The guy that I’ve fancied for quiet a while now recently hooked up with this new girl in out class. To be honest she is fun and nice and they make a nice couple but a few days ago we had a school disco and I just couldn’t help but feel jealous. We’ve never been close but I always wished we were and watching the two of them dance to the last song which was the only slow song I realized that I really want to be in her shoes. The next day some of the girls were telling her that he told one of his friends that he would sleep with her when she is ready and apparently he was very nice and considerate about it. At that moment I just wished I were his first one and then got thinking about it. I even thought of trying to get like friendly with him so to break them up but now I feel guilty for even thinking it, because it’s something that I consider low and cruel especially since I think they are a good couple. So now I just don’t know what to do, on one hand I want to be with him on the other I don’t see how I could be with him by playing fair. What should I do?
ineedadvice answered Friday October 27 2006, 4:47 pm: nothing is never too late. do not even bother listening to those people. my uncle got married, had a child then divorced his wife. then married another woman, had 3 children & then divorced that wife & re-married his first wife & had 2 more kids with his first wife. so NOTHING is impossible. all of this happened with prayer. so all you have to do with pray and hope and whatever you think is right in your mind you should do. as time goes on, become more friendly and flirty, but don't make it too obvious until you know that he 100% likes you back
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DD answered Thursday October 26 2006, 11:44 pm: There is absolutly nothing you can do. It's too late, and you should have made a move earlier. You'll just have to wait and see if they break up. I've beeen waiting 3 years for a guy to break up with another girl, whom i think is totally wrong for him, but anyhow, it's too late!!! [ DD's advice column | Ask DD A Question ]
Alpha345 answered Thursday October 26 2006, 10:59 pm: You can't do anything.
He has a girl that he fancies, and she fancies him, effectively leaving you out.
Sorry to say, but you can't do anything to break them up. If they break up on their own accord then you can do anything to get to him, but otherwise he is effectively off limits, lest you seem like a jerk by trying to break them up.
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