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i cant believe him
my boyfriend hasnt called me in like 4-5 days.all my friends say that he isnt grounded so that means that he can talk on the phone!i dont know if this means that he wants to break up or what.we have been together fo 5 months and we have had our good days but there has been some bad ones too!!! what should i do???
plzzzzzzzzz help meeeeeee!!!!!!!!
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If he hasn't called that doesn't really mean that he wants to break it off. I mean I know that when I went out with his guy for a bout a year, and we saw each other EVERY day, it got to be a little much. So maybe he needs some air or he's been busy. But the first thing to do is ask him if you are that worried, but if not then just call him. But try not to jump the gun and think he wants to break it for or is cheating, because 9 times out of 10, it's all in your head. And don't just sit around wanting for him, go out with friends, have fun and make him wonder what you're doing.
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Um.. try calling HIM?! Expecially if you think that you guys might be broken up, you can at least call and ask. Just talk and if it seems weird then be like "So what's going on with us now?" Good luck!
♥ Melissa
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You could call him, you know. My guy and I have been together for almost 2 years and there are times he doesn't call me for like a week. Then I call him, ask him what's going on, and he tells me how incredibly busy he's been.
No phone call for a few days means either he's busy, he forgot, his parents won't let him call you (do you talk every day? They might be annoyed with that, or something), or something's wrong relationshipwise, in which case you really do need to talk to him.
Before you jump to any conclusions, hear his side of the story and find out if he has a valid reason for not calling you. Yes, forgetting IS a valid reason. I get busy and forget to call my boy, and I love him with all my heart.
So, call him - if he's not there, leave a message with someone (or with a machine) telling him you want to talk to him, or you're worried about him, since you haven't talked to him in a few days.(Either one works. "I want to talk to you about something" might make him nervous, though.)
One last note - it takes two to make relationships work. You've got to BOTH work at them. Maybe he just wants you to call him for once.
In any case, I hope this helps! Good luck with your boy.
-Siren =)
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Definately call him up. if he isn't home ask his mom or who ever if there was any way you can contact him. If you can't do that then dump him. if he can't be honest with you then there shouldn't be a reason why you should be with him.
Good luck~ =)
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