Question Posted Thursday February 22 2007, 4:17 pm
Alright, so I love my boyfriend very VERY much.. and I know that if I ask him if he wants to have sex, he'll say yes. Now, I want to and all, and I'm ready.. Buuuut.. I'm wondering about other people's opinion on having sex at a young age. I'm 15, he's 16, we're both virgins.. and we've been going out for 3 months, but we've known and liked each other for a year. We were best friends during all that time, and even if he weren't my boyfriend, I think I would have still had sex with him because we're just very close like that.
My question is, what is your opinion though? Should we just do it now, in a year, when we're married.. and why? Thanks :)
jealousyxo answered Thursday February 22 2007, 5:07 pm: I think you should wait a bit more.I know youve been best friends and liked each otehr for a year but youve only been with each other for 3 months and thats not a long time.Sex changes the relationship alot once you do it and its a big decision that you and your boyfriend have to make together.I would say wait another like 8 months i personally think 9 months to a year is when you should start thinking about having sex but thats just me.Its really whenever you think your ready and your both mature to handle whatever comes after it happens.Also,you should keep in mind if you end up getting pregnant are you going to be able to handle having and raising a child? you really need to think things through.But thats my opinion,its totally up to you on what you choose to do.Good Luck!
clouded_bluee answered Thursday February 22 2007, 5:04 pm: I think you should have sex whenever you and your partner feel are ready. There's no set age on when to have sex. Personally I think anything younger than 13-14 is too early, but it's all your preferance. Whatever you feel is right go for it, people these days think you should wait untill your like 40 years old to have sex. Hope I Helped :) [ clouded_bluee's advice column | Ask clouded_bluee A Question ]
vomski10 answered Thursday February 22 2007, 4:30 pm: well if you feel ready and you really love him. then do it.
personally, i think you should wait. because your young ya know? and you've only known him for a year and you've only been dating for 3 months. so i mean maybe you should wait a couple more months because you never know how can it effect your relationship and stuff, so wait a little longer and make your relationship stronger. and make sure you really do love him, i mean it's not called "making love" for any reason. plus your first time is supposed to be shared with someone really special to you
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