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staying hot
15/f
Whenever my friends say, "So and so thinks your hot" or if someone tells me im pretty, i kind of become paranoid around that person who thinks im hot/pretty! i think that the next time they see me, they'll reconsider and think that i am ugly or something. Is this normal? Do guys do that/change their minds a lot? Sorry if this question seems stupid!
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Its perfectly normal to be worried. But you dont need to worry. Your apperence will look the same everytime they see you. Just act normal and youll be fine :). Hope my advice helps ♥ Jenny
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To have a guy think you are hot is quite flattering. If he thinks you are hot one day, he probably thinks you are hot the next.
However, in real life, hottness doesn't count for much. A guy can think you are hot but if you don't have the personality to go with it... he can think you are hot but may not want to have anything to do with you. I know this sounds cliche and many people in today's vain society who care more about weight and beauty feel that if someone things they are good looking, they can have it all. The fact is, as you grow older (and I don't mean 50, 60 years old... I mean as you grow from 15 to 20 to 25) you realize that people you may not have found particularly physically attractive when you first met them, you now find to be so incredibly nice and funny and helpful and considerate... they actually start to appear more physically attractive! And once you hit a real level of maturity, you find that you don't even realize whether a person looks good or not... it is what is inside that counts. I am still young (in my 20's) and I would much rather have someone tell me how smart I am or that I was so helpful to them, or "I can always trust you", these kids of things. To me, they are so much more flattering. I get told once in a while I still look good and that's nice and all but... where does that get you?
Back to answering your question... as I said before, a guy who thinks you are hot probably will think you are hot for a long time. Just don't get too wrapped up in the idea he likes your outward appearance because without some inside beauty as well... thinking you look nice is ALL he is going to do. No one wants to spend a lot of time with self absorbed people who only care what themselves and others look like when there is SO MUCH MORE to life. Just be your sweet little self around the guy and he will think so much more about you and REALLY like you. Its amazing how far being fun, friendly, and considerate can get you.
Basically, continue taking care of your self, but continue to grow inside as well and you have a great chance of having any boy you want.
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awww, dont think like that.
You should be flattered that these people looked at you in that way.
One time they look at you wont change their view surely.
If you look happy when your around people thats attractive in itself
so loosen up and continue turning heads!
Dont be insecure, just be positive.
Dont focus on being paranoid as this may not make u look very approachable.
just relax and continue being you
hope this helped :)
xxxx
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