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Hi, I have been trying for awhile to figure out how to make my vagina more attractive. When I shave I get razor bumps and the removal of hair doesn't seem to last very long. I haven't tried waxing but I'm a bit scared of the pain. And I would rather not go somewhere to get it done because that's kind of embarassing having someone go down their and fix the mess. Please help me find the answer to my problem, I am now willing to try ANYTHING. Thanks a lot.
i use nair. it works really good. if you use it on your legs do it for 3 minutes. if youre doing it on your vagina & bikini line, do it for 6-7 minutes because the hair down there is thicker. it works REALLY well. the hair stubs come out around the next 2-3 days. if you see little stubs coming out, then just use nair again for another 6-7 minutes, even if it is a little bit of hair.
you can get nair and drug stores.
I'm 15, 5"6' and i weigh 130 pounds. i'm all legs, if i put my hand right under my boob it reaches my a little bit past my hip. when i sit down i get rolls, like three of them. and i don't know if its because i have the smallest torso known to man kind or because im fat.
you are not overweight. this is how it works:
if you are 5 feet your ideal weight is 100 lbs.
every inch taller than 5 feet, add 5 lbs.
for example - 5'1, 105 lbs. 5'2, 110 lbs. etc.
everyone should be 5 lbs within their ideal weight, and you are right on target. you are probably getting rolls when you sit down because you don't have a flat stomach. doing crunches should help your stomach. try doing 10 crunches tonight, and then add 5 crunches every night. your stomach might hurt the first few days but this is because you are gaining muscle which is very good. by the end of the week you probably won't feel anything because your body is getting used to it. you will see beautiful results in 4 weeks.
in april i am going to florida and i want to look a lot skinnier. im not fat but im not very skinny. i have a membership to a gym that i usually go to but im gunna try going 5 times a week and im also on a diet. im also trying to get abs by april but im not sure if thats possible. what do i have to do to make me look a lot skinnier and possible get abs by the end of april? also what are some excersies that you would remomend?
thank you so much
I'm going to Florida too! =) One excersize that I do is the Ab Chair Lounge. If you go here, you can get it for only $30.
http://www.amazon.com/Ab-Lounge-2-Abdominal-Exerciser/dp/B0001KRXDQ
All you do is sit on it, put your feet on the two black things as shown in the picture, grab the black rope and just do sit ups, it's very easy. i do 10 minutes every night. for the first 3 days my stomach hurt a lot, but i got used to it. you can start out with 5 minutes a day, then add a minute as each day goes on.
i listen to music while i do this because it makes the time go by faster.
have fun & florida! and don't forget to wear spf lotion!
On facebook if you want to report a group because it is not apporiate, will other people see if you reported it?
No. The only people who see who reported it, are the people who run facebook.
13/f
Ok so me and my boyfriend are wicked close been together for over 7 months hes older than me. I have a cousin me and her have been best friends since we were born she's 2 years older than me. So my boyfriend is unlike any other guy. I can trust him, but sometimes i wonder if hes really to good to be true. So him and my cousin are talking. I feel like they are trying to keep it a secret from me. I know because me and my cousin both have eachothers myspace e-mails and passwords. So out of curiosity, I wasnt even exspecting to see them talking, but they were. So i log onto her myspace look at her messages and i saw one from my boyfriend i read it and it didnt say anything bad but I got kind of jealous. My boyfriend and cousin are closer to age than me and him. She is wicked pretty and thinner. Im not fat but I have the athletic body and when im with her i always compare my body to hers. So I just found out recently that hes messageing her instead of her starting the conversation. So now im scared. He is so different from any normal guy. My parents and whole family trusts him.
So im wondering maybe he might be to good to be true?
Do you think im over reacting about this?
Anything would help
PLEASE! :)
Any girl would feel the same way about it, so don't feel as if you are overreacting about this. I say you talk to him and your cousin about this. Tell them both at the same time in person how exactly you feel and how you found out about them talking more. You've been together for 7 months, so I'm pretty sure you feel very comfortable around him. And you've known your cousin since the day you were born, so you should feel extra comfortable around her! Hope everything works out!
does anybody know of greattt layout pages?
please dont say something like createblog. for myspace
Whateverlife.com
hi im 13. i started masturbating when i was like 12.it feels good for like 2 min. then my "thing" starts to pound hard and i dont want to do it anymore. i have checked out all the websites i still dont know what to do plzz help
thank for the advice =)
this is natural and normal. it happens to everyone. there's nothing to be worried about.
im kinda fail complected so basically i can tan pretty ok-ish haha but i cant hold it at all! my tan was pretty much gone by like november. i was thinkin about goin to a tannin bed a couple times a week for a month before i go to the beach so i wont look albino and get burnt as soon as i get there. will it be safe to go as long as i use sunscreen every time and dont use accelerator or at least not one without sunscreen in it.
by the way is there a cure for skin cancer? bc i was burned quite often when i was younger and am scared of dying young because of it.
and please dont say bronzers or w/e bc ive tried all different kinds and they turn me orange and ive tried the lotion and it works ok but its soo much trouble to put all over me every other day and i dont wanna worry about that on vacation and that gets expensive anyway.
16-f.
I go tanning at Beach Bum and they provide me with everything I need - I have bought my own suntan lotion, body lotion, and body wash from there. All of these items contain bronzers in them to not only keep your tan, but to make you even darker. If you don't have a Beach Bum near you, then I'm pretty sure any tanning salon would have tanning-related stuff, such as the things I listed. And as for going a few times a week for a month - at Beach Bum they give you tons of options! You can try 5 different levels. (I forgot the name of the levels, but they give out handouts there and will tell you which one will make you darker. But remember the ones that make you darker are the ones that cost more) and they have plans such as unlimited tanning for one month on any level. And sooo much more!
how come that almost all of the people i know that own sidekicks, only use the sidekick for aim and texting and not as a regular phone? it seems as though most people have a seperate phone for calling people.
but why don't alot of people use the sidekick 3 as a regular phone? is it because of the large size?
i can't have 2 phones, so will i look like an idiot if i use the sidekick for texting AND talking on the phone and calling people??
From my point of view, not at all. I think it's smarter to use ONE phone for texting, AIM, and phone calls. You won't have to carry around two phones, so it'll be a lot easier.
Am I the only one alive who thinks it's terrible that kids (13-16) are having sex? I'm only 18, but when I was 13, I was riding my bike and doing karate, not giving blowjobs on the school bus. But thats the norm now, and if you haven't had sex by the time you're 17, you must be ugly or way religeous. What on earth!? Am I the only one disgusted by this trend?
omg yes i have tons of friends who have gone way past 3rd base, and they're my age. (13) and i havent even had my first hookup yet! and boy am i proud and have a lot of respect for myself. a lot more than they do!
The guy that I’ve fancied for quiet a while now recently hooked up with this new girl in out class. To be honest she is fun and nice and they make a nice couple but a few days ago we had a school disco and I just couldn’t help but feel jealous. We’ve never been close but I always wished we were and watching the two of them dance to the last song which was the only slow song I realized that I really want to be in her shoes. The next day some of the girls were telling her that he told one of his friends that he would sleep with her when she is ready and apparently he was very nice and considerate about it. At that moment I just wished I were his first one and then got thinking about it. I even thought of trying to get like friendly with him so to break them up but now I feel guilty for even thinking it, because it’s something that I consider low and cruel especially since I think they are a good couple. So now I just don’t know what to do, on one hand I want to be with him on the other I don’t see how I could be with him by playing fair. What should I do?
nothing is never too late. do not even bother listening to those people. my uncle got married, had a child then divorced his wife. then married another woman, had 3 children & then divorced that wife & re-married his first wife & had 2 more kids with his first wife. so NOTHING is impossible. all of this happened with prayer. so all you have to do with pray and hope and whatever you think is right in your mind you should do. as time goes on, become more friendly and flirty, but don't make it too obvious until you know that he 100% likes you back
good luck with everything!
Hello my name is Rachel. I am 13. I met this guy named Bret recently. Hes amazing and exstremly hott. We've been talking and he told me he likes me. But theres a three years age diffrence you see hes 16. So I dont know if were gonna date. Hes past girlfriends have been models and exstremly pretty..Its not that i'm ugly but I cant compaire to them. He tells this girl Mellisa that he loves her so much they talk all the time but they are just friends. I guess maybe i'm getting jealous easy. But I dont know what to do cause I really like him but i'm not sure if i have a chance or anything. Help Please?
You definitely have a chance! I agree with the other girls down there! Just keep in touch with him and everyone gets jealous, don't worry babe! My parents are 3 years apart too, almost 4. And my grandparents are THIRTY years apart. when they got married my gma was 18 and he was 48. so you DEFINITELY have a chance with this guy! hope all goes well
ok i really want to lose about 35-50pounds.im 5'8 and 170 lbs.am i to big.every one says im not fat because i cary it really well.and i do.also there is this guy i really like could this be a reason he does not like me?pleazz tell me any good diets to stay on.i run 1 mile every morning and eat preety good.i am in basketball and run about 8 laps around our football field every day in athletics.thanxxx
13/f
you are overweight.
every inch after 5 feet is 5 lbs
for example, 5'1 = 105 lbs
so your ideal weight should be 140
hey! 16/f
so my good friend joe and i were hangin out tonight with his little brother and my cousin. well my cousins parents were gone so we were being all crazy and joe always takes my stuff like my keys and my cell phone so i have to go chase him and like flirt with him in order to get it. joe has a GIRLFRIEND and he claims to really love her but i dont know. joes like a really good friend but I wish we could be something more and im not sure if he gets the hint because one time it was me and his little brother in the same room and hes like OooOh you like joe i know you do and im like uhh no we are just best friends as we call each other and so i dont know if he was just saying that or he could tell that i did. the problem is im a HUGE flirt too. i cant tell him i have feelings for him..im just not that way and it will be awkward and it would ruin our strong friendship but i have REALLY strong feelings for him. he always like talks to me about his girlfriend and like gets advice from me. like tonight hes like allright we have to have a talk so we went in the parents bedroom and he locked the door and it was just me and him talking =) and like when i was standing in front of him turned away i know he was staring at my ass and he like always looks at me! i know he sees me as a friend but then he was like always touching me and flirting and laying right next to me and hes always "punching my stomach lightly" and we did a handshake and we kinda held hands. well like i was trying to get my keys back they were in his pocket and i went to grab them and he like grabbed my hand and we linked hands together like him trying to hold me back it was the cutest thing ever and it felt like we were boyfriend/girlfriend. stuff like that always happens he always grabs me and holds me when i try to get my stuff back from him! i just dont know. please dont tell me to talk to him about it im not going to. but is there anything else i can do? and please dont suggest to wait it out and if they breakup he will go to YOU! the problem is i have a feeling they will be going out for a loong time. i dont want to get over him i like being around him but its hard for me at the same time..
sounds to me you really like him. you should really just start hanging out a LOT more with him, call him more, talk to him more. but just not to the point where he thinks it's stalker-ish. anytime he brings up the subject on his gf and asks for advice on her, just make it seem obvious that you don't want to talk to about her and that you want the attention on you. for example, if he asks for advice about her you can be like 'well, i'm not really sure on that' and then bring up something about yourself like 'so joe, like my new necklace' or create a new hairstyle and be like 'do you like my new hair?!' and just start being more touchy. like, hold his hands even more & run your fingers through his hair and when you catch him staring at your ass again or any other body part, be the HUGE flirt that you are and say 'i know you want it' with a little cute face or like stick out your tongue - acting all innocent. hope i helped!
I was wondering if anyone knew who sang a song I think (Im not that sure it`s called this) CHAIN HANG LOW. I know it`s a rap song & it`s kinda like skids sing it that`s all I know.
hahaha i love that song, it's on my friend's myspace..but yeah it's by jibbs =]
okay. i am 5'8". do you think that is too tall for some guys. the guys that are about my height. i mean. i would prefer a taller guy. but it doesnt really matter. are taller girls a turn off for guys?
haha i used to feel the same way [im only 13 & 5'11"] but don't worry about it because there was this survey in cosmogirl & they asked 20,000 guys if taller girls were a turnoff && 98% said no. so overall, don't worry - your height is like a little bit over average .. but if it makes you feel any better, i know two girls that are waaaay taller than me ; 12 years old at 6'2" and 14 years old at 6'4" =]
I've been hanging out with this boy for about a year and a half now. We onyl recently started hanging out alot. He comes to my window late at night & it seems like he tries to spend as much time with me as he can - even if it means him getting in trouble for being out of his house at like 3:00 in the morning. But when I'm with him, he says really hurtful things sometimes. Like, he'll tell me he loves me, but then a little while later he'll say something horrible about me or the way I do things or look. & he's completely obsessed with sex .. I don't know what to think.
I agree with the other advicenators. He's probably just trying to get close with you until he gets what he wants.
i'm a female, 15. and i have some girl friends around my same age that have already lost their virginity. me and my boyfriend almost had sex too but i said no.. but i think the only reason was because i know he's had sex before w/ this other girl and that kind of made me uncomfortable for different reasons. how do i know when i'm completely ready for sex? and how long is a good time to wait to have sex with my boyfriend? and is 15 way to young to lose your virginity? and wow that was a lot of questions :) haha thanks.
Hey! Did you know the legal age to have sex is 18? && to know when you're completely ready to have sex is when you're not questioning yourself 'am i ready to lose my virginity at such a young age?' I suggest you wait until you are 100% ready and you're not questioning. But if you do decide to have sex, remember to ALWAYS wear protection. And also, ask your friends how they feel about not being virgins. Do they regret that they gave their bodies at such a young age? Are they still with the person they had sex with? Talk to them about it, they'll help you out.