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Her again how do i talk to her
I am 13 Male
When my best friend (a girl a have a crush on) asks me a question about if she should go out with a certain boy whose side should i be on...
should i be on her side and say " Oh ya definitaly go out w/ him.
Or should i be on my side and be like "uh No you should stop looking at a ever other F ing boy but me.
Im sorry if this ? Seems dumb but i need advice hense me coming to this website
I rate Fives
PLEASE i am desparate
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look if it all goes down hill with the other guy you should be they for her, let her know that you care for her and she will see that the guy she's been looking for was right in front of her. oh and do some reseach on the guy. if he turns out to be a jack ass you should tell her that. and one more thing don, try and get rid of him or she'll probobly get really pissed off at you.
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Say what you feel. If you don't want her to go out with a guy, say that. And if you like her, ask her out. You'll never know what'll happen. Good luck! Hope I helped!
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A lover is one who will worry about the girl's needs, not his own. You want her, no doubt. However, you also know that she wants another boy. She would be more happier with that boy than you, just because it is what she wants. If that's the case, you support her decision. Let her know that she should go with that boy. Then, after the relationship is done, and you are ready to ask her out, let her know of the sacrafices you have made. Let her know that you gave her up for her own happiness. It would be romantic.
-Steven
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well you can tell her that you sorta like her
hope i helped
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Talking to her sounds like the thing to do.. i would suggest telling this girl you like that you do like her.. ask her what she thinks about you and her and about you liking her.. maybe even explain to her why you like her like how you like her personality,how she is towards you,how shes your best friend and even her looks.. that way she knows your serious.. if she knows how you feel and how you like her she might stop doing that to you.. **im glad to hear that when she does talk about a guy you dont get mad and become an asshole like some guys would** If she changes guys very often you also might not want to go with her cuz you could end up getting hurt.. ♥ Dez
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Tell her your feelings is what I would suggest. Maybe she doesn't know.
To answer your actual question, tell her your opinion. If you don't like the guy, tell her no, and explain why. If you like him, then say yes.
♥ Melissa
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hmm well i have kinda of had that same problem accept the opposite i like a guy that was my friend and well my advice to i guess is just play around and be like well if you cant find anyone you always have me see what she says and if she asks you about another guy say you dont know thats what i do but i dont know thats all i got...
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Hey. The next time she talks to you about guys, and needs advice, just be like, why dont you go out with me. Unless, you think you two would be better as friends. But anyways, give her good advice if she asks about a guy, if he's an ass then tell her dont go out with him, but if he's nice then tell her to. This question wasnt dumb at all hun. Just, let her know that you like her,you'll regret it if you dont. Good luck.
~Brina
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Support her. For a couple of reasons.
1. The best happiness is to see someone you care about happy. If you really care about someone, you'll let them be with who they want. It's like in Pirates of the Caribbean, Norrington isn't all "nooo Elizatbeth, be with meeee!"
2. Never tell a girl to stop looking at other boys. Would you stop looking at other girls? No, I really doubt you would. She's not your property, and when you tell her to only look at you, that's completely making her an object!
3. Crushes come and go. She will like a guy and then move onto a completely different one the next week. And you'll move on as well.
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Both. How you ask me? Well, I think you should just say to her "Look, just to tell you, I have a crush on you. But it's your choice. You choose who you want. But you mean so much to me."
That should do the trick.
The worst thing that can happen is that she totaly freaks out. But if you guys are best friends, I think she will understand.
-Sk8trash
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Well lil chico, this is where you need to stand up and give her a hint that "yeah, I like you". If your not sure on how to do this or want to put this off until you know for sure she's ready for it and doesn't have feelings for any other boy, your best bet is to mention any flaws you see in the boys she likes. However, if she's a real sweetheart, she'll say "she'll accept them for who they are." This is the moment when you have to say something.
You say she's your bestfriend, and to us females, friendships are practically the most imporant things to us. She may see you as only a bestfriend, and you have to, no matter what, accept this.
Your not asking how to talk to her, your asking or trying to figure out a way to get her to quit looking at other guys, however, she's looking at other guys and not you because your very special to her. Your one of her bestfriends, she most likely doesn't look at you like that.
Try what I said, and get back at me when your ready or think its finally time to amount to letting her know how you feel.
Most likely, you expressing yourself will scare her or shock her, be careful.
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Tell her how you feel. the worse thing is rejection. You two will still have your friendship. If you really like her than tell her. If you don't tell her, it will make you feel more uncomfortable when she speaks of other guys.
Follow your heart~
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