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Q: Sorry it's sooo long but I really need help

ok I got a 65 on my social studies test last friday. I got it back on monday to get signed. Well it was Halloween on monday so I forgot to get it signed that night. The next morning before I went to school I told my mom about it. My mom told my dad and my dad totally flipped out on me. He told me that I couldn't go on any of the computers in my house cause I go on and talk to people a lot.(I'm grounded pretty much but I still go on.)I told him that half my class did bad and other classes and people had lower grades than me. So a day or two after my sis comes home with a 68 3 points higher than mine in bio.(almost all of her class did bad she says) My dad doesnt even yell at her. Yet my sister doesnt get in trouble and she is always doing her homework with the tv on which I'm not allowd to do. She also does homework with her ipod mini on. I flipped out on my mom the other night when she was sick because she told me that I shouldnt be IMing people. Mys sister is always making fun of me and telling me I should do this or that better(I'm the youngest) The other day my sister comes in the room while I'm doing homework and starts going through my candy for halloween and asking me if she can have like everything that she can eat. I told her go eat your own candy and she says I barely got any candy and I couldnt eat half of it(shes allergic to nuts) and I told her well thats not my fault. My parents are always making me do chores and not her. They are always buying her candy and crap. They always play favorites and I'm not gonna take any of this shit anymore. My annoying bratty nosey sister and my yelling parents I can't take it. I just want to run away I want my sister to get out of my life but we have to share a fucking room.
What can I do about my parents playing favorites?
I want to tell my dad that its not fair but he hates that. What can I do? Please help!!!!!

f/13
maybe they know that you can do better, so they expect more of u. (which means that they think youre smart.) if thats not is, then your probably just blowing things a little out of proportion. im not saying that theyre right, and youre wrong, but you probably just notice it more.

Q: what is the cytosol in a cell? i went to all these websites and it keeps saying the same thing but its not making sense. could anyone help me? like use it as an analogy would be easiest like the town hall is the center of the town like the nucleus is the center of the cell

thanks!
I had to do an analogy just like that, and I did a house, a couple other ones in my class were airplane, classroom, and town, like you said.

Q: okay well i just got my haircut and i hate it.. i told this lady not short and no bangs and she made itshort with bangs and i hate it!! but all my friends are like its so cute and the guy i like told me it looks great, but i was just wonderin... do guys like it better if a girl wears her hair up or down??
Guys don't care. my sister got 10 inches cut off her hair and her boyfriend didnt notice.
lol, hope i helped!

Q: ugh i have that flap on my arm (upper) what are some things i can do to get ride of it!?
I had the same thing, and then I joined the swim team, and it basically went away. It was replaced with muscle.

hope i helped!

Q: i'm going to islands of adventure and i'm kinda scared to go on dueling dragons.of those who went on it, was it fun, describe what it was like on the ride.also, what are otehrs rides you would recommend to go on while i'm there?
Dueling Dragons is an AWSOME ride. Your feet dangle below you, and it is just an awsome sensation. I reccomend The Hulk, Spiderman, Jurrasic Park water ride. If you dont like thrill rides, there are plenty of other things to do. Don't chicken out on a ride though, you'll probably regret it later.

Q: i wanna get fatter but ma matabalism is way to high and everyone thinks im anorexic or baliemic and they yell at me when i skip luch cuz i dont got ne money and they think i just say that to get them away so what do i do help me plz. i want to get muscular a fatter ne one kno how to do this
dont EVER skip any meals, if you forget lunch money often, put a post-it note on the back of your door so you remember. It worked for me. :)

Q: is it phisically possible to lick your elbow?
please answer, me and my friend are mad at each other because she says it is possible but doesn't care to prove it.



lee lee
yes, its possible, i can do it. lol, but then again i am sort of strange like that

Q: i have the abilty to get good grades and i already know that. the problem is that i can't seem to always do my homework and focus on my classwork. i need ways to help me focus and do my homework right when i get home.
dont let yourself do ANYTHING before you do your homework. i get home and start my homework right away. it seems to work for me. :)

Q: i know a lot of people are asking you these questions..but here it goes

vday is MONDAY! and my bf derek..weve been going out for a year and like we usually get eachother ..50$ stuff but his family is kind of low in money and i dont want him to feel bad like cause hes getting me a 20$ gift and i said i was guna get him like 40$ and he got mad but anyways i dont want to give him a photo album..cause i read peoples answers.. i already got him a necklace and braclet and cologn..i was guna give him my diary to read that ive been writing in for a while but i DEF. need something else so dont just say only the diary please. i dont know what else to get him. like tshirts are hard to find for him and yeah. please help! thanks
guys love sports! get him a hat or something, its not that expensive, and its very thoughtful.

Q: I have to switch schools (7th grade) and I'm so nervous. I have cramps in my stomach and I feel like I'm going to puke. I have talked to friends over the phone about it and they say I'll do fine but I don;t about that. Please, someone tell me what I can do to reduce nervousness of this change?
I moved at the beginning of this school year, and I was as nervous as you are now. This probably sounds really corny, but my teacher introduced me to the class and had these two girls show me around. These two girls are now some of my best friends. Ask the teacher if its possible that they do that for you. :)

Q: I really want one of those cool quizes people have in their profiles on aol instant messanger. I cannot figure out how to get one though. Could any of you help me?
well, I know one way is to go to buddyprofile.com and click on new user. its free and really easy to use. :)

Q: My roommates 21st birthday is on May 20th. We are beginning to plan a trip now. We live in Maine, and are dreaming of laying on the beach sipping on margarita's and daiquiri's in Florida.

So far it's going to be me (21/female-will be 22) her, and her 26 year old boyfriend. Her boyfriend wants to go to Orlando so we will be able to go to Universal Studios. I will be taking at least one day/night to go to Daytona to visit my brother and hopefully hang out on some beaches.

I'm asking advice from anyone who lives, or has visited Orlando/Daytona area. I want to know some interesting clubs, bars, beaches, etc.

I would enjoy spending the entire time at the beach, but my roomy's boyfriend would probably be more interested in watching movies and playing games. Got any ideas of what we can do together, and also different things apart?
I lived like 20 minutes away from Orlando, so here's my advice: Sea World is cool, Universal Islands of Adventure is awsome(thrill ride fan speaking), disney quest is cool(and will get you out of the heat) and blizzard beach is cool. and if you are going to be there for a while, then I suggest you set aside like two days to spend on the beach, its a long drive, but completly worth it. :)

Q: ok well for valentines day i got my bf tickets to a baseball game!! yea i know expensive but its his fav. team. is it a lil over the top or is it an ok thing?

and... i want to put the ticets in something besides a card soo i need ideas to think off of. thanks bunches
i would probably tape it to the brim of a hat of the same team. if he doesnt have that hat already, it would make a great finishing touch. :)

Q: I'm looking for some really great teen fictional books. Can anyone recommend some to me, or even if you can't, a great website that has a list of them? I'm looking for a book along the storyline of like love and romance.... but even if you have a book name that's not about that but it's a great book, thats good too! THANKS!!
two of my favorite books are
- A Tree grows in Brooklyn by Betty Smith
- House of the Scorpian by ????

both of them are kind of slow at first, but then get REALLY good, i highly reccommend them.

Q: I have to do 5 hours of community service for school and I was wondering if anyone had any ideas on what I could do that would involve things that I like to do. Some things I like to do that might involve any kind of community service are being with little kids and dancing. Any help would be appreciated... thanks.
when i was alot younger, i was in girl scouts, and i know that we loved it when an older kid came to help us out. u would have alot of fun and get to hang out with little kids.

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