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For your information, I'm very plain. I never do anything to myself except tie my hair in a loose pony tail.

I hardly ever dress nice, or wear makeup or anything. I'm 16 years old, and I honestly feel like doing my hair, wearing makeup, wearing nice clothes and all that because I really think it'll help with my self-esteem issues. I've always noticed that I'm more confident whenever I wear makeup or do my hair, or dress nicely whenever I'm gone to a wedding or something.

My mother on the other hand absolutely doesn't want me wearing any makeup besides eyeliner, and lip gloss. She says that make up will ruin my skin, and that I'll become too accustomed to wearing it that I won't like my "real" face.

Anyways..
Do you think I should wear makeup, or should I not?
Share your personal experiences, and opinions. It'd help alot!

Give makeup a try :). Just keep it light, if you and your mom are worried. I only wear concealer and cover up, but it makes a noticable difference. The only way, you'll get "addicted" to makeup is if you pile it on. If you use to much, it'll look cakey. Lighter is always better.

Maybe you can get someone you know to give you a makeover just so you can experiement. Good luck. Hope my advices helps :). -Jenny

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well, like this guy
hes soooooo hot and he might say yes if i ask him out, but the probllem is he just broke up with his girlfriend should i ask now or later
plz help me i like him alot
thanks
Love yuh

Its is gonna depend on how he is feeling. Were him and his gf going out for a long time? Or was it a casual realtionship? If he seems ok after the breakup, then you should be ok. But if he's really upset, then you don't want to be on the rebound. Make sure you he knows that he can talk to you anytime. Good luck :). Let me know what happens. -Jenny

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How do I get rid of a couple problem zits overnight?!? Help!!

Zits might not go away overnight, but what you can do is make sure you wash your face before you go to bed. Also if you have any products to help with zits, try using them. I use a product called Acne Free and its works pretty good. It's only a couple of dollars at the store. Hope I helped :) -Jenny

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my name is allyson. im not sure if you still go on your website or anything, because it might be old. but i really need advice. i have a boyfriend, we've only been going out for about a month. he wants to "make out" and thats okay with me. ive kissed guys before, but not ever "madeout" and i want to, im just really nervous. hes never made out either, im just worried i will be bad-- or mess up. im not sure of what to do.
"just follow with your partner" or whatever everyone else says wont help. i feel prude... but i really need some advice!

I wouldn't stress yourself out about it. Don't forget that he has never made out either so i'm sure he's gonna be really nervous too. When the time comes, you'll know exactly what to do. Just relax and it'll come naturally. Good luck :) -Jenny

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Hey guys :) Well I'm 16 years old [Just turned 16 in August] and I've been with my current boyfriend since June '08. We've always had protected sex except once on August 14th [2 days before my birthday]. So my last period was on August 1st and since my periods are irregular at times, I counted 30 days after my last period to try and figure out when my expected period would be. Which would have been August 31st. I didn't get my period then and I didn't get it in September at all either. It's already half way through October and I haven't gotten it nor have I had signs of it coming. I did some research and it said I was ovulating at the time I had unprotected sex making it a 15% chance of me being pregnant. I'm just wondering if it's possible that I could be pregnant or maybe my period is just being really delayed. Also, When should I test for pregnancy if I do decide to? Thanks in advance for your advice :)


p.s.
My periods have never been this irregular, I normally just miss one, but not two.


-Ellie

First off, get a home pregnancy test at a local store and check just to be sure.

As far as your period goes, pregnancy is just one of the possible reasons why you havent been getting it. If you changed your diet recently or if you have gained or lost weight, it could affect your period. Also a huge factor is sress. If youve been under a lot of stress recently- from school, homework, ect- that could really affect your period.

If you ever need to talk send me a message and definitely let me know how everything goes :). Hope I helped you.

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what does exfoliate your skin mean?

Exfoliate means that you are cleaning your skin. You are getting rid of of the dry skin. This also helps to prevent breakouts. Hope my advice helps ♥ Jenny

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19/f
Ok I've hung out with my older brother's friends for awhile now (he is 25 and his friends range from 21 - 28 i think). Well, I've liked one of them for a couple years now, and they had a new years eve party last night. I ended up staying there, and me and this guy that I've liked slept on the couch together (nothing happened though, just cuddling). After we all left, he sent me a message on facebook and said he had a good time chillin with me and gave me his number. So I gave him mine, and we're texting now. He wants to take me to a movie sometime, and I'm really excited. But the problems are 1) he's 24 and 2) my brother doesn't really like him anymore (some girl issue they had like a year ago). I really want to see where things go with this guy, but my brother would kill me if he knew. He's already told me I shouldn't go out with him and all. Plus, my mom doens't think it's a good idea, cause it might mess up my relationship with my brother. I'm really stuck on this. I really like this guy, but at the same time, I don't want to ruin my relationship with my brother. :/ Help??

its really ironic. my bff is going through this exact same situation!!

i told her to talk to her brother. that way, he doesnt think she is keeping secrets from him. try talking to him asap. maybe even tonight if you can. also see if you can get your mom to be with you whenever you talk to him. its like a two against one kinda situation.

you are 19, and you can make your own decisions. although your brother might be mad, he cant stop you from doing anything. he and his friend need to get over all the drama. they are 25 and 24 and they need to get over it. hope my advice helps! ♥ jenny

haha i didnt gumpy at all!!!!!! yay!!!!!! :)

chunkle, clown meat, and chauncy. haha all 3 begin with c's!! :)

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Im so obsessed with harry potter. now that the books are all out and there are no new movies i have gotten desprate, so much that i was on youtube watching fake 6th movie trailers. any suggestions?

Youtube has many videos about Harry Potter. These videos are created using humor. For example me and my friend always watch videos called Potter Puppet Pals. Try searching for these videos. All you have to do is search for Harry Potter. Search for Potter Puppet Pals: Swedish Style :). Hope my advice helps! let me know if you find anything you like! ♥ Jenny

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How do you use limewire? I just downloaded it and the songs I try to download say "need more sources" with zero progress. After I get something downloaded, how do I get it onto my i pod?

The songs that need more sources dont have enough support to download them. These songs often skip or have something wrong with them when they play. The ones that work best are the ones with a speed of T3 or higher (you can look at the speed- its on the righthand side of the song title).

Also i would recomend deleting Limewire and downloading something called Frostwire. It is almost identical to Limewire, but it is safer as far as illegal downloading goes. Limewire is under close supervision by the government now. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny

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Ok, so whenever I try to log into myspace, it won't let me. It says I entered the wrong password, which I didn't. Also, another page pops up that says "protectedmodeoff" and then the rest of it is just a white web page. Please help, I don't know what happened. Did I get hacked? If so, how do I get unhacked?

How hackers get your password is they create a fake myspace page that looks like the real one. When you type in your password, you think you are logging on, but you are really sending your password to the hacker. You dont want this to happen, so if you can, try to use the link at the bottom of the myspace page to contact the people at Myspace. Email them. Let them know what is happening. This problem might be just a computer or website error, but you want to be safe. Better safe then sorry. Hope my advice helps ♥ Jenny

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theres this song & a girl sings it
it goes like:

i wanna be bad be bad
i wanna be bad be bad

wats that song called

I think the song you are thinking of it the song "I Wanna Be Bad" by Willa Ford. This song was very popular in the 90s. Here are the lyrics:

WILLA FORD LYRICS

"I Wanna Be Bad"

Oh, I, I, I
I wanna be bad with you baby
I, I, I, I
I wanna be bad with you baby

Do you, understand what I need,need (from you)
Just let me be the girl to show you (you)
Everything that she can be is everything that I can be
I wanna be
My turn
Let me let you know that I can (I can)
Promise that I won't do that
So boy, say the time and place cuz you make me wanna misbehave

I wanna be bad
You make bad look so good
I got things on my mind
I never thought I would
I, I wanna be bad (bad)
You make bad feel so good
I'm losing all my cool
I'm about to break the rules
I, I wanna be bad

I wanna be bad with you baby
I, I, I, I, I wanna be bad with you baby

What's up?
Tell me what to do, how to be, teach me
All you your rules from A to Z,
But I, I dont wantcha other girls to see
that youre messin' round with me

Should I boy
Tell me what I got is what ya want
Tell Tell me do I, I turn you on
I don't want no one judging me

I wanna be bad
You make bad look so good
I got things on my mind
I never thought I would
I, I wanna be bad (bad)
You make bad feel so good
I'm losing all my cool
I'm about to break the rules
I, I wanna be bad

I wanna be bad with you baby
I, I, I, I, I wanna be bad with you baby
I, I

I wanna be bad
You make bad look so good
I got things on my mind
I never thought I would
I, I wanna be bad (bad)
You make that feel so good
I'm losing all my cool
I'm about to break the rules
I, I wanna be bad

Here's the link for the site that I got them at:

http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/willaford/iwannabebad.htm


Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny

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ive got yet another music question "......tell me that youre sorry did not think youd turn around....... its too late to apoligize, its too late....." dos anyone redconize this song???

I think the song you are thinking of is Apologize by Timbaland. Here are the lyrics:

I'm holding on your rope,
Got me ten feet off the ground
And I'm hearing what you say but I just can't make a sound
You tell me that you need me
Then you go and cut me down, but wait
You tell me that you're sorry
Didn't think I'd turn around, and say...

that it's too late to apologize, it's too late
I said it's too late to apologize, it's too late

I'd take another chance, take a fall
Take a shot for you
And I need you like a heart needs a beat
But it's nothing new - yeah
I loved you with the a fire red-
[Apologize lyrics on http://www.metrolyrics.com]


Now it's turning blue, and you say...
I'm sorry like an angel
heaven let me think was you
But I'm afraid...

It's too late to apologize, it's too late
I said it's too late to apologize, it's too late whoaa ohhh...

It's too late to apologize, it's too late
I said it's too late to apologize, it's too late
I said it's too late to apologize, yeah-
I said it's too late to apologize, yeah-
I'm holding on your rope, got me ten feet... off the ground...

I got them from http://www.metrolyrics.com/apologize-lyrics-timbaland.html

Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny

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ok so i have this friend and he is really nice like you have no idea how sweet he is but anyways,
i think i love him and he knows i know like him but he doesnt want a girlfriend and i know he doesnt bc his best friend told me that he wouldnt go out with anybody unless he really liked the person but the thing is he wants to go to the movies w/ me and make out and finger me, i want to too but idk wat to think about how he feels about me
wat do you think?
wat should i do?
do you think it is stupid of me to go to the movies w/ him?

He definitely seems like moe than a friend! Especially if he only goes out with the people he really likes. I would go to the movies with him. Plus that way you can see how he feels. If he gives off a good vibe then Id say you are good for him :) Hope my advice helps ♥ Jenny

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I am a cheerleader, and tomorrow we have a BIG basketball game. And we have to wear our hair up.
im really upset because
the guy i like is on the basketball team and I LOOK LIKE A MAN WITH MY HAIR UP! i swear, its terrible. i NEVER wear it up..
so i dont know what do to..

I have bangs on the side of my face. and my coach said we can leave them down if we want.

so my main question is.. does anyone know any like cute ways i could put my hair up so it wont look bad on me? im allowed to have bangs out just i dont wanna look bad. so if anyone has any like cute hairstyles for updo's please let me know.

P.s it can be pony tail, pigtails, Braides, One braid, bun Doesnt matter.

thanks =)

I know exactly what you mean! I think i look horrible with my hair up too :)! But anyway french braids are really cute. My sister is in the band and they had to wear there hair in a french braid. It looks really cute and neat. Try doing that. They are easy to do. And if you dont want to do it yourself, hair salons will do it for a small price. Hope my advice helps ♥ Jenny

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Okay, well i am a 13 year old girl. I wanna meet people to talk to, but not like date. I wanna find friends online and places. Where can i do this?

There a number of places you can meet people. You could try going to the online Personal section and set up a page. Also if you google the word penpal, a bunch of sites will pop up. Hope my advice helps ♥ Jenny

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Hi :]

my boyfriends birthday is coming up on the 16th and i wanted to do something really special. this year we had a really bad homecoming, i was in a really bad mood etc, at one point i told him his tie was really ugly ( a lie) but he got upset bc he really liked it and he ended up returning it well the whole night sucked. so for his birthday i went out and bought the tie and im going to give it to him with a note saying meet me here at this time like a restaurant and have him dress up and wear the tie and ill get all dressed up and go out to eat. then i want to drive him somewhere and pull over but i dunno where to go. and have a playlist set up and roll all the windows down on my truck and have our own little homecoming. but i dunno where to go and some basics to make it cute not cheesey please help :]Thanks.

I love your plan. Its so sweet :). If you want to pull over somewhere, try going to a hill or somewhere that has a good view. Being able to see the stars and the night sky is always romantic. Hope my advice helps ♥ Jenny

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15/f

Whenever my friends say, "So and so thinks your hot" or if someone tells me im pretty, i kind of become paranoid around that person who thinks im hot/pretty! i think that the next time they see me, they'll reconsider and think that i am ugly or something. Is this normal? Do guys do that/change their minds a lot? Sorry if this question seems stupid!

Its perfectly normal to be worried. But you dont need to worry. Your apperence will look the same everytime they see you. Just act normal and youll be fine :). Hope my advice helps ♥ Jenny

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my sister and i always snoop out presents, so we know what we're getting every year. this year, the main thing i wanted was a new digital camera- a NICE one. it was the only big thing i asked for. [last year it was an ipod nano, which was then $200, and i got it.] the camera i picked out was less than $200. well, we were snooping and i found a digital camera. it's NOT what i wanted at all, and they know exact what i want in one. there IS a possibility it isn't for me, because another family member wanted one. but i'm almost positive it is.

so my question is, if it is my present, how do i let my parents know it's not what i wanted, without hurting their feelings? i ABSOLUTELY hate to sound like i'm not appreciative of what i get, because i am. but since this is the only big thing i wanted and it's not even really what i wanted, i'm disappointed. help?!

Maybe your sister can help you out. Next time your parents go shopping, maybe she could show them the one that you wanted. That way you can let your parents know without being obvious. It would look better coming from your sister than having it seem like you arent grateful. Hope my advice helps ♥ Jenny

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i don't know what do give one of my good friends for christmas. i want to get her something good cause she's been there for me 6 years, what should i get her?

15/f

Try gathering up pictures of the both of you together or of pictures that are special to the both of you. Make her a photo album. A photo album is a great way to remember memories and its something she will always keep and love. Hope my advice helps ♥ Jenny

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well, i know that they found the titanic, but did they prove that it is the ACTUAL titanic? like, they saw the name on the side of the ship?

Yes the ship that they found was the Titanic. They were able to identify the ship by the name on it's side and recover objects from the ship. They were able to prove it to by the way it was broken in two. Hope my advice helps! ♥ Jenny

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