure.

i used to really HATE them for what they put me through, but when they made an effort to BE NICE things got better. our relationship has improved over the past two of months, but after what happened last night, my grudge against them has returned.

please help, i don't know what else i can do. it seems like nothing is ever good enough for them...

-frustrated (link)
well if your 18 you are consedered an adult! Your free to do what ever you want! Your parents should always trust you in what ever you do! And dont be afraid to tell them how you feel about them going threw your stuff.your an adult! you should be treated like one!

*aSh*


okai, well i like this guy, but then i found out he had a "soon to be wife" so i left him alone. well then i found out they broke up cause he caught her cheating. well then everytime he comes over here, she is all he talks about, yet he told me he wanted to get to know me before we started anything. ugh, what do i do? do i go for him? just wait? or leave him alone? (link)
if you really truly like him wait for him to get over her! and get to know each other and go for him! If you really like him and he really likes you dont leave him! If i were you i would deffintly wait for him!!




I really didn't know what category to but this under but here is the question does anyone have any GOOD fundraising ideas to help raise money for the American Cancer Society? Thanks for all your help I need as many ideas as I can get. (link)
you could have a car wash,like a chinese oction because some places (like stores) will donate stuff for it,um. well tho's r the only 2 i can think of right now.if i think of anything else i'll write to ya.!


ok. so my friend and i like this singer, but every one else hates him. they think he can't sing or any of that. and they make fun of us. they don't want to be our friends anymore cause we like this one singer.. what should we do? (link)
well if they don't like you because of a singer you like. Than they really werent the good of a friend..a real friend whould stick with you know matter what! just start hanging out with other people and try to make new friends!


Okai , I have thiz friend who I usuallie tell everythinq too if muh friend Brittany isn`t around for me to talk to. Okai well , the other day I had told her sumthen for the first tyme eva cauz I felt I could trust her nd now shez halfway iqnorinq me. What shuld I do ? (link)
just talk to her and try to find out why! just ask her why she isn't talking to you that much any more and tell her that you feel like she's ignoring you!



Does anyone know where I can get a used drum set in good condition???For under $300 (link)
go on ebay and look on there! there's alot of stuff on there!



im so ttoaly lost i really need help. Nothin feels right between me and my boyfriend. we have been going out for a while and well everything was great and now nothing feels right... i mean he is doing things he knows will piss me off and hes not really telling me anyhinghting anymore... i dont know what to do and i really need help and some one jsut to tlak to...... PLEASE HELP ME !!!!! (link)
just talk to him n tell him you feel like he doesn't trust you any more! and tell him wats on your mind!

*aSh


I know this is weird...But whats a descrete way of giving the guy you like a hug? :P Besides just walking up and hugging him. Sorry this is weird...But I rate high :) (link)
haha that happined to me! it was just me n my brothers friend n i wanted a hug soo bad!! cuz i liked him sooo much! but i just asked him and i got one! but he ko's i like him. But just ask him! get one of your friends to tell him your upset and to give you a hug! ahha that one works!



okay well im 14 and in the 8th grade i started my period in the 6th grade and i only go for 2 days every tiem i have it maybe 3 but i only had it moer then 3 like 2 other times in my life and they were really light.. im not a lil tiny girl but im not fat or anything im just a regular girl and i was wondering if its normal or not, i saw that there was someone else asking that but usally she has it for 5 she said i always have it for 2 :-/ i promise ill rate 5! (link)
your totally fine! every one is different! your normal!some ppl get it for like 7..others can only have it for 2 or 3!



okay, my friend is asking this question not me, she wants to know if the gyno can tell if you masturbate. She is going today and she masturbates but doesnt want her mom to know. (link)
NOPE! they can not tell! haha so your friends has NOTHING to worry about!!

*aSh


ok well im 18/f , and my b/f got me pregnant , lik 3 months ago, b4 he broke up wit me. today he punched me in the stomach , nd in my face. and i dnt kno wut to do?? plz help me. how do i kno if he killed my baby? (link)
go to the doctor! dont wait for a while! just go to the hospital n tell them what happined and they will find out for you! but it was 3 mounths ago you should be able to feel it move..so if it's not moving you should know there's somthing wrong! but if i were you i wouldn't wait! just go!

*aSh


does anyone know ways to get over boys that you really LOVE? (link)
it's really hard..but just hang out with ur friends so u get him off your mind for a while..and just hang out with other guys you might like! and get to kno them!




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