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He thinks I don't want to hang out with him
I'm 14 years old, and there is this guy at my school that I have a crush on. I'm pretty sure he only likes me as a friend(for now). I'm trying to get him to like me more than just a friend. So, he has asked me to hang out with him and acouple friends two or three times, but whenever he askes me I always have plans already. Now he thinks I don't want to hang out with him. What do I do? I'm not really supposed to be hanging out with boys(my rents r really strict bout that kinda stuff) So how do I hang out with him and not have my parents find out? -parents suck
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my girlfriend is always busy. at first i thought she was avoiding me but really she was busy. id say, like for instance if he asked you somewhere but you had a basketball game or something invite him. if he does like you he'll come. im not saying if he doesn't come he doesn't like you. id suggest just asking on a date or something and tell your parents you are going someplace wih your friends. im just here to give my opinion, im not here to run your life you make the decision.
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Hey,
Tell your parents your going to see a movie with a bunch of friends. You can invite him to go with you guys and he could meet you there. Its so easy, ive done it a bunch of times when i was in like 7th grade and my parents didnt let me chill with boys.
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well parents suck i think that you should first explain to ur parents you are responsible to hang out with boys especially if they are friends... obviously since you cant hang out with him beacause you are so busy tell him to call you and you guys can make a day where your not so buys
TRY THAt<3
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pretend that your staying over at a friends house when your really going out with this guy or act more mature and responsible around your parents then pop the question but show that your responsible to say it
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Uhh.. Don't tell your parents. Duh.
And just act really sorry when you say you have other plans. Or you should suggest something for once.
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You have to remember that your parents don't want you hanging around boys becuase they don't want you getting hurt at that age, a lot of parents think that their kids aren't responsible enough to handle a relationship with a male.. wether it be romantic or not.. so they just banish them away.
Rather than hiding a guy from your parents you should prove to them that you are a responsible young lady. Okay, so if that doesn't work then you always have the excuse that you're just going over to a girlfriend's house.. when you're really hanging out with a guy.. just make sure the girlfriend in question knows your plan so it doesn't backfire on you.
He might already like you more as a friend if he's sad about you not hanging out with him. He might have gotten the wrong idea. Sometimes girls will make up tons of excuses to not hang out with someone, and even though you're probably telling him in truth.. he might think you're lying. Why not try to include him into some of your already made plans? Ask him if he wants to come with you if you're already going to the mall or something with another friend.
Better yet, next time he asks you to do something with him and your busy explain to him what you're doing and such and then ask if you can do whatever it is with him on Monday, or Tuesday. So then your plans are all set and such.
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