i am a love relations genius. ive got a girlfriend. we have been going out for 4 months and we havent had many disputes. i enjoy playing my guitar and my bass guitar. i enjoy swimming. if you have any questions that need to be answered asap instant message me at styx fan 365. i make friends very easy. i like to listen to punk rock and classic rock. ive helped many people with their love relationships. come on just give me a chance. i love my girlfriend verry much. i have blonde hair and blue eyes. im about 5 foot 8 inches tall and enjoy running on the track team.
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Location: millstadt
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Age: 15
AIM: styx fan 365
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Last Update: February 24, 2007
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Alright, so I love my boyfriend very VERY much.. and I know that if I ask him if he wants to have sex, he'll say yes. Now, I want to and all, and I'm ready.. Buuuut.. I'm wondering about other people's opinion on having sex at a young age. I'm 15, he's 16, we're both virgins.. and we've been going out for 3 months, but we've known and liked each other for a year. We were best friends during all that time, and even if he weren't my boyfriend, I think I would have still had sex with him because we're just very close like that.
My question is, what is your opinion though? Should we just do it now, in a year, when we're married.. and why? Thanks :) (link)
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i think u should wait at least like five or six more months. my ex g/f and i dated for 9 months or so before we even considered sex. we decided not too and then fought about somethign stupid and broke up a week later. i personally think your too early into a relationsip.
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Ok so me and my boyfriend are wicked close been together for over 7 months hes older than me. I have a cousin me and her have been best friends since we were born she's 2 years older than me. So my boyfriend is unlike any other guy. I can trust him, but sometimes i wonder if hes really to good to be true. So him and my cousin are talking. I feel like they are trying to keep it a secret from me. I know because me and my cousin both have eachothers myspace e-mails and passwords. So out of curiosity, I wasnt even exspecting to see them talking, but they were. So i log onto her myspace look at her messages and i saw one from my boyfriend i read it and it didnt say anything bad but I got kind of jealous. My boyfriend and cousin are closer to age than me and him. She is wicked pretty and thinner. Im not fat but I have the athletic body and when im with her i always compare my body to hers. So I just found out recently that hes messageing her instead of her starting the conversation. So now im scared. He is so different from any normal guy. My parents and whole family trusts him.
So im wondering maybe he might be to good to be true?
Do you think im over reacting about this?
Anything would help
PLEASE! :)
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sorry if my answer isnt that great, but im a little out of it right now. chances are that if he is a good b/f to you he is just trying to meet new friends. if u find that he might start getting to know her better then he may be trying to find someone he can possibly turn to if you and him ever brake up, but im not 100% sure about that. hope i helped somewat.
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hey guys.. i have a problem. My really close friend since 2 years has been cutting herslef and i only found out in September this year. I ALWAYS tell her to stop because its not good for her but she wont! I ask her why and she would never give me a straight answer or she would just change the subject. I recalled her saying that one of the reason she does it is because shes muslim and ever since 9/11 some people have been very racsit about it, saying that ALL musilm people are like that. She never tells me when something is bugging her and i really care for her but im not sure how i can help her. No, im not going to an older person about it because i know she doesnt want anyone to know abotu it. Her legs are really scarred from it. Can anyone give me any ideas of how i can convince her to stop? (BTW she doesnt listen to anyone when they tell her)
Thanks alot for listening and any advice is greatly appreciated.
-Krazy (link)
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well i know from experience. yeah i started because of an ex girl friend. the whole reason i stopped was to get her back, but my friends had tried to tell me to stop and i didnt listen to them until they just quit talking to me and told me to leave them alone until i quit cause they didnt like me doing that sort of stuff to myself. when my parents found out they took my knives away, soo yeah. i dont know if i helped, but i tried.
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i dont no how to make out help me!!!! (link)
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chill, dont freak out, about a year ago i was in your same situation. just wait for the moment, and go alogn with it, thats wut i did. and yeah, make sure you have breathmints. at first its sort of a big deal, but after awhile it isnt. trust me, you will get used to it, each person has their own style. ive figured that out. if anything just google it up and you should find some stuff about it.
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I have been with this girl for 4 months now. We have everything in common. We loved eachother very much. We did everything together. We were soulmates. However, She has seen a pornsite on my computer and has broken down and left me saying we are only seperated. I am not addicted. I normal male like all others whose curiosity got the better of him. I have told her That I got rid of the net. That I promise never to do it again that i want to spend the rest of my life with her. i cried when she left. It has been almost two weeks now. How can I win her back. How can i get her to give us a second chance. I lover her and she was all I had. Please help me. I can't go on without her. (link)
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hey dude, i know ho wu feel. just let her know how much u love her and try to apologize to her and let her know that u want to live with her forever. im 14 so i cant really help ya.
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14/f I like this guy...alot and we're friends. We see each other and talk a lot but my question is if I should tell him or not because from past experiences when someone found out i liked them they stopped talking to me...I'm just starting to be friends again with one of my best friends from two years ago so I dont want this to happen again what should i do?
I rate high
thanks (link)
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i asked one of my friends and this is wut she said, "well this girl can relate to me and may i tell her that it is extremely tough to deal with it all - maybe she could find out if he lieks her - have a friend ask or make a new email and send him messages as someone else(with this persons permission of course) - or she could take the risk - take a deep breath and jump in - a real friend even if they werent interested wouldnt let this effect them - who knows maybe he likes her back"
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alright so here it is. I'm going out with this girl and i had my first kiss with her and like all the rest of my kisses and i like really really really like her right and we went to the movies for a christmas date and i realized that i thought i really loved her and now i cant sleep and all i can do is think of her. And i get this feeling that ive never felt. And i want to now if this is like real love because i can see myself getting married with her and everything. (link)
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what do ya know you are just like me. too me it sounds like true love. just dont rush your relationship or you will most likely get slapped. i feel the same way about my g/f. it sounds like real love. hope i helped
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hey, i just got a electric guitar for christmas. does anyone know any easy songs i can play on it??
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it depends on the type of music you like. punk rock is mostly in power chords. a good site to get tabs from is guitarmasta.net. thats where i get my tabs, i got my first electric guitar in november. its a fender stratocaster.
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ok there is this guy that i like but he is like 2 years younger than me cause im 15 and he is 13 and i dont know if i should go out with him cause it would be kinda weird cause we go to separt schools and the age difference so should i give him a change anyway ?? (link)
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i would give him a chance because im 14 and my g/f is 12, soon to be 13, but im in 8th grade and shes in 7th grade and we get along just fine.
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Does anybody know if it is possible for someone who is not photogenic to be able to take a good picture? I hear all the time from friends, my boyfriend, my family, and random people off the street that I am beautiful. Some even have asked me if I have modeled before. But for some reason, I can not take a picture. It is driving me crazy. I really want to be able to take a good picture. Whenever I am with friends and they try to take a picture..they go, "I just don't understand..how can you be so pretty in real life and look so bad in a picture?" It is driving me crazy. Does anybody else have this problem? Is there a way to overcome this? Thanks so much!
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im 14 and im a guy and i have the same problem. my g/f and family and my g/f's friends say im handsome but i somehow always screw up the picture. i wish i could help but i cant. im just saying there are other people with this problem and its not just you.
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my bf is wonderful. I care for him alot...i don't know about love..but i care for him alot. The thing is, whenever I am with him, like at the movies, or at zoo lights, i love it when we just cuddle. I feel so safe when he has his arms around me and i just sleep on him, or just relax on him. I am not really that much into kissing. His best friend is my guy friend and when i talk to him on the phone, he says that my bf tells him that he likes me alot alot but he wants to kiss me more. So i went to the movies with him yesterday and we saw King Kong. It was like 3 hours. For the first two hours we just cuddled. I couldn't bring myself to kiss him for some reason. I kept on getting texts from my guy friend saying kiss him now, do it now..so i made out with him for like 10 seconds, then i went back to cuddling. is it so wrong to just want to cuddle? i don't understand what is wrong with me, why can't i bring myself to make out with him for a long time? (link)
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im 14 and i just made out for the first time 2 days ago. it was only like 20 sec long but it was pleasureable. one of the reasons may be you just arent that far into your realtionship and you dont feel ready to make out. i felt the same way but a waited a few weeks later and it was nice. also your friend was preasuring you to so that could have been a reason. hope i helped
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For my boyfriend's birthday, I got him a gag gift.. and then i got him a polo from American Eagle. But I'm having second thoughts as to whether or not he will like it.. do guys like getting clothes as a gift? (link)
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its the thought that counts.
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Hey, I'm having people over, and I was trying to think of a good scary movie. Any ideas?
Easy 5 for good movies
xox ♥ (link)
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if you want a disturbing movie get saw. its not scarry, just disturbing. ive been told the grudge is scarry but when i watched it it didnt scare me, but im used to watching movies like that.
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alright well im 13/f and still prude.. and there's this guy i like and thinks im not purde and wants to hookup with me.. but im kinda nervous and idk what about..how can i not be nervous and just do it?? i appreciate any help and i will rate fives (link)
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just let him kiss you.
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I'm kinda worried about something. I haven't had that many "kisses" in life, *make out ones* but i def. have had some. How do you know whether the guy wants to make out or not? DO you open or close when he goes it, it's kinda confusing to me....?
TIPS ON KISSING TOO??
boys-TIPS? :] (link)
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i know how you feel. my gf and i made out for the first time 2 days ago in a laser tag arena. i was worried about it too but really when you start it just comes naturally. yesturday her parents werent home so we went over there and made out all day. it just comes naturally and i kept trying to get advice on how to make out relly well. turns out it just comes from the heart and you will enjoy it. i didnt really pay too much attention, but i was just having fun. i would suggest next time you are kissing just slip him the tongue and if you dont want to lead just sort of hint to him that you want to make out. hope i helped
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So my guy friends girlfriend broke up with him a couple months ago. Which doesn`t seem like a big deal, but the day she broke up with him she went to another guys house and "did stuff" with him. Which totally broke my friends heart. Since then, his ex has gotten into drugs, had sex, and given in to upper class men.. My friend and his ex had not talked since, other than arguing and accusations.. But he finally just started having normal conversations with her again. I was talking to him tonight and he told me he`s still in love with her. Hes asking me for advice, but I don`t know what to tell him on this one. She`s not right for him at all. Totally wrong..
Please help me, he`s coming to me asking for advice.. It just hurts me to know that he`s in love with someone who has treated him so bad, because I care for him so much. I don`t know whether to tell him to go after her again or to just give up all together..
I would appreciate your help.
Sincerely, Hopelessly confused.. (link)
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i would tell him that if she gave him up for drugs and sex to not go back out with her because she might do it again and break his heart.
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ok well...my friends brother likes me....2 days ago he flet me up and sucked my boobs.. i cant tell my friend and i feel so bad... i dont know what to do (link)
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ok i admit i am a little stumped here. sorry for not replying so quickly but my comp has been acting up so i havent been on. i would just try to act like nothing happened but sometimes it doesnt work. do you like the kid cause if you do and you are not going out with anyone i would ask him out. in a love relation if the boy really likes you he would listen to you so if you did ask him out just tell him not to do it again.
i hope i helped
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hey everyone my girlfriend and i are coming up on two years i thought that maybe i would make her a CD with songs that make me think of her is this a good idea and if you think it is can u tell me some up to date good love songs and any other ideas we are only 16 too thanks ill rate (link)
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one classic love song is "wonderful tonight" by eric clapton. it never gets old.
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Ok theres this guy who is my friend, we hang out alot, and i REALLY like him, i mean more than ive ever liked any one in my whole life! Im fairly shure he likes me 2, but he has a g/f, and is happy with her, i mean im really happy for him, but what do i do? (oh and he knows i like him...) i rate 5's! (link)
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i would just wait awhile and see if they break up. if they do ask him out.
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I was just wondering what everyone thinks about love? I don't believe in love and was just wondering what everyone else thought about it. (link)
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i believe in love. me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 months and we LOVE each other. we are trying not to take our relatinship fast. 2 days ago we kissed for the first time so i do believe in love.
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