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my cousin my boyfriend and myspace, all together
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Ok so me and my boyfriend are wicked close been together for over 7 months hes older than me. I have a cousin me and her have been best friends since we were born she's 2 years older than me. So my boyfriend is unlike any other guy. I can trust him, but sometimes i wonder if hes really to good to be true. So him and my cousin are talking. I feel like they are trying to keep it a secret from me. I know because me and my cousin both have eachothers myspace e-mails and passwords. So out of curiosity, I wasnt even exspecting to see them talking, but they were. So i log onto her myspace look at her messages and i saw one from my boyfriend i read it and it didnt say anything bad but I got kind of jealous. My boyfriend and cousin are closer to age than me and him. She is wicked pretty and thinner. Im not fat but I have the athletic body and when im with her i always compare my body to hers. So I just found out recently that hes messageing her instead of her starting the conversation. So now im scared. He is so different from any normal guy. My parents and whole family trusts him.
So im wondering maybe he might be to good to be true?
Do you think im over reacting about this?
Anything would help
PLEASE! :)
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I know a lot of people will probably tell you to talk to them about it..well,no.
If you tell them, they'll probably both take it the wrong way and then you'll all be mad.
They'll both feel you don't trust them, & your boyfriend would probably be thinking that you think he's not supposed to be talking to any other girls.
But anyways, just let it go if he's not saying anything out of line to her. If he does, then confront him, but other than that you just have to trust him [I understand youre jealous] But this is one of the reasons that a relationship is NOTHING without trust, because if you don't trust them, you're constantly worrying about him leaving you, and that's no fun.
Good luck!<3 jessikah
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Any girl would feel the same way about it, so don't feel as if you are overreacting about this. I say you talk to him and your cousin about this. Tell them both at the same time in person how exactly you feel and how you found out about them talking more. You've been together for 7 months, so I'm pretty sure you feel very comfortable around him. And you've known your cousin since the day you were born, so you should feel extra comfortable around her! Hope everything works out!
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sorry if my answer isnt that great, but im a little out of it right now. chances are that if he is a good b/f to you he is just trying to meet new friends. if u find that he might start getting to know her better then he may be trying to find someone he can possibly turn to if you and him ever brake up, but im not 100% sure about that. hope i helped somewat.
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