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I love music, movies, and hanging with my friends. Im more of a stay at home hang out type of girl. LOL Im funny and my friends think im pretty....sometimes i dont think so. I hate school but hey i have to do it if i want to get somewhere someday. I love rock music all kinds but mostly rock old age and new age. i love BILLIE JOE ARMSTRONG FROM GREEN DAY....OMG he is the sexiest man in eyeliner...i love him!!!! lol :]

My best advice.....Ladies, if a guy doesn't open the door for you; kick him where it counts, walk away slowly so he can stare at your ass and wish he would have open the door for you.....And to the guys my advice for you, always open the door for a ladie even if you dont know her, she'll apreciate it.

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um ok i just put this under health for like no reason but i am really small and i think people dont talk to me becuz of it i mean i am in 9th grade 5' 3", 83 pounds, i dont even hav my period yet.. is these any way i could look older that you know of??

um i dont think you should make yourself look older but maybe act older i mean i dont know you and maybe peolpe around you are more mature and well im not the most mature person in the world but you could just "grow up" a lil bit and if you havent had your period yet you shold tell ur mom or someone and maybe go see a doctor but it might be normal in your family because sometimes generation after generation are the same ur mom/aunt/grandma/great grandma could have started late so just talk to someone in your family about it

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I was just wondering if anyone had any cute ideas for a hairstyle for a Christmas dance? Pictures would be helpful.

And if you need to know brown hair, down to about mid back?, angled a very small amount in the front.

Thanks!

Down with a lil curly is very sexy and cute plus its easy to do its comfortable and clean looking you dont have to slick back your hair and have your eyes pop out of your head hope you have fun

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My mom is in her late 40's. Well anyway. I like the band Green Day. And she doesn't. She's more into the Old Country type of music. I like the color black. My mom won't buy me black and says "It Looks Like Something A Devil Worshiper Would Wear!" and Refuses to buy me Green Day Things like for example I wanted and still want this really pretty Green Day Hoodie. It was black or Gray (Can't Remember) and it just had "Green Day" on the front of it and I asked her if I could get it instead off the OCC Hoodie. And She said No. What is Wrong With her. She got mad at me because We have a new phone number and someone called that she didnt know and I didn't either and automatically assumed it was me! So?

Your moms crazy if she doesnt like GREEN DAY!!! just do whatever the hell you want u need ur freedom but dont go to far you still have to respect her but if you want to wear something that really isnt bad or listen to something you should and dont worry all parents blame us for everything you just gota learn how to live with it!

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Love Peace and Happiness Nicole

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My parents have been telling me Santa Claus is real..I mean I am trying to believe but my parents have given off to MANY clues. I asked my mom the other day and she gave me the whole pep talk. Is Santa Claus real or is it his "helpers" who live w/ me?

you just have to believe what your heart tells you but yeah there comes a age in your life whn you just stop believing but you never know he might really be out there or he might have been at one point...let me just say x-mas is so much more fun when you believe

Merry Christmas x0x0x0x0
Peace and Happiness Nicole

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Ok, here's my question. I REALLY like this guy that I met in math class last year. He wrote in my yearbook last year "can't wait to see you next year!!!" Do you think he likes me?? I don't see him this year so I can't do anything. I asked a couple of friends to say hi to him because they have classes with him. I've never ever felt like this about anyone before. I really miss him. I think about him constantly day in and day out. I WILL rate high for any good answers!! thx

Just start hanging out with him at lunch and outside of school get to know him and let him get to know you flirt a little bit and then after a while then you might be able to tell if he likes you*GOOD LUCK*

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when do people usually start babysitting.. and how much do they usually get in an hour??

You start when your mature and responsible(not saying you are inmature and unresponsible im just saying) and when your parents say its ok. The money depends on how many kids there are....if say its one kid and they are say 4 years old and the parents need you for 5 hours i'd ask for like 25 to 30 whatever feels right for you.

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hey im burning a cd for when im in bad moods and i need some songs. like slow emo // punk // sad songs ya know? thanks a bunch! i'll rate 5!!!!

I did the same thing lastnight lol The song im listening to is Lonely Day by Phantom Planet its kind of sad but its fast and its good google it. Go to the audio section or whatever and put it in the search!!! Hope you like it. OR Split Screen Sadness by John Mayer is a really good song its off of his Heavier Things album.

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dose any one know bands that are like the band "the killers"? i love there songs,and i would like to hear some similar music.
Also, does any one know the name and artist of the song that gose "let the base from the speakers run down to your sneakers" [[or something like that]]

Ok a few bands that are kind of like The Killers are.....Maroon 5(the best band ever!!!!), Phantom Planet,Yellowcard, Simple Plan, Bowling for Soup, Green Day, Rooney,Weezer,Fountains of Wayne and Jet they arent exactly like them but they are close to it. You should lso check out The Beatles most of the bands around got their inspiration from them.

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i didnt know what catagorei to put this under but i think it goes here. anyway im a female. ok my problem is that i like to mess with my vagina for some reason and i get a clear discharge but i dont know what its from and why its happening. i seem to get cuts down there and dont know why. my thing( i dont know what to call it but its not the vagina) gets chapped alot. i dont think its an std because ive never had any sex before. what do you think is wrong with me?

there is this website called beinggirl.com or something like that you can ask questions there or go see a doctor.

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ok so you kno the skin or "fat" that is usually called love handles? well how do you get rid of it.. are there exercises u can do? Its summer and it would be nice to not be self conscience about my body. I know i shouldn't be but i just want to know if anyone has anythign that would help thanks a bunch =D

There is nothing wrong with love handles some guys think its hot. Alot of girls even guys have them....you shouldnt worry about it. If you really want them to go away you could run ocassionally.

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My friend is having a pool party in a couple of days and my crush is gonna be there! What are some tihngs i could do to make him like me more, question for the guys- whta would u want a girl to do for u too liek thme, anytihng i could wear or do?



THnaks!!

5 for everyone!

Sorry but a real guy should like you for yourself. Just go up to him and talk to him. If you want to feel good about yourself it might help...wear something really cute like a cute new bathing suit and a cute outfit over it.

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I'm going to softball camp this summer and ive never played before, so can someone give me good websites to learn the game?

there's not really a website to go on to learn it. It's pretty easy just go outside and play ask a guy or even a girl to help you if that doesnt work i guess you could google it.

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all of my friends dont live in my neighborhood, so when i want to go to the pool i cant go cause i dont have anyone to go with. i wanna go alone, but i also wanna get in the water w/o looking like a freak since i dont have anything to do with anyone. what are some ideas of things i could do alone?

-start playing an instrument(dums,guitar,bass,flute,piano/keyboards,etc.)
-write in like a notebook write stories or something like that
-paint
-draw
-take pictures of random things in the neighborhood who knows you might see beautiful things that other people dont see until you point them out.

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I am 13 and a girl who has never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend keeps on looking at me and once he was starring at me so I turend around to look and he quikly turend around.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.

P.S Today he mumbeled somthing to me

Ok not to be rude but the only way your going to find out he likes is if you ask him or you could go trough the whole 3rd grade thing and have your friends ask his friends ask him but it will be better if you ask him yourself. Or just talk to him get to know him better then start talking about you 2 getting together. And if it doesnt happen dont worry there are other falling stars to cach meaning theres other guys out there it just takes time because are stubborn and dont like to show their emotions. So just take a deep breath walk over to him and talk to him, call him, or im him. Hope i helped Love Nicole

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Does anyone know where I can find cute quotes about the movie Notebook. Its the best movie ever!

K watch the movie and when someone says something you like write it down word for word and put who saud it then it's a quote. By the way that movie is really cute i loved it too. Love Nicole

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i was just wondering if any of you agree with me and think its strange for a best friend to wanna know every single detail or wut goes on between you and your boyfriend..alrite well yeah just a random question

If your friend doesnt have a boyfriend of her own then she is just probably courious so try and hook her and one of your boyfriend's friends up but if she does have a bf of her own then yeah its weird but just talk to her about it then.

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how do i get a guy to like me enough to ask me out on a date...what kinds of things should i do or say...i'll rate really high to anyone who gives a good answer.

Be Yourself!!!

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my hair is naturally a very dark brunette and i had it highlighted goldish-blondish. its starting to grow out now and i need some ideas for when i get it done next time. if you could give me websites (besides google) and maybe if you know alot about hair some ideas of your own. i kinda like reese witherspoons brunette color and maybe that with like an ash colored highlights? im open to any ideas though.

thanks*

I know that @ Safeway and Longs or any grocery store they have these hair syle magazines. Sometimes they have pretty good looking stuff in there....look through all of them b4 you buy them. If u do find a picture bring it in to your hairstylist and she'll make it happen...Hope it works out Love Nicole

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hey I know someone who cuts themselves and it is starting to scare me! I used to be her friend but now were not as close. I think her parents know but I dont know what to do because I think she still cuts herself so please help!!!- needs advice

Tell them how much you care about them. Try to become friends again and get her/him help and if it helps go with her/him to get help. Love always and forever Nicole

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my friends brother is coming home from jail at the end of the summer.. her mom is always in a bad mood and her sister has to go to a psychologist because she has problems with her brother.. i feel so bad for my friend.. and she knows there are gonna be more problems when he comes home because her mom will want him to stay in the house and her dad will want him out and her brother never listens... i know its gonna be hard for her and i just want to help her.

Just tell her that if a day or night comes around where it's too hard to be at home that she can stay with you or something like that. And just be supportive, and if she talks about it talk with her and then try to get things off her mind.

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