Question Posted Wednesday February 23 2005, 6:01 pm
ok well im 18/f , and my b/f got me pregnant , lik 3 months ago, b4 he broke up wit me. today he punched me in the stomach , nd in my face. and i dnt kno wut to do?? plz help me. how do i kno if he killed my baby?
ThAtS_h0t_27 answered Friday March 18 2005, 2:26 am: ok well its called LAWYER AND DOCTOR!!Fisrt of all thats abuse and if he killed your baby he could be charged with manslaughter.You need to tell somone QUICK!!Before it gets outt of hand. [ ThAtS_h0t_27's advice column | Ask ThAtS_h0t_27 A Question ]
nocturnalkid answered Friday March 11 2005, 7:00 pm: Why the hell is he punching you period? Go to your doctor and have them do an ultrasound ASAP, but while you're at it, you may want to call the police and report what happened. You could press charges for assault and have him arrested. I'm not 100% sure on the laws, but if you get a good lawyer, you may be able to press charges for murder or attempted murder of your baby. [ nocturnalkid's advice column | Ask nocturnalkid A Question ]
gakkuhideto answered Thursday March 3 2005, 3:45 pm: Go to a doctor. Tell your parents. Tell the police. That guy needs to be locked up. I think that if the baby had died, you would have had a miscariage, but maybe not. It is most likely very damaged, go to a doctor right away!! [ gakkuhideto's advice column | Ask gakkuhideto A Question ]
Kels answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 8:20 pm: go to the doctor
call 9-1-1
file a restraning order, but make him pary child support, and for any bills that you get for the baby.
im serious, thats horrible!
best of luck to you!
I hope your baby is okay!!!
Let me know how things turn out!
If You ever need anything at all, just leave on in my in-box!!
frenchfries21 answered Saturday February 26 2005, 5:33 pm: you need to go to the doctor right away... and i would go to the police too because even if he didnt kill the baby, he could have and even though it wasnt born its still a unborn human life. hope everythin works out! [ frenchfries21's advice column | Ask frenchfries21 A Question ]
Eeyore733 answered Saturday February 26 2005, 12:00 am: Oh my gosh.. GO to the docter and if he did you should go and tell the police Even though it isn’t alive it is still murder wow hope it works out for you [ Eeyore733's advice column | Ask Eeyore733 A Question ]
XxDev0ted2u answered Friday February 25 2005, 8:19 pm: go to the doctor...then maybe you should think about the police...thats abuse you know...heres a # you should think about callin 1-800-37-abuse [ XxDev0ted2u's advice column | Ask XxDev0ted2u A Question ]
TheTeenGirl answered Friday February 25 2005, 3:46 am: Ok, first thing, you can stop thinking about that guy, and get him out of your life. And you need to go see a doctor immediatley. You better keep that guy out of your life, and let your friends and family support you and this baby, I hope that child lives.
you should try takin a pregnancy test a couple of times to see if you're still pregnant. and if it says you are, and you still want to make sure, then try going to a doctor and do a test on it.
you should also definately press charges against your ex. he is sooooooo inconsiderate and rude for hitting you like that. he had no right at all, and he should be sent to prison for harming you and your baby. [ azngemini's advice column | Ask azngemini A Question ]
OoxashlynxoO answered Thursday February 24 2005, 1:17 pm: go to the doctor! dont wait for a while! just go to the hospital n tell them what happined and they will find out for you! but it was 3 mounths ago you should be able to feel it move..so if it's not moving you should know there's somthing wrong! but if i were you i wouldn't wait! just go!
Link answered Thursday February 24 2005, 11:22 am: First go to a doctor and get an ultra sound to make sure the baby is ok next. File a lawsuit against him for assault and battery and get his ass thrown in jail [ Link's advice column | Ask Link A Question ]
mrs_radcliffe answered Thursday February 24 2005, 5:12 am: Go see the doctors for a scan
ThugGirl041790 answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 8:19 pm: Well you would of miscarriage.. but you should go to the doctor and see if the baby is okay and see if your okay.. and you should press charges on him.. and get a restraing order on him to stay away from you and your unborn child..much luv [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
Teza answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 7:44 pm: o0 god ! go to the doctor and you need to call the police and tell them what happened! you need to get that loser out of your life because he doesnt deserve you! i hope everythign works out! x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
gsngirl7 answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 6:54 pm: Go to your doctor and tell him a.s.a.p. Your boyfried had no right to do that. You can even file police charges against him for abuse and murder (if u had a miscarriage). GOod luick with your problem. Hope my advice helps! Let me know how everything turns out! [ gsngirl7's advice column | Ask gsngirl7 A Question ]
luckycharm answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 6:54 pm: omg you need to call the police... thats illegal and he should be arrested for that... go to your doctor and have him check to make sure the baby is ok... but you need to call the police! i hope youre ok!!!
--lucky [ luckycharm's advice column | Ask luckycharm A Question ]
CuTeBlOnDeXo answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 6:48 pm: Tell a doctor about what happened, they will do an ultrasound to see if the baby is okay. They will report it to the police, make sure that they do. Good Luck, get the looser boyfriend that left you out of your life, make sure that the only thing he does to you is give you money for child support. Hope This Goes Well, I Hope That You Find Another Boyfriend! [ CuTeBlOnDeXo's advice column | Ask CuTeBlOnDeXo A Question ]
SiLenTxfAiRy answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 6:47 pm: you need to go to the doctor about this, and go to a lawyer. thats abuse and he can be put away for that. if he killed the baby then hes looking at murder. [ SiLenTxfAiRy's advice column | Ask SiLenTxfAiRy A Question ]
xXxpinky615xXx answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 6:43 pm: First of all, you need to call the police. That would be the very first thing you should have done when he hit you. No man has the right to put his hands on a woman and vice versa. Second, you need to go to the doctor. That's the only way the'll be able to find out if the baby was killed or not. You must must must go to the doctor. He can be charged with alot of things. He's a jerk. Go to the police, then go to the doctor. [ xXxpinky615xXx's advice column | Ask xXxpinky615xXx A Question ]
crazyblonde0514 answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 6:32 pm: Wow, well first of all you need to get this loser out of your life. He obviously is someone who does not deserve the right to be involved in your life, or your childs regardless if he is the father or not. If he is willing to put your baby's life in danger and put you in harm, then he needs to be dealt with ASAP. You need to tell someone about this as soon as you can because he has the potential to be even more dangerous. I can't say for sure, but I don't think that he killed your baby. But you definitly should go and get checked out to make sure everything is okay. I highly advise that you stay away from him at all costs. Tell your parents or another adult that you trust about this. I'm really sorry that you have to experience these types of violent acts from someone who is suppose to be supportive of you and caring... no one deserves to be abused, especially and innocent child that obviously has no way of defending itself. The best way to assure your baby's health is to keep away from him. I wish you the best of luck and I hope you can get help hun! [ crazyblonde0514's advice column | Ask crazyblonde0514 A Question ]
Karen answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 6:32 pm: Don't let this guy get away with what he did to you. Talk to your mom or a friend about this and go to the hospital. You are going to have to tell the doctors about what happened, since they always need to know, and then they will report this to the police. Even if your baby is alright, you still should press charges on him and not let him do this to someone else.
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
Nicole08 answered Wednesday February 23 2005, 6:27 pm: Well you should deffinatly get someone you trust, like a best friend, your mom, or sister and go to the doctor and tell them what happened. They should alert the police if not file a policereport. Even if he didnt kill your baby you wouldnt want him to do it to anybody else. Do this asap. I hope i helped and i hope you and your baby are ok.
Much Love Nicole [ Nicole08's advice column | Ask Nicole08 A Question ]
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