I am completely blunt. Unlike the ignorant adults who feel like they are keeping you safe by "sugar coding" the truth. I'm going to tell you how it is.
I have been on my own since i turned 18. I have the brady bunch family on the outside, and the Osbournes on the inside.
despite overcoming a drug addiction at the age of 16, I later found my place in this world, Helping others. If you want the TRUTH talk to me.
I'm not mean or rude, i just say what's real! check out my web page and see what type of person I am.
E-mail: Amanda_vann2005@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Age: 18
AIM: strafish72204
Member Since: September 11, 2005
Answers: 47
Last Update: October 8, 2005
Visitors: 3608
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I'm so depressed my girl left me and I didn't really make many friends when I moved here from NC what can I do to cheer up or meet new friends? (link)
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i'm really sorry to read that your girlfriend broke up with you. I know that a broken heart will take time to heal. esecially when you truely loved that special person.
The best thing you should do is get back out there. Find the spot in your area where kids hang out at. I know that it will be hard to introduce your self to new people, but its somthing that you need to do. Its your only solution to having your heart healed.
my heart goes out to you. Good Luck!
SassyCat~
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(sorry this is really long)
Yesterday I went to Cedar Point with one of my really good friends for her birthday. She introduced me to one of her guy friends, let's call him Fred. So at Cedar Point there was Me, my good friend named Emily, Fred, TK and two other people. Well..Emily said that Fred told her that he really likes me. There may have been some signs..but I'm not sure like exactly how guys flirt. So..Since it was Halloweekends at Cedar Point we went through lots of haunted houses. a.)Fred always let me hold on to his arm and he held onto mine when we went through them.
b.) As humiliating as it may seem, I tried running from this freaky guy and I tripped and fell (lmao) and people started laughing. Fred told everyone to stop laughing and like stood up for me.
c.) Fred rode on every single ride with me. (Until yesterday I had never gone on a rollercoaster and he kept insisting that I go on every ride with him.)
Are these signs?? Because when people ask if he likes me he doesn't deny it..and Emily said that he wanted to ask me to be his girlfriend. It's not that I don't trust Emily or anything it's just that..y'know..friends mess around with you like that!
Any help is greatly appriciated =] (link)
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"Fred" is definately into you! you should go for it! flirt with him and you know he's yours. I dont think your friend emily is playing with you. he showed you himself that he likes you.
good luck, hon.
SassyCat~
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sry about the length but i need help!
ok well my mom and dad are divorced and my dad lives in west virginia and i go see him every other weekend..and i HATE going down there with a passion!
my dad is a very mean person, he cam be obusive at times but not towards me.. towards his ex-wife whcih are now just boyfriend girlfriend. well last weekend i did not want to go and alot happend he said something horrible.
my gram died a little over a year ago and him and my mom were fighting and he said "why dont you go die like ur mother did" and i flipped i dont thinik i've ever cried so much in my life.
well my mom says that i have to go one more time until she can get an attorney and go to court so i dont have to go down.
but i dont want to go down now esspecially now that, that happend. b/c i know he's gonna flip.
so what should i do? (link)
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It's definately important to take your safety in consideration. If you have a cell phone make sure the battery is fully charged. any moment that you feel like your life is being threatened, don't hesitate to dial 911. By court you have to go to your dads house unless they say other wise. be strong. Whether or not you believe in prayers. You have mine.
wish you the best~
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Ok me and my ex broke up last tuesday. yesterday me and him got into a big arguement and now he hates me. but now I miss him a lot and i dont know what to do anymore.. I dont want to miss him but its hard not to because hes my next door neighbor.... and yeah, so im lost. he has a new gf and not to sound concided but he went from a girl (me) who is rated about a 9 to a girl who is about a 4 or 5 and I picked on him for that but im just really jealous and i have to walk home with him every day!! HELP ME!! what do i do?! we used to argue everyday because i used to say he doesnt care but i realized he does!! omg im really confused!! please help and what can i do to get him back?!
Signed,
i miss him. (link)
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you should have no problem not liking him anymore. He is with someone else, and as i see it, he really wasn't all that into you if he was able to jump back on the saddle after a few days of your break up.
As for the girl that's a four. maybe she posesses a quality that maybe you need to work on. That's why he went to her b/c you just don't have what he really needs.
Definately don't let that discourage you. revamp your your inner beauty to match your outer. true romance is will return before you know it.
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Ugh I'm sick of it, my mom is seriously obsessed with sleeping pills. I'm really worried about her. Shr doesn't sleep if she doesn't take them and she doesn't sleep when she does take them. I already told her whats the point of taking the pills if you cant sleep and you can't sleep if you don't take any.
I think i want to bring to a drug rehab center.. Just because i'm worried about her. I want her to be with me for a really long time. Any ideas on how I can make her stop taking them?? She doesn't listen to me when I tell her to stop taking them.. (link)
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speeking from my own experiences, you can't just say,"hey mom, i think you need to go to rehab", because then she will relapse. she has to want to go for her self.
Do what my parents did for me. They raided my room and found anything and everything that i did. sleeping pill, pipes, bongs..etc.
So you should collect all of her pills. she may not think that she is completely deppendent on the pills. So help her see that she isn't independent from them.
When she can see that she has a problem, you can possibly help her realise that she does indeed have an addiction.
You should definately let her decide if she needs help. you don't want to push her anything she will later falling through on.
good luck~
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Ok I think Im fat and im only 13 and I know I shouldn't be worrying about that but I do. Im not fat fat but a little overwieght. I dont want to go on a crash diet cuz those or just stupid. Ive tried exersising and I cant keep up with it. Ive tried eating less snacks but I love food to much. What is a good way to lose wieght ill do anything. thanx (link)
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You and i are the exact same way! I hate to excercise. I can do it every now and then, but i have to be really pumped up.
I have been losing alot of weight lately.
You should drop all carbonated beverages.
Drink nothing but water for Breakfast, Lunch, and dinner.
You will find you appetite decreasing, but not to an unhealthy level.
Your urin some days will be clear, but some days not.
Your body will take more than 72 hours clear.
Eat protine..Meat and peanuts.
Try to lay off the bread if you can help it.
For a sweet tooth: try to get a snack that is 140 calories or less.
check on the web or do it your self. see how many calories you take in per day. Cut that in half.
Good luck!
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okay i like this boy and tomorrow he wants to hang out and watch the oc.The problem is he wants me to come over but i cant untill he comes over to my house first(parents rules) but i think thats stupid and i dont want to be a fag or thinking its boring and my parents being gay. I dont know what to do i want my parents to say i can go over to his house cause i dont see what the problem is. I dont know what to do!! (link)
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order some pizza and tell him to go to your house. you just going to watch T.V. right. besides, it's your first time to really hang out. Take it slow. Tell him your parents are really cool, and they don't care if he is there.
Tell your mom (she should understand), to let ya'll have your privacy, but if she wants to check up on you every now and then thats fine.
It lets' her know that you aren't embarassed of her. It also says that you wont do anything that she wouldn't be able to trust you.
next time you should be able to go to his house.
I hoped I have helped!
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I'm a sophomore, and I'm strictly against the whole freshman-dating-upperclassmen-thing. But there's this kid in my class that I'm kinda into, and he's a freshman. I really want to hook up with him but I'm hesitant, ideas? (link)
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The thing is, your in high school now. what grade your in, doesn't matter. Now if you were a freshman liking an 8th grader, that would be different. Go for it!
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I need advice on how I can start a petition. I need to know how I officially and legally start it and who do I present it to. How do I organize it? As you can see from my title, the purpose of the petition would be to have some sort of ruling against out-ruling the pledge of allegiance in schools or changing it.
Anyways, do you think because of 'under God' that after over 200 years, the pledge should be changed or withdrawn from any school. Why or why not? Thanks in advance. (link)
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Now days after september 11, 2001, we were forced to stand up every morning and pledge alligence to our country. However, to those students who did not want to stand, have the option to get present a note to the princiaple requesting to not say the alligence.
Your petition will most likliy be over ruled by the state, because of the fact we have the right to make our own decisions. We don't have to stand if we don't want to.
What your trying to do is ban it all together. What about the people who want to stand. Should they have a say so in whether or not they want to pledge?
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Is there any way for a girl (19) to elongate, or intensify her orgasm during oral sex?? Thanks. (link)
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well, truthfully I have no idea. I know that they have created warming sensations for women that are flavored for men. The heat is suppose to intensify the orgasm.
You can try to going to Spencers gifts. Or sexy underwear store.
spencers.com
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is there any way to boost your sex drive?
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how old are you? You should have no problem with your sex drive if you are a healthy men/woman under the age of 30.
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I am 13 Male
When my best friend (a girl a have a crush on) asks me a question about if she should go out with a certain boy whose side should i be on...
should i be on her side and say " Oh ya definitaly go out w/ him.
Or should i be on my side and be like "uh No you should stop looking at a ever other F ing boy but me.
Im sorry if this ? Seems dumb but i need advice hense me coming to this website
I rate Fives
PLEASE i am desparate (link)
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Tell her how you feel. the worse thing is rejection. You two will still have your friendship. If you really like her than tell her. If you don't tell her, it will make you feel more uncomfortable when she speaks of other guys.
Follow your heart~
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Ok I was planning to go to school about an hour away from my girlfriend, but in a last minute effort I decided to stay at home and go to school with her. I was transferring to play ball and this is my second year sitting out. I feel like I'm missing something. I can go without thinking about playing, but sometimes I think about what it would be like to be on my team and what would it be like to play college basketball. My question is simple, Should I get in contact with my coach and try to go away? I really don't want to leave her, but I miss ball so much. We just got back together after we broke up for about 3 weeks. I don't want to jeopardize anything right now. I really don't know what to do... (link)
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Go for your dream. You don't want to be one of those people who think about "what could have been". if you two are truely inlove, than you two will be together.
You can see her when you come home on weekends and when she really needs you, you can be there in an hour.
She can be there as well.
Good luck~
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Is there a site out there where you could do a spellcheck? My thingy on my comp doesnt work and i just want to use a site... not download anything...?/ (link)
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Dictionary.com
It's great! hope I've helped.
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Im 13 and i really like this guy Brandon and hes a friend of mine but he liked my best friend until she said no when he asked her out. I have a boyfriend but I like Brandon more and hes really cute and i really want him to like me so what should I do? Im also a girl. (link)
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Your guy friend liked your bestfriend. She turned him down. So now, if you dated him. You would be her "sloppy seconds", "Picking up her scraps".
You may like this boy, but if he liked you, he would have asked you out instead of your friend.
I know that's really harsh to say, but you deserve better, any woman does.
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Hello!
My name's amy, and I was just going through a question about jobs when the girl was 14. My question was, is it really possible to work at IHOP? I'm 15, and I really wanted to get a job but didn't think you could especially there at such a young age.
Please get back to me.
Thanks a lot.
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Hey, you definately can work at IHOP. Of coarse you can't wait on tables and you can't work at the registar. You could possibly be the hostess as well as a busser.
You should be very careful. You don't want to seem like a child walking into a business.
I took the liberty of making a few phone calls in my area to several different IHOP's. Each IHOP gave me different numbers for the age they start to hire.
Walk in there like you have worked before and be confident. You'll do great. Good luck!
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Why can almost no-one on Advicenators spell correctly? It isn't really that hard, and don't use the excuse that people are young, because I'm not at all old and I can spell without too many mistakes, or none at all. (link)
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The thing is, people make mistakes. no one is perfect. So if someone doesn't spell correctly, who cares. Also, it doesn't matter how old you are. You can be 30 and still make writing errors.
You aren't perfect, and I'm sure you definately make alot of writing mistakes.
Think before you ask.
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I am 14/f and I really need to start making money of my own. I'm sick of getting it from my parents. I mean I will probably still get a little bit from them but at least some of it needs to be my own. I know babysitting and I have done that before but how do I get people like parents to know that I do that? AND what are some other jobs I can do? Much appreciated. I'll rate high.... (link)
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Parents need a responsible person to watch their children. You are old enough to take CPR classes.
When completed the coarse, post fliers stating that you are CPR certified. That looks great when parents need a babysitter.
You are also old enough to bus tables at IHOP.
You make decent tips. it make a great part time job.
I hope I've helped!
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my boyfriend hasnt called me in like 4-5 days.all my friends say that he isnt grounded so that means that he can talk on the phone!i dont know if this means that he wants to break up or what.we have been together fo 5 months and we have had our good days but there has been some bad ones too!!! what should i do???
plzzzzzzzzz help meeeeeee!!!!!!!!
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Definately call him up. if he isn't home ask his mom or who ever if there was any way you can contact him. If you can't do that then dump him. if he can't be honest with you then there shouldn't be a reason why you should be with him.
Good luck~ =)
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alright, so i really like this kid from my church, and he knows i like him and all..but we never talk when i see him, i guess it is cause i dont know what to say , but whenever were in a group and im there he seems to walk away, or maybe it seems it to me?..i really want to at least have a friendship with him..what do i do?
ill rate high for good answers that help! (link)
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Try just talking to him. maybe he's shy knowing you like him. whether or not he feels the same way, make known you want his friendship first.
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