I'm a twenty year old chick from Wisconsin. I could sit here and ramble on about my life, but I'm not going to. I'll spare you the boring details. God knows we've seen one too many profiles with "OMG, I HAVE A BOYFRIEND. AND A DOG. GOD I LOVE THEM BOTH, I CANT CHOOSE WHO I LOVE MORE. IM SO COOL. I LOVE MY FRIENDS. SHOUTOUTS LYKE THX!"
So lets cut to the chase, I'm only here becuase a friend reffered me and I have a knack of giving advice. I'm very blunt and in no way am I going to paint some pretty picture and tell you things that you want to hear.
Have fun kids.
Gender: Female
Age: 20
Member Since: September 21, 2005
Answers: 184
Last Update: December 20, 2005
Visitors: 8544
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I get mad sometimes because I don't like how my family talks to me sometimes. It's like they are critizising me all the time for doing little things. How do I stop getting mad at them? They would tell my they don't mean anything on what they said. How can I find other advice sites that is like charity supported or government on the internet? (link)
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You have to learn how to ignore it or just take it as a joke. Any kind of negative criticism isn't good. They shouldn't be saying things that can poteintially hurt your feelings, even if they don't mean to.
I'd just tell them to knock it off, that you don't appriciate the things they say to you and if they're going to talk to you like that then just don't bother talking to you at all.
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I was talking to my boyfriend on the phone tonight and just casually he guessed what his gift was and he didn’t sound all that pleased. What makes it worse is that he asked if he had guessed right and I blurted out No, just because I was scared and upset!
I’m a little panicked. I thought I had a good idea but he sounded really unimpressed…
I’m totally lost as to what to do now! Should I try and get something else? Or just go with it and admitted I didn’t tell the truth?! (link)
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The bad thing with Christmas is that people try way too hard to please someone else. He should be happy that you got him anything at all. I'd tell him, yes, I got you this. I thought you'd like it. I mean, you were thinking of him when you bought it. And the saying "The thought that counts," may sound corny and overused by it's true.
If he doesn't like it, I'd say too bad. If he really isn't that thrilled about it tell him he can take it back himself.
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Ever since sophomore year in high school a group of friends and I have always gone to South Padre for spring break. We're all sophomores in college now so this year is going to be our 5th. Well I have another friend that isn't apart of our group and she's going to Italy for spring break this year and asked me to come along.
Now, I'm not sure who to go with. I know what you're thinking though, "Italy, what an opportunity" But, I just went over the summer so it's not like a big deal. So should I just say no and go to South Padre?
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Personally because I've never been to Italy I'd probably go there - but if you've already went why break tradition with your friends?
I'd go down to South Padre and just have a goodtime with your group of people. It's probably more fun with a group then one single person anywho.
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Am I good to go with a tampon and a thong? (link)
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Depends on how heavy you're bleeding. You should be alright if you're changing it regulary.
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What do people mean when they say "opposites attract"? Is this statement true? (link)
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I think Paula Abdul explains this best.
Lets say you hate smoking, but someone likes it.
You like drinking, that someone doesn't.
Quiet - loud.
Those are all opposites. Sometimes being with someone opposite of you works becuase they make up a person you aren't..
But in my expierence dating someone the complete opposite never works.
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I'm sixteen years old, I finally have a boyfriend. lol. We've been together for two & a half weeks. My mom doesn't know about him yet. He & two best friends keep telling me to tell my mom, but I don't know how to come out and just say it. She used to not want me to have a boyfriend a few years ago. I think she might have changed her mind about that but I'm not sure. I want to tell her soon though so I don't have people telling me to do it. So, does anyone have ideas about what I could say or do? I was thinking about writing her an email. Thanks. :) (link)
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Don't write an email. You need to be straight forward with her. I know that it's hard sometimes to tell people something like that face to face, but it would show her that you're a responsible person and you are responsible enough to date a guy - as where an email would say you're afraid of comming out and telling her things and you don't want to send her that message becuase she'll have about a million other thoughts about what you're afraid to tell her.
So, while having dinner one night just tell her. Say that you met this guy, and he's really nice and you're dating him. She'll probably want to meet him, but before she even asks to you should probably suggest it first. Say something like "Hey, how about I invite him over for dinner one night so you can meet him." This will really show her that you have confidence in your relationship and that you're really not trying to keep anything in the closet.
And her being able to meet him as well will make her feel a lot more comfortable with you dating, if she doesn't feel that comfortable already.
And I know that it's not really all that 'cool' to invite your boyfriend over for dinner to meet your parents. But you'd be showing them a lot of respect and how much of an adult you can be about dating.
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this guy that like me and i like him didn't like me anymore for some reason and is talking bad about me. i still like him but i really wanna go out with him but he is going out with another girl. i really really like him and i don't know what i did he told my firned that when i lefted from her house he didn't like me anymore. that is weird he likes me 10 minuntes he doesn't. (link)
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Maybe it's your grammar.
More importantly if he is talking bad about you, why even give him the time of day? Why would you want to be with a guy who talks bad about you.. likes you one minute then the next he doesn't?
Just think, if you got into a relationship with him, what if he's happy going out with you one minute, then the next he wants to break up with you? See, this leaves you heartbroken.
And if he's going out with another girl that can only mean trouble. If he were to leave her, for you.. or date you behind her back and she found out it could make your school life a living heck. Believe me. Girls are vicious little creatures who will backstab and get revenge on you through whatever means.
I'd forget about him and find some other guy.
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I'm 14 years old, and there is this guy at my school that I have a crush on. I'm pretty sure he only likes me as a friend(for now). I'm trying to get him to like me more than just a friend. So, he has asked me to hang out with him and acouple friends two or three times, but whenever he askes me I always have plans already. Now he thinks I don't want to hang out with him. What do I do? I'm not really supposed to be hanging out with boys(my rents r really strict bout that kinda stuff) So how do I hang out with him and not have my parents find out? -parents suck (link)
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You have to remember that your parents don't want you hanging around boys becuase they don't want you getting hurt at that age, a lot of parents think that their kids aren't responsible enough to handle a relationship with a male.. wether it be romantic or not.. so they just banish them away.
Rather than hiding a guy from your parents you should prove to them that you are a responsible young lady. Okay, so if that doesn't work then you always have the excuse that you're just going over to a girlfriend's house.. when you're really hanging out with a guy.. just make sure the girlfriend in question knows your plan so it doesn't backfire on you.
He might already like you more as a friend if he's sad about you not hanging out with him. He might have gotten the wrong idea. Sometimes girls will make up tons of excuses to not hang out with someone, and even though you're probably telling him in truth.. he might think you're lying. Why not try to include him into some of your already made plans? Ask him if he wants to come with you if you're already going to the mall or something with another friend.
Better yet, next time he asks you to do something with him and your busy explain to him what you're doing and such and then ask if you can do whatever it is with him on Monday, or Tuesday. So then your plans are all set and such.
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So I help this first grader who doesn't speak English very well (he's Korean)to learn how to read/speak English better. His mom picks out 4-5 short books and gives me a notebook and a pen, and I basically just go to a seperate room with the kid and read to him and write down any words he doesn't understand. Sometimes I try to make him read out loud, as well. Problem? He seems to really hate these "classes" if you can call it that. He always asks me why he has to do this, and tells me he just wants to play instead. He's very uncooperative, and refuses to listen to me and just goes and does his own thing. I don't know what to do! If I tell his mom, she'll think I'm not helping him and ask me not to come anymore, and the money is quite good so I don't want to lose the job! Does anyone know any ways to make the classes more fun and stuff and make him enjoy them more... or at least dread them a little less?
(Not sure if its relevant but 15/F) (link)
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You have to remember, he's young so of course he's going to want all play and no work. What about during the lesson you guys take a break to play a game if he's been good and he works hard? Like a board game or a computer game.
Or why not try a reward system? When I was young we had charts with our progress and each time we did really good we got a little star sticker. After so many star stickers we'd get something cool.. or at least something cool to someone that young. Like candy, a coloring book, just something small that's not very costly but would spark the interest of a youngin.
When you're reading have you tried using different voices too? I know it sounds silly but if you have different characters try changing up the voices they make so it sounds more interesting and keeps him all interested as well.
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i wanna get my girlfriend something nice for the holidays. i want to spend around 15-30 dollars. any ideas? (link)
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Movies, CDs, A card with some roses and a stuffed animal, a shirt, books if she likes reading, games(PC, Board, Card).
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i dont really want a site, but can someone just tell me..who was malcolm x? i was watching trading spouses and the family got mad because the caucasion mother didnt know who he was thanks bye (link)
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A guy that thought he was a black revoulutionist against the white folk.
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I think i did soemthing wrong, well i know its wrong...i just need someone to tell me...what i should do after i just did something....i just drank a few sips of voldka...my dad is sleeping and everyone else was out at the bar...so i figured i'd try it....how should i feel now?
TooYoungToDrink (link)
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If you only just took a few sips you should be alright. I don't know anyone who got extremely sick or anything from a couple of sips of vodka.
If you don't want anyone to know you were drinking the fist thing I would suggest is brushing your teeth and tongue to get the alcoholic smell out.
Secondly, it never hurts to eat crackers or a piece of bread or something. If you're really worried about maybe getting tipsy then the bread stuff should soak up the alcohol faster.
In your position I would feel alright, just.. the same as I normally would on a day to day basis. Sometimes your mind can really play with you and you can think that you're tipsy.. or a little on edge but you're probably not.
You'll be okay.
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Ok so i havw this freind. and we always say that we are going out... its a joke but sometimes we will touch e/o and stuff. my other freinds do the same. so, today she touched me like kinda near my vagina area and i think i got horny and all excited. does this mean i'm a lezbian? does it mean we are lezbians? please answer.. i'll rate fives! (link)
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It just means that all your hormones are in check. A lesbian is someone who only likes girls. Someone who is bisexual likes both genders and is attracted and turned on by the two.
So if you felt turned on and horny that most likely means that you are indeed either a lesbian or bisexual. And they are perfectly normal feelings to have, no worries if anyone tells you different. They're just closed minded.
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i dont think my bf honestly likes me i think he just wants me to give him head,well the only reason i think he is going out wit me is b/c i gave his friend head and he fingured me and all that stuff b/c he was my x and i think his friend told him we did all that stuff and thats all he wants from me is to have sex but, how do i no if he likes me or if he just wants to have sex? PLEASE help! (link)
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I think the best way to find it out is to take all the sexual stuff out of the picture. Just tell him you want to cool it for a while, if he gets mad and starts avoiding you - then you'll know he was just using you.
He could get mad and still understand and respect your decision, if he does, that should be enough to tell you that he is somewhat into you. Try to suggest doing some other things, see if he is having a fun time with you. If he is.. then it should be okay, and you will be able to tell if he's just faking it to get on your good side to get some later.
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Ok I have been going out with my girlfriend for a little over a month. a couple days ago i was hanging out with one of my female friends and she pretty randomly kissed me. i pushed her off of me almost imediately, and we talked about it afterwards and were ok with it now and are still friends. here is where it gets a little more complicated. this is a girl that i used to have very deep feelinfs for. i wouldnt quite call it love, but it was close. i never told her, because she was for various reasons unavailable and i got over her. then i met my current gf and fell for her. now my gf knows that i used to like this girl, and she was ok with me being friends with her. now my worry is if i tell her what happened shell be uncomfortable. i know she would never try and forbid me from handing out with her, because she is one of my best friends, but i know it would make her feel uncomfortable. now because of an age difference (my gf is a little older than me and my friend is a bit younger) they will most likely never meet on their own so my gf would probably never find out. so my question is, should i tell her? (link)
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If you don't tell her and she finds out it's going to put you in even more of a sticky situation. Just be honest with her. You haven't done anything wrong.
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ok. my bf and i just recently broke up. we have a dance coming up and we were going to go. he lives in a different town than me. so we were going to go to his on the 21 and mine on the 22. they changed his to the 22 too. so his mom said he had to go to the one in his town. we have talked only once since the breakup. but we are ok-ish with eachother. we had a hard breakup. when we were talking about his dance. he was like ill take you but i want to wait and see. and i was like if someone else asks you. and he said ya. and i was like ok. and he was like ya but ill most likely take you. and i was like probally not. cuz a lot of girls like you and want to go with you. and he was like o ya i forgot. do you think he just doesnt want to go with me. (link)
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For starters I would be somewhat upset with him becuase of his beating around the bush. What is that? He says that he's going to take you.. but maybe he won't becuase there is some other girl?
He seems to be a waste of time, if he beats around the bush like that.. and I can't put it any better or nicer than this but I don't think he plans on wanting to take you. He's being a jurk and you should look elsewhere for a date at your own school.. then tell him all about it to hear his reaction, see if he gets jealous some :)
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Is it true that if your period is abnormal .. like it is a period that you never expect it to come and it skips a few months .. that you won't be able to have a baby when you get olderI'm 15 and I started my period at March (9 months ago) And I haven't had it since July (5 months ago) And I know there isnt anything wrong with me because my friend is the same way and her doctor said there is nothing wrong with her. And I read articles about your period not getting regular until a year after. But my question is .. Does this mean I won't be able to have kids? Because I want them and I don't want that to happen! (link)
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You should be able to have kids, I wouldn't worry about that too much now though with you being 15. Even though it's horrible times I advise you that after a year of having your period to go to a OBGYN(Gyno) and have them check you out and give you a pap and such, then you can ask them loads of questions and they should be able to give you all the answers you need.
But no worries, your period is just irregular, and you're probably just as fertile enough to have kids.
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I went on a date with this guy that had liked me for a long time.
The date was at a local restaurant. He was starting to look a little bored so I tried to use humour to lighten the mood.
I told him that sometimes my dad shaves his face with an electric razor when he's driving. I thought this was hilarious, and other people that I've told also thought it was quite funny.
Well his reaction? He gave me the dirtiest look and never said a word. I felt really stupid.
But I didnt think what I said was that bad.
Was my date overreacting or did he have a right to look that way? (link)
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It sounds like he was really overreacting. He doesn't seem to have much sense of humor. On my dates a guy can say something that I don't find funny at all but I'll still humor them a little and at least laugh a little.
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Can you pee while having an erection? (link)
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I asked my boyfriend this the other night. He said you can, becuase he's done it before. You just have to bend it a little which hurts some.
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I just began goin out with this girl. I have never liked someone so much, the problem is I don't have alot of cash these days. What is a gift that she might like but won't empty out my wallet? We're both fourteen.
Thanks,
Jeff (link)
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Lets see. Fourteen year old girls...Okay stuff that's not too expensive. A card and some roses? A stuffed animal? A CD or movie that she likes? Yes, I know some of this stuff is lame but trust me.. it has its affects on women.
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