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Confused about relationships..
13/f
(sorry this is really long)
Yesterday I went to Cedar Point with one of my really good friends for her birthday. She introduced me to one of her guy friends, let's call him Fred. So at Cedar Point there was Me, my good friend named Emily, Fred, TK and two other people. Well..Emily said that Fred told her that he really likes me. There may have been some signs..but I'm not sure like exactly how guys flirt. So..Since it was Halloweekends at Cedar Point we went through lots of haunted houses. a.)Fred always let me hold on to his arm and he held onto mine when we went through them.
b.) As humiliating as it may seem, I tried running from this freaky guy and I tripped and fell (lmao) and people started laughing. Fred told everyone to stop laughing and like stood up for me.
c.) Fred rode on every single ride with me. (Until yesterday I had never gone on a rollercoaster and he kept insisting that I go on every ride with him.)
Are these signs?? Because when people ask if he likes me he doesn't deny it..and Emily said that he wanted to ask me to be his girlfriend. It's not that I don't trust Emily or anything it's just that..y'know..friends mess around with you like that!
Any help is greatly appriciated =]
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well if i were you i would hang out with him a little bit more..ya kno to get to get to kno him! and than if you really like him ask him yourself!
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Yea, I think those are signs that he likes you. If he asks you out, you don't have to say yes. You could just get to know him and see how things go from there.
Hope I helped!
Ke
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It sounds as if he likes you. It was great that he stood up for you. That alone is a pretty good sign.
I think you should give him a try. If you had fun and got along pretty well it is worth it i think. Good luck. :)
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first make a good relationship if you get that down then start going out with him see how long it lasts then you ashould be all right but mainly just tell him how you feel start getting intimate or watever your choice then go and ask him out if he says yes your all that and a bag of chips!! yay!!! good luck!
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From what I observed, it seems that your friend Fred is interested in pursuing a close relationship with you. What gives it away is the haunted house. Even if haunted houses are ritual with your friends, he comes along and uses it as an excuse to physically contact with you. Basically he's strapping on the white knight in shining armor big time and is probably counting the points he's scored with you. He goes on to defend you with his big, strong words and takes you on an adrenaline pumped afternoon with him. It's good that you spotted these flags going up everywhere. There is a possibility that Fred is just a nice guy but it looks like his actions were earnest. Freddy's worth pursuing anyhoo, even if he wasn't looking for a cat at the other end of that tail ;)
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i think you should try to build a good friendship with him first, basically because you guys juss met. i mean, some people have great first impressions, but they change. not saying he's not a good guy, but you want to get to know him better. of course you can't decide if you like him er not, & he's probably juss attracted to you a lot. you can't really like someone when you juss met them, other than attraction. you guys could grow to like each other, & that's when you could move into the more bf/gf relationship. if you guys started to hang out more, you'll start to learn more about each other & then you both can decide on how you really feel. talk this over with him.
-hope that helped!♥
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i think he likes you. from everything you said he did yesterday and sure seems like he has a thing for. my advice get your mind striaght and think about it. think if you like him or not. yea i noe you guys just meet yesterday but you can still work it out by callin him up and talkin to him. dont go out with him if you really dont knwo if you like him. unless you are like 60% sure that you do and then you can get all the facts togeher and see if you like him or not. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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"Fred" is definately into you! you should go for it! flirt with him and you know he's yours. I dont think your friend emily is playing with you. he showed you himself that he likes you.
good luck, hon.
SassyCat~
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Okay well from what you told me that Fred was doing to you i would say that he definetely likes you. Yea, friends do fool around like that and i don't know Fred or Emily but from what you told me I can say he definitely has a thing for you.
*Hope i helped*
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