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my name is allyson. im not sure if you still go on your website or anything, because it might be old. but i really need advice. i have a boyfriend, we've only been going out for about a month. he wants to "make out" and thats okay with me. ive kissed guys before, but not ever "madeout" and i want to, im just really nervous. hes never made out either, im just worried i will be bad-- or mess up. im not sure of what to do.
"just follow with your partner" or whatever everyone else says wont help. i feel prude... but i really need some advice!
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You just need to be relaxed and comfortable.
He hasnt made out either, so it's a sort of important time for both of you.
If you're comfortable with eachother, and that fact you both havnt made out - I'm sure he isn't shallow enough to laugh at you, or something along those lines if you "mess up". Just enjoy it...it might not even be you that messes up
Noone is never sure "what" to do, but whereever you hands want to go, let them. Wherever you body goes let it - just don't take it too far if you're not comfortable.
If you're worried etc talk to him about it.
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Let's relax. There is nothing wrong with feeling worried. Everyone has to go through their first time doing anything, and no one is a pro there first time. Practice makes perfect. The fact that your boyfriend has never made out with anyone either should bring you some comfort. Why? Because maybe he can relate to how you are feeling. Talk to him.
I do have some tips for your first makeout session.
First...make sure your breathe is fresh. Bad breathe is a definite turn off.
((Go slow))
Start off with a regular kiss but open your mouth slowly and take his top lip in mouth slightly and kiss it. Now do the same with his bottom lip. Keep this rotation up. <---this is basically a closed mouth makeout session. If you would like to know where to put your hands during just place them on hands face, around his neck, on his neck, his thigh, his arm, basically anywhere on his body.
Open mouth make out session:
Start off with your closed mouth make out session but now open your mouth and kiss his top lip while using you tongue. Do the same thing with his bottom lip too. Next slowly open your mouth and slip your tongue in his mouth. (He should get the point) by this time his tongue should be on yours. Slowly in circle motions wrap your tongue around his. Now slowly move your tongue out of his mouth. Then do it again.
It should come naturally after a while. Good luck.
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I wouldn't stress yourself out about it. Don't forget that he has never made out either so i'm sure he's gonna be really nervous too. When the time comes, you'll know exactly what to do. Just relax and it'll come naturally. Good luck :) -Jenny
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