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cheating or not?
the thing is, people are telling me my boyfriend is cheating on me ..he has been doing stuff with other people when he went out with other girls.. whenever i talk to him about him cheating on me he always walks away and doesnt talk to me.. i dont know what to do! he says he didnt cheat on me but he lies! what do i do.. i love him so much
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If he won't answer the question, there's definitely something up. People who avoid questions, don't have the answer you want to her.
Hope that helps.
Only other suggestion is get some tip offs on where he supposedly takes these "other girls" and try to catch him in the act.
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i think u should dump him and find a better guy that wont cheat on u !!!!!!!!!!!
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well you should keep trying to talk to him.. and talk to your friends who have been saying this about him and like ask them to kind of keep an eye on him.. like not spy but ya you know what i mean.. and if it dos'nt work just tell him that you dont want to be with somebody who is cheating on you.. and if he is your too good for him you deserve someone better... hope i helped..
*k La*
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At least you could find it in yourself to ask him. That is step one. If he feels the need to walk away from you then you need to walk away from him. I understand that you love him, but is this kind of stress worth it?
You need total trust in your relationship. If he can't tell you "No, I would never cheat on you." Then I'd have to say something's wrong.
If you were being obsessed about it he could find it annoying and that could be why he's walking away. Reguardless, us girls need some reassurance in our men. I say the next time you see him say "Look, give me an answer now or get out of my life." He owes that to you.
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Let him go honey I know you luv him but you have to. Guys like that arent worth it. You have to have dignity and pride. You're wasting your time. Take care
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if you say you love him then you will what's right for you so you won't get hurt
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Chances are those people are most likely telling you the truth, especially if he did the same when with his other girlfriends. The fact that he cant face you when you ask him, says it all too!
I know you probably do love him, but do you want to be with someone that lies and cheats? If a guy cant be open and honest with his girlfriend, then he obviously doesnt care about her. I mean hes not even trying to defend himself!
I would talk to him about what people are telling you, and if he blows it off like its nothing, then i guess its youre call.
No matter how many people tell you to end it, youre not gonna listen to them anyway!
When someone lies and cheats, hes not capable of loving (at least not right now) If he truly loved you, he would be open and honest, not be immature and just walk away.
The longer you stay in the situation, the harder itll be to move on! Because guys like that dont change until they mature, and realize what love truly is.
So right now youre just another girl hes dating. A guy thats "in love" will never hurt the 1 he loves.
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