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I miss him..
Ok me and my ex broke up last tuesday. yesterday me and him got into a big arguement and now he hates me. but now I miss him a lot and i dont know what to do anymore.. I dont want to miss him but its hard not to because hes my next door neighbor.... and yeah, so im lost. he has a new gf and not to sound concided but he went from a girl (me) who is rated about a 9 to a girl who is about a 4 or 5 and I picked on him for that but im just really jealous and i have to walk home with him every day!! HELP ME!! what do i do?! we used to argue everyday because i used to say he doesnt care but i realized he does!! omg im really confused!! please help and what can i do to get him back?!
Signed,
i miss him.
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Dear I Miss Him,
If you have to walk home from school with him everyday, there's your opportunity to talk to him about your relationship. Just say, "Hey ____, I sorry about our fight, and I hope we can stay friends. Is that okay with you?" and if he says yes, bring up his girlfriend and try to be like "Well, I wish you two wouldn't have started going out because I really miss you." Hopefully he'll get the picture and you guys can work something out.
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I am sorry darling but I'm sure he had a good reason for going from a 9 to a 5.
On that note, comparing and teasing his new girlfriend is probably not a great way to win back his love and affection.
Take this lesson to heart, treat someone with love and respect and they will treat you the same way. Trust someone, and they will trust you.
Argue with someone, distrust them, and insult thier girlfriend and they probably wont like you much.
At this point, treat the ex with kindess and respect, you probably wont capture his heart, but you'll be a better person for it.
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For starters, I think you may be obsessed. Teasing his new girlfriend is probably not the best way to get back into his heart.
You never know what you had until it's gone has never been so true in your case.
There's not much you can do except to tell him how you feel. You really can't force him to be with you again, and laying it on thick could irratate him more to the point where he's just going to really hate you.
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ex relationships are difficult. since you guys aren't dating anymore, you can't really try to get back together since he has a gf. try to ignore him as best you can. i know you probably don't want to, but you guys are exs so if you talk to him a lot, you'll want to be with him more & that shouldn't happen. i don't think ex relationships work out that much anyway. basically you're exs for a reason. don't be jealous. he might juss be making you jealous on purpose er maybe he'll see that she isn't the one for him. try to look for someone else so they can keep your mind off of him. if he truly cared about you, he wouldn't automatically find another gf. juss relax and go with it. you guys can be friends, don't get me wrong, but try not to talk all the time. it will help you in the long run.
-hope that helped!♥
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you should have no problem not liking him anymore. He is with someone else, and as i see it, he really wasn't all that into you if he was able to jump back on the saddle after a few days of your break up.
As for the girl that's a four. maybe she posesses a quality that maybe you need to work on. That's why he went to her b/c you just don't have what he really needs.
Definately don't let that discourage you. revamp your your inner beauty to match your outer. true romance is will return before you know it.
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